How to Attract Anyone, Anywhere, In Any Situation

By Lucian Simon Ionesco

If you are one of those who cannot even attract flies in summer, do not worry, seduction is an art that can be learned and improves with practice. So what are you waiting for? You have two options: start reading this book now! Throw yourself into the street with the firm intention of seducing the first passerby. Although I recommend the first one better.

 

In addition, who am I? First, I would say that I am a confident, attractive, intelligent and obviously self-confident person. Although I have not always been like this. I was the typical self-conscious teenager, with dentures and glasses included, and although according to my grandmother they gave me a very cute air, I felt like a real ugly duckling.

 

I had to learn to love myself and exploit my strengths to like myself and pass it on to others. Well, the basis of all seduction begins with love and respect for oneself; It is impossible to seduce anyone if we do not have security and self-confidence.

 

For the last ten years, I have been working as a freelance journalist, writing about psychology and personal relationships. I currently teach courses on how to successfully seduce and interact in different areas of our lives: at work, with family, with friends.

 

In addition, from the experiences gathered in my seminars I have written this book, with which you will learn the keys of seduction to make those around you gradually lose the ability to resist your charm, without knowing how or why it has happened.

 

You will learn to always be on your guard, not to waste a moment to put your power of attraction into practice with anyone, anywhere and in any situation.

The simple techniques that I propose will allow you to face new contacts with confidence; communicate with them - often without saying a word! - And interpret their messages.

 

You'll learn everything you need to make a date, successfully interact with the opposite sex, or make exciting new friends; including how to converse assertively with anyone about anything; how to listen actively and engagingly; and how to say goodbye to negative feelings of self-rejection.

 

When you are done reading this book, you will have gained a lifetime of experience in just a few short hours. The stories are interesting to follow, and the challenging concepts have been made easy to understand. So get ready to broaden your horizons and adjust your expectations because you are in for one hell of a ride!

 

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• Language: English
• Publisher: Editorial Atelerix Creative Quill
• Release date: Apr 12, 2022
• ISBN: 9798201769017

Lucian Simon Ionesco

I'm 51-year-old; I have a degree in psychology, specializing in motivation and mental disorders.I'm a Brazilian Christian, and I define myself as straight, and I'm a vegetarian. I grew up in an upper-class neighborhood. I was raised by my father and my mother, having left when I was young. I'm currently single. My most recent romance was with an artist called Ophelia Dana Phillips, who was 12 years older than me. We broke up because Ophelia felt Lucian was too busy for the relationship. My best friend is a chorus actor called Keira Morales. We get on well most of the time. I also hang around with Glenn Rees and Arran Davis. We enjoy worship together. I have decided to start my work writing since currently, due to the pandemic, I require an additional income. With the support of the Atelerix publishing house, I want to start giving my general knowledge about everything I have studied in my city to swim all this time. I hope that you fully recognize my writing and support me, especially if you have a loved one you can support with my knowledge; I will be more than happy to support me with a review of my book.

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Introduction

If you are one of those who cannot even attract flies in summer, do not worry, seduction is an art that can be learned and improves with practice. So what are you waiting for? You have two options: start reading this book now! Throw yourself into the street with the firm intention of seducing the first passerby. Although I recommend the first one better.

In addition, who am I? First, I would say that I am a confident, attractive, intelligent and obviously self-confident person. Although I have not always been like this. I was the typical self-conscious teenager, with dentures and glasses included, and although according to my grandmother they gave me a very cute air, I felt like a real ugly duckling.

I had to learn to love myself and exploit my strengths to like myself and pass it on to others. Well, the basis of all seduction begins with love and respect for oneself; It is impossible to seduce anyone if we do not have security and self-confidence.

For the last ten years, I have been working as a freelance journalist, writing about psychology and personal relationships. I currently teach courses on how to successfully seduce and interact in different areas of our lives: at work, with family, with friends.

In addition, from the experiences gathered in my seminars I have written this book, with which you will learn the keys of seduction to make those around you gradually lose the ability to resist your charm, without knowing how or why it has happened. .

You will learn to always be on your guard, not to waste a moment to put your power of attraction into practice with anyone, anywhere and in any situation.

The simple techniques that I propose will allow you to face new contacts with confidence; communicate with them - often without saying a word! - And interpret their messages.

You'll learn everything you need to make a date, successfully interact with the opposite sex, or make exciting new friends; including how to converse assertively with anyone about anything; how to listen actively and engagingly; and how to say goodbye to negative feelings of self-rejection.

We all know people who live safe and comfortable in the role of being themselves, exerting a power of seduction that attracts many of the people around them. They are people with a special magnetism to attract others, a natural charm that inevitably provokes sympathy and admiration wherever they go.

They are people who slide freely through life, who know what they want and do not hesitate to always show their best smile to get it. You can become one of these people if you set your mind to it.

Selling ourselves has never been more necessary than in today's world of change and instability. Therefore, whether you are looking for a job, dealing with clients, or trying to expand and improve your personal relationships, you should try to be irresistible.

That others feel good by your side will depend on your ability to relate; being kind, considerate, knowing how to listen, looking into the eyes... are some aspects that you have to take into account to seduce and make others enjoy your company.

Knowing yourself well will allow you to make the most of your possibilities and try to overcome limitations such as shyness, which keeps you from opportunities and rewarding experiences that are within your reach; but that due to unrealistic thoughts and irrational fears you remove them from your life.

In addition, it is that social relations, which are so interesting for some people, produce anxiety or fear in others. If you are among the forty percent of the population that declares to be shy, read with special attention the chapter dedicated to controlling this feeling that paralyzes you and withdraws you in on yourself; your fear will decrease and the distorted image you had about yourself will transform into that of a sociable and charming person.

Whether it has to strike up a friendship, be promoted at work, or achieve an emotional and/or sexual relationship, seduction can be a very useful tool for our purposes if we use it intelligently. However, it is convenient not to abuse it; there are those who have the motto seduction for seduction's sake and turn their life into a continuous conquest, especially for sexual purposes. Such an attitude characteristic of the so-called «playboys» (and currently extended to the new «playgirls») can contain certain complexes and insecurities, so I advise you to make seduction an ingredient to live happily rather than a way of life.

Chapter 1 Discover your most seductive side

Iused to always go out with my friend Miguel because he is like a magnet for women. Whenever we went anywhere together, girls would come up to him and I would end up talking to one of them. I tried to imitate him: he talked about the topics that he suggested conquering them, he taught me his repertoire of compliments... but he always ended up messing up and boring my conquest. I did not discover my seductive charm until I met Adela. She was in a library, I was reading a book about Egypt, when she came up to me and whispered enthusiastically: This book is very good... I'm passionate about it. I suggested going out for coffee to exchange impressions and since then we have not parted ways. I got the best of my conquests and effortlessly being myself and talking about the things that really interest me! Matthew, 27 years old,

Learn to seduce

If you are one of those who still believes that seduction is an art or a gift that few have, you are very wrong. You do not have to be Rudolph Valentino or Mathai to be successful and liked by others, all you have to do is follow some of the instructions that I propose in this book... and you will begin to notice your power of attraction! The first step is to forget about the clichés that point to the handsome as the only experts in the field and begin to contemplate other fascinating tools of seduction, such as intelligent conversation, sparkling friendliness, a sense of humor, the suggestive look. ..

Although the physical is the first thing that attracts us to someone the first time we see them, the determining factor for a person to be seductive is their way of behaving with others and their attitude towards life. His appearance can be an initial stimulus to arouse our interest, but it is not enough, and by itself, it is not convincing or even demanding.

The great seducers, regardless of their external beauty, are people

Self-confident, their self-esteem is balanced, they are empathetic, and they connect easily with others and make people around them feel at ease.

Learning to seduce is easy as long as you learn the necessary steps and you are aware of the many possibilities available to you.

However, to attract others, you have to start by learning to seduce yourself first.

So, if the image that the mirror returns to you does not convince you, you doubt your virtues and you consider that you are not the best version of yourself, the time has come for you to start looking at yourself with affection, strengthen your self-esteem and learn to get make the most of your multiple qualities.

Watch your attitude!

Attitude greatly influences how others see us; an unfriendly expression

Bitter can completely neutralize your potential beauty or your power of seduction. On the other hand, if you get along with yourself and learn to relate to your own image, feeling comfortable with your appearance and the way you are, it is more likely that others will also find you attractive and charming.

