Happy Parenting: Happy Kids: The Trainer's Manual
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Dr. Joan D. Atwood
Dr. Atwood is a Social Psychologist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She is a Clinical Member and Approved Supervisor of AAMFT. She is also the President and CEO of New York Marriage and Family Therapists, PLLC, located in Rockville Centre, NY, New York City, Williston Park, NY and Sag Harbor, NY. These organizations provide services to individuals living on Long Island and New York City. She and her team are devoted to the empowerment and wellness of individuals, couples, and families. In addition, Dr. Atwood is the past President of the New York State Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and was awarded the Long Island Family Therapist of the Year award for outstanding contributions to the field. She is a Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy as well as an Adjunct Professor of Psychology. Dr. Atwood has published seventeen books and over 100 journal articles. She serves on the Editorial Board of most journals in the field; she holds Diplomate status and is a Clinical Supervisor on the American Board of Sexology; she has been elected to the National Academy of Social Workers; is a certified Imago therapist; and has served on the President’s (Clinton)Commission for Domestic Policy. Among her many projects, Dr. Atwood is the co-developer of the P.E.A.C.E. Program (Parent Education and Custody Effectiveness), a court based educational program for parents obtaining a divorce. She does Professional Training Workshops in Anger Management, Sexuality Theory and Therapy, Couples Therapy and Supervision. Dr. Atwood has made numerous TV appearances and Radio and Newspaper interviews. She is in private practice in Individual, Marriage and Family Therapy in Rockville Centre, New York City, Williston Park, and Sag Harbor, New York.
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Introduction
Module 1. Overview of the Program and Model
Module 2. Overview of Group Dynamics
Module 3. Developmental Psychology
Module 4. The Family Life Cycle
Module 5. Building Positive Relations with your Children
Module 6. Developing Effective Communication Skills
Module 7. Developing Efective Communication and Listening Skills (Teens)
Module 8. Emotions and Avoiding Daily Battles
Module 9. All about Anger
Module 10. Punishment vs. Discipline
Module 11. Building Your Child’s Self Esttem and Developing Encouragement Skills
Module 12. Closing Summaries
Additional Materials
51190.pngDETAILED TABLE OF CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
The Philosophy of the Program
Parents
Session Topics
Objectives
Establishing Positive Relations with Your Children
Philosophy
Specific Objectives of the Program
Guidelines for Parents in the Program
Module 1: Overview of the Course and the Model Used
How to Use This Program
Ongoing Six-Month Interaction with Facilitator of the Program
The Psychological Basis of the Program
Cognitive Behavioral Psychology
Underlying Theory of Cognitive Therapy
Some Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Techniques
Behavior is learned.
Reinforcement
Goals
Shaping and Successive Approximations
Thoughts lead to feelings.
Distorted thoughts lead to negative communication
Positive Self-Talk
Positive Action
Contracts
Solution Focused Brief Therapy
About solution focused brief therapy
The miracle question
Scaling Questions
Exception Seeking Questions
Coping Questions
Resources
Module 2: Overview of Group Dynamics
History of Group Therapy
Five Stages of Group Development
Stage 1 Forming
Stage 2 Storming
Stage 3 Norming
Stage 4 Performing
Stage 5 Adjourning
Leadership Styles
Nuts and Bolts of Running a Group
Getting Ready For Group
The Initial Stage
Transition Stage
The Final Stage
Guidelines and Suggestions for Group Members
Module 3: Developmental Psychology
The Concept of Development
Mechanisms of Development
Aspects of Child Development
Physical Growth and Individual Differences
Motor Developmental
Language
Cultural Differences
Cognitive-Intellectual Development
Socio-Emotional Development
Emotional Intelligence
Socioeconomic Status
Risk Factors for Child Development
The Major Theorists
Freud and Psychosexual Development
The Oral Stage
The Anal Stage
The Phallic Stage of Development
The Latency Stage
The Genital Stage
Erikson and Psychosocial Development
Basic Trust vs Mistrust
Autonomy vs. Shame
Purpose/Initiative vs Guilt
Competence/Industry vs Inferiority
Fidelity/Identity vs Role Confusion
Intimacy vs Isolation
Generativity vs Stagnation
Ego Integrity vs Despair
Piaget and Cognitive Behavior
Sensorimotor
Preoperational
Concrete Operational
Formal Operations
Piaget’s Stages of Moral Development
Kohlberg and Moral Development
Level I Pre Conventional Morality
Obedience and Punishment Orientation
Individuation and Exchange
Level II Conventional Morality
Good Interpersonal Relationships
Maintaining the Social Order
Level III Post Conventional Morality
Social Contract and Individual Rights
Universal Principles
Bowlby and Attachment Theory
Infant Attachment
Secure
Avoidant
Ambivalent-Resistant
Disorganized
Attachment Behaviors
Possible Consequences of Attachment Patterns
Attachment in Adults
Secure
Anxious-Preoccupies
Dismissive-Avoidant
Fearful-Avoidant
Module 4: The Family Life Cycle
Clusters of Problems
Two kinds of Stressors in Families
Horizontal Stressors
Vertical Stressors
Changes Occur at Different Levels
Theorists
Individual Theorists
Freud-Psychosexual Development
Erikson-Psychosocial Development
Piaget-Cognitive Development
Kohlberg-Moral Development
Couple Theorists
Hendrix
Gottman
Scharf and Scharf
Family Theorists
Minuchin
Bowen
Haley
White
DeShazer
Stage I Marriage
Major Tasks
Lewis’ Three Stages
Social Exchange Theorists
Moving Beyond Attraction
Trust, Commitment, and Relationship Turning Points
Attachment Theory (Bowlby)
Three Attachment Patterns
Secure
Avoidant
Anxious
The Psychological Individual Level
Developmental Tasks of the Married Couple
The Systemic Level
The Relational Ethical Level
Gay and Lesbian Marriage
Typical Problems
Stage II Birth of the Children
Major Task
Other Developing Tasks Accompanying Parenthood
The Individual Psychological Level
The Systemic Level
The Relational Ethical Level
Typical Problems
Stage III Elementary School-Individuation of the Children
Two Aspects
Major Tasks
The Individual Psychological Level
The Systemic Level
The Relational Ethical Level
Exploratory Questions
Four Parenting Styles
The Indulgent Parents
Democratic
Non-Directive
The Authoritarian Parents
The Authoritative Parents
The Uninvolved Parents
Common Problems
School Phobias
Eneuresis/Encopresis
Temper Tantrums
Stage IV Individuation of the Adolescent-The Wonder Years
The Individual Psychological Level
The Systemic Level
The Relational Ethical Level
Common Problems
Individuation
Main Task
Stage V Departure of the Children
Main Task
The Individual Psychological Level
The Empty Nest Syndrome
The Systemic Level
Three Modes of Separation between Parents and Adolescents
The Binding Mode
The Delegating Mode
The Expelling Mode
The Relational Ethical Level
Common Problems
The Quarter life Crisis
Stage VI Aging and Death of the Parents
Main Task
Losses
Relational Losses
Physical Losses
The Individual Psychological Level
The Systemic Level
The Relational Ethical Level
Common Problems
Module 5: Building Positive Relationships
Building My Home
Personal Development Exercise
Understanding More about Your Child and About Yourself as a Parent
Seven Steps to Facilitate Positive Criticism
How to Encourage Development of Healthy Self Esteem
101 Ways to Praise a Child
Points to Remember Encouragement: Building Your Child’s Confidence and Feelings of Worth
Emotions
Lifestyle
Birth Order
Methods of Training
Four Basic Ingredients for Building Positive Relationships
Mutual Respect
Encouragement
Communicating Love
Spending Time Together
Understanding Behavior
The Four Goals of Misbehavior
Goals of Positive Behavior
Attention/Involvement/Contribution
Power/Autonomy/Responsibility for One’s Behavior
Justice Fairness
Withdrawal from Conflict/Refusal to Fight/Acceptance of Others’ Opinions
Points to Remember: Temperament and the Developmental Stages of Children
Encouragement
Strategies for Encouraging
The Rights of Parents and Children
Module 6: Developing Effective Communication and Listening Skills (Child)
Early Child Communication Style
Questions Parents Never Seem to Get Answers To
Parent Communication
Typical Parent Responses
Effects of Typical Parent Responses
Recognizing Barriