Shortcut to Attracting the Right Man

By Joan Ebilabor

A lot of marriages are facing serious challenges because many go into marriage without the right knowledge about marriage. People spend about four to five years learning and mastering a skill/profession but feel it’s not necessary to learn about marriage, neglecting the fact that having a good marriage starts with them. Having a good marriage starts with you.

This book is an eye-opener for a single lady who is preparing to get married soon. Everything that is needed to make your marriage work has to start with you.

In this book are practical formulas and laid down principles that will cause a mindset and perspective shift.

• Language: English
• Publisher: COMMUNE WRITERS INT'L
• Release date: Nov 28, 2022
• ISBN: 9791222029146

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SHORTCUT

TO ATTRACTING

THE RIGHT MAN

JOAN EBILABOR

SHORTCUT TO ATTRACTING THE RIGHT MAN

WRITTEN BY

JOAN EBILABOR

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COPYRIGHT (C) 2022

ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying, recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, without written permission from the author or publisher.

Published by:

COMMUNE WRITERS INT’L

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Published in the Federal Republic of Nigeria

CONTENTS

Dedication                                    i

Acknowledgement                              ii

Introduction                                    iv

Chapter 1

Knowing your Identity                        1

Chapter 2

Staying at the Well                              28

Chapter 3

Learning to be a 360° Leader                        41

Chapter 4

Understanding the mystery behind Sex            56

Chapter 5

The God Factor                              64

About the Author                              73

DEDICATION

I dedicate this book to the Almighty God- the giver of life and mind-blowing testimonies.

Also, to the husband of my youth Pastor Jude Ebilabor and to every single ladies out there looking forward to getting married the right way.

It is my belief that having a blissful home is possible and such joy shall never elude you all. Amen.

ACKNOWLEDGEMENT

Many thanks to my husband who made it easy for me to fulfill the scriptures maritally, by getting married with the bed undefiled. My sincere appreciation to you, my sweetheart, Jude Ebilabor.

You're making this journey of marriage a walk in the park for me, you're also supportive and you've given me the opportunity to become an extraordinary mom. God bless you, greatly.

I can't thank my children enough- Divine Jude, Praise Jude, Emmanuel Jude, and Emmanuella Jude for their understanding and support all through my time on this project. Without your support all, I wouldn't have been able to do this.

Many thanks goes to Mrs. Ajagbawa for housing me, treating me like your own, and supporting me so that I can live the God kind of life before marriage.

To the late Rev Obioma and mama Obioma, Rev. Chiji Asonye and Mrs Patricia Asonye, it will be bad of me if I do not acknowledge your effort and contribution to making me who I am today. Thank you so much, everyone. Your efforts are not in vain. And will never be.

To my stepmom- Mrs Alice Emetie who has always been there for me since I was a baby. This is me saying Thank you from my heart.

INTRODUCTION

More often than not, singles are usually faced with heart breaks and disappointments because they lack the right knowledge on how to attract their ideal partner and get married quickly.

One out of the numerous reasons is that most ladies battle with Identity issues. Some may have concluded that good guys are scarce.

Well, inasmuch as I would love to agree with you on this (judgement), I would also want to let you know that good guys and ladies are only scarce because most single ladies have decided to go their own way, do things their own way, and fold their hands, waiting for the right man. They do these, forgetting that the waiting period is a work period. It's okay to say you have been praying about this and that you have faith. I hope you do remember that faith without work is dead!

Men's formula;

Prayer + go to church - work/preparation             = Disappointment/Shame.

God's Formula;

Prayer + works/preparation = Results/Testimonies.

Your belief in what is right isn't enough to make your dream(s) come through, you need to put in the work! The law of attraction states that Likes attracts likes, this may sound awkward to you but it's a fact. This law