Alone with Jesus

By Stephen Gabriel

Many spiritual writers recommend using a book to assist us in our mental prayer. We can read a few lines and then bring them to our conversation with Our Lord. Indeed, many saints have urged us to take the Gospels to our prayer. Saint Ambrose said, "We have been given Sacred Scripture so that God and man may talk together; for we speak to Him wh

• Language: English
• Publisher: Moorings Press
• Release date: Apr 25, 2022
• ISBN: 9780982766262

Stephen Gabriel

Stephen Gabriel was born in Quincy, Massachusetts. The son of a merchant sea captain and a homemaker, he moved with his parents and five siblings to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, and then to the Panama Canal Zone, where he attended high school. He graduated from Loyola University of Chicago with a B.A. in economics. He received an M.S. in finance and a Ph.D. in agricultural economics from the University of Illinois.He is a retired economist with the federal government. In 1986, he coauthored an award-winning book entitled "Financing the Agricultural Sector: Future Challenges and Policy Alternatives" (Westview Press).Over the years, he has written for "New Covenant," a magazine of Catholic Spirituality, and "Our Sunday Visitor." Gabriel has written three books on fatherhood: "To Be a Father: 200 Promises That Will Transform You, Your Marriage, and Your Family" (Moorings Press, 2010) and "Speaking to the Heart: A Father's Guide to Growth in Virtue" (Moorings Press, 2011). His most recent book is "The Indispensable Dad: A Guide to Cultivating Family Happiness, Virtue, and Success" (Scepter Publishers 2020). He also edited a book on Catholic apologetics entitled "Catholic Controversies: Understanding Church Teachings and Events in History" (Moorings Press, 2010). He recently wrote a book for grandparents entitled "Hope for your Grandchildren: Talking to the Third Generation About What Matters" (Scepter Publishers).Gabriel lives in Falls Church, Virginia, with his wife, Peggy. They have eight adult children and 34 grandchildren (at this writing!).

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Introduction

Many spiritual writers recommend using a book to assist us in our mental prayer. We can read a few lines and then bring them to our conversation with Our Lord. Indeed, many saints have urged us to take the Gospels to our prayer. Saint Ambrose said, We have been given Sacred Scripture so that God and man may talk together; for we speak to Him when we pray; we hear Him when we read the divine saying.¹ More recently, Saint Josemaria Escriva counseled, Do you want to learn from Christ and follow the example of his life? Open the Holy Gospels and listen to God dialoguing with men—with you.²

The considerations in this book were written to help me improve my prayer. I hope they can help you as well. Select a topic that you would like to consider with Our Lord, and prayerfully read the related Gospel passages. Then you may wish to reflect on the considerations that follow. Some may resonate with you. Pay attention to those and take them to your conversation with Jesus. At times, you will not have specific words to express to Our Lord. This is a time for your heart to rest in him. It is enough to simply be with him, knowing that he is with you. You are keeping each other company. It is important to take the time to listen to what Our Lord is saying. He certainly speaks to us in the Gospels, but he also speaks to us in the silence of our souls. If we do not take the time to listen to him, we may miss the inspirations he is communicating to us. So, silently putting ourselves in God’s presence and raising our hearts and minds to him can bear much enduring fruit.

May your Gospel reading, your time alone with Jesus, and your intimate conversation bring you closer to him and lead to a deep and abiding friendship.

Prioritizing Praying

Priority of Prayer

Now as they went on their way, he entered a village; and a woman named Martha received him into her house. And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. But Martha was distracted with much serving; and she went to him and said, Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me. But the Lord answered her, Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things; one thing is needful. Mary has chosen the good portion, which shall not be taken away from her. (Luke 10: 38-42)

Considerations

My instinct is to sympathize with Martha. Mary’s idleness offends my sense of fairness. But Jesus uses this situation to teach us an important lesson.

Mary is at prayer listening to the words of Our Lord. He makes it clear that Mary’s prayer takes priority over mere activity.

My activity at work and around the house can be a prayer if I offer it to God and strive to do it very well.

Jesus sought out Mary and Martha to spend time with them. He regularly seeks me out as well. How receptive am I to his overtures?

Jesus, I need to spend more time alone conversing with you in mental prayer.

Lord, help me to recognize when I do not give my time of prayer the priority it deserves.

Forgive me for not making time for those daily conversations with you, Jesus.

Prayer

"Pray then like this:

Our Father who art in heaven,

Hallowed be thy name.

Thy kingdom come,

Thy will be done,

    On earth as it is in heaven.

Give us this day our daily bread;

And forgive us our debts,

    As we also have forgiven our debtors;

And lead us not into temptation,

But deliver us from evil." (Matthew 6: 9-13)

Considerations

Jesus tells us how to pray very concisely in the Our Father. I will try to dwell on the different aspects of the guide he has given us.

I adore you my God, and I praise you. Help me to seek unity with you now and forever.

Lord, I want to do your will always. Please give me the grace to know your will for me.

I am dependent on you for everything, my God. Move me to acknowledge this truth each and every day.

Lord, give us leaders who will govern according to your will.

My God, you have blessed me abundantly. I need your blessings now more than ever. I ask you to continue showering your grace and blessings on me and my family.

Lord, you continue to forgive my sins and failings every time I seek your forgiveness in the Sacrament of Confession. I have let you down so many times, yet you never withdraw your friendship.

Help me to imitate you by forgiving those who have offended me. Give me the grace to forgive even before I am asked for forgiveness.

Lord, you know that I am weak and prone