The importance of flirting

Flirting is not synonymous with teasing, manipulating, or being frivolous. In fact, it is nothing more than the charming and honest expression of your interest in another person. It is a way to get attention in a fun way, seeking the complicity of someone you like or are attracted to. It is an exciting way to be noticed. Developing some flirtation skills can help you communicate your feelings, read other people's cues, and find fascinating friendships. The perfect seducer is nothing more than a conversationalist, friendly and pleasant, a charmer of people who lives and enjoys the moment, and who naturally relates to security and self-confidence. Flirting will allow you to successfully relate to others without embarrassment or fear of rejection.

Flirting is a subtle and playful skill that works its magic in any social setting. It will fill your life with interesting and attractive people; it will widen your social circle and make you more charming or enchanting in the eyes of those special men and women you have always wanted to meet, but never dared to approach.

Of course, flirting is not an asbestos suit; it is not going to protect you as an insulator from rejection. However, it will allow you to accept yourself as you are, it will make you more aware of the needs of others and it will give you all the social resources you need to reduce that rejection to a minimum.

Ultimately, flirting will turn your job into a fulfilling activity.

The guaranteed strategies in this book will help you create a crucial network of

Friendly contacts; that will be able to pave the way for you to achieve, by dint of

Charm, the job of your dreams. In this way, you will learn to seduce anyone, anywhere and at any time... be it in your workplace or in the wide world outside.

The idea that there is no perfect style of seduction can be daunting.

However, in its most elemental form, the secrets of every flirting master boil down to this: flirting is the delicate art of relating to others and letting others relate to you. There is no more.

The seducer in us cannot be an artificial creation. This book is here to help you rediscover the determined and adventurous person you already are, and in the process, become the best seducer you can be. It is not about trying to be someone you are not or playing the part of a movie star or a soap opera star. That never works. You have to create your own tools, look inside yourself and start making the most of your seductive potential.

Do you have what it takes to become a master of seduction? I know yes. Go ahead; there are only two requirements to start: relax and have fun.

The art of subtlety

Subtlety is the great skill of the seducer. Our strategy to seduce should never be obvious or aggressive. The art of charm consists of fascinating and bewitching the other person without them clearly perceiving your intentions, creating a halo of mystery, of doubt.

It is about the other person feeling comfortable with you and attracted by the way, you behave with them, but without being too direct or aggressive. Being too frank can be intimidating and seductive for the person we are attracted to, since they will be at the crossroads of having to decide whether they like you now.

On the other hand, if we are patient and we create a romantic climate, little by little, the other person will be carried away by the attractive power of our seduction. It is, therefore, about suggesting more than pressing, being subtle instead of being obvious, and making the other person end up surrendering to your charm, without knowing how it happened.

Of course, you have to make sure that your message of seduction is understood. If the other person does not notice your subtlety, it is time to be more direct; Send her increasingly obvious hints of your interest in her.

What kind of seducer are you?

Even if you do not know it, you have a real ability to seduce. In addition, that seductive me inside you can have an effect in any situation. However, to become the best possible conquerors it is essential to know what kind of seducers we already are. With this test, you will discover what your virtues and faults are in society, and you will learn to distinguish the traits that make you unique and that can serve to distinguish you from the crowd.

The important thing is that you know yourself well, explore inside yourself and learn to get the

Make the most of your skills in the field of seduction. Well only if you are

Aware of your communication skills you will be able to get the best out of yourself. Are you ready to come face to face with the seducer in you? Take a pencil and start. You may be surprised by what you discover...

What is your style?

1. The conversation with that person you just met starts to wind down. To save the situation, you...

a. ... you quit. If someone cannot talk to you, obviously it is because they do not

You interest him

b. ...reveal a fascinating detail about yourself and start making out with one of your

Interesting personal stories.

c. ... you tell him a great joke; you are so funny telling jokes!

d. ... you are looking for another person to chat. You cannot stand wasting time with someone

So boring.

and. ...pretend not to know anything about a topic your new friend seems to be into

An expert making someone feel smart is a good way to seduce him or her!

F. ...you prudently shut up. It does not add much to the conversation, but it's

Preferable to saying something inappropriate.

g. ...you wonder what the other person is thinking. I wish