The Last Man She’Ll Ever Date: A Man's Journey to a Successful Relationship with Himself and His Woman

By Stephen Taus II LMFT

This book is written primarily for men but may be useful to a female reader as well. The book aims to encourage a man to really be his true authentic self. The book serves the purpose in encouraging the reader not only to know that they are great but that deeper greatness is within them . The book guides the reader on how to go about aquiring and having a great relationship. Ultimately, this book is about reclaiming your true, authentic masculine self and getting the life and relationship with a woman that you really want. The great women of the world are waiting for you, this book just offers some tips on how to get there and stay there a bit faster.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Balboa Press
• Release date: Oct 22, 2021
• ISBN: 9781982275044

Stephen Taus II LMFT

Stephen Taus is a Los Angeles based Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist whose been in private practice for over a decade. He has helped hundreds of men and women create greater long lasting relationships and more importantly help couples save relationships from divorce. His therapeutic approach and style is dynamic, fresh, heart felt and straight to the point. Beyond that his other areas of expertise that extend beyond relationships include treating addiction, depression, and anxiety. In his off time Steve enjoys spending time with his wife and family, pursuing his health and fitness and exploring through travel

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ISBN: 978-1-9822-7503-7 (sc)

ISBN: 978-1-9822-7505-1 (hc)

ISBN: 978-1-9822-7504-4 (e)

Library of Congress Control Number: 2021920115

Balboa Press rev. date: 09/27/2021

CONTENTS

Dedication

Acknowledgment

The Why

Chapter 1 Own Your Shit And Play To Your Size

Chapter 2 Don’t Deny Your Masculinity

Chapter 3 Embrace Your Masculine And Feminine Energy

Chapter 4 Story About The Man Who Misunderstood Masculinity

Chapter 5 Pick The Right Woman

Chapter 6 Challenger Vs. Encourager

Chapter 7 Never Make Your Woman Your Reason For Living

Chapter 8 Be Self-Sufficient. The Only Requirement For Her Is That She Loves You

Chapter 9 Trust Your Heart, Not Your Cock

Chapter 10 Complete Anything Honorably

Chapter 11 Know Your Code Of Ethics

Chapter 12 Sticking To Your Ethics

Chapter 13 The Man Who Paints The Fence

Chapter 14 My Friend Who Went To Yoga

Chapter 15 Lure Of The Bad Boy

Chapter 16 Own Your State Of Being

Chapter 17 The Power Of Kareem Abdul Jabar

Chapter 18 Learn How To Create A Safe Container

Chapter 19 Become The Master Of Your Mistakes

Chapter 20 The Art Of Weather Forecasting

Chapter 21 First Date Checklist

Chapter 22 The Legacy Of The Hunter

Chapter 23 Show Her Your Balls

Chapter 24 Don’t Give Yourself The Back Door

Chapter 25 Open The Damn Door

Chapter 26 Mastering The Date—Be Who You Are

Chapter 27 Post-Date -- Show Her Your Balls Part Two

Chapter 28 Sex, Sex, Sex

Chapter 29 Closing The Deal: The Ole Move

Chapter 30 Pop The Champagne & Celebrate

Chapter 31 Can You Handle The Christmas Tree?

Chapter 32 Take The Emotions Out Of Your Woman’s Inspection Of You

Chapter 33 The Strongest Beam In The Building

Chapter 34 How Committed Are You To Yourself?

Chapter 35 Committing To Exclusivity

Chapter 36 Do You Say What You Mean Without Being Mean?

Chapter 37 Acceptance Is The Answer

Chapter 38 Don’t Take Shit Personally

Chapter 39 Be An Active Participant

Chapter 40 Learn Your Woman

Chapter 41 How Do You Know?

Chapter 42 Mastering The How Did He Do It?

Chapter 43 Don’t Just Say, Yes Honey

Chapter 44 Owning Your Night To Shine

Chapter 45 Don’t Be A Lazy Lion

Chapter 46 Marriage Doesn’t Solve Your Problems

Chapter 47 Maintaining Desire

Chapter 48 My Concluding Thoughts

DEDICATION

To my Wife Daniela, Thank you for your love, patience and Support. To my family, my friends and the love you have given me and to my Mens team that pushed and prodded me forward in the creation of this book. A special place in my heart dedicates this book to all of you. Thank you.

ACKNOWLEDGMENT

To my Dear Friend and Brother David. Without you this book may not have been possible. Thank you for participating in helping manifest my dreams and sharing something with the world from my heart.

THE WHY

Be you. You are great. You have greatness. You deserve a great relationship. Read this book to reclaim your true, authentic masculine self and get the life you really want. The great women of the world are waiting for you.

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CHAPTER 1

OWN YOUR SHIT AND PLAY TO YOUR SIZE

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In this chapter, I will convey the importance of embracing your masculine power. If you deny who you are at your core, you will never be happy. If you’re not happy, don’t think a relationship with a woman is going to resolve that.

One day at recess when I was in 4th grade, my buddies wanted to play tackle football. This wasn’t allowed at our school. At the time, I was one of the biggest kids in my class, so I was eager to get on the field. The game started, we were having fun and boys were being boys. As things heated up, I felt my competitive edge and desire to win. The score was tied and there was only a minute left before teachers rang the bell signaling the end of recess.

On one of the final plays, my friend Sam on the opposing team received a hand-off and darted across the field toward the end zone. I chased him and tackled him before he could score. I raised my hands in the air, so excited that I saved the game for my team, and also proud of myself for making the play, until I looked down.

On the ground was Sam, tears streaming from his eyes, his face red. He was humiliated, angry and hurt. The teachers ran over, shut down the game and with Sam, accused me of playing rough. In this moment, my excitement and pride turned to shame and remorse. I realized that my size was dangerous. It caused pain in others. I didn’t want that. I doubted what I had done and the decision I had made.

This was a major turning point in my life. From this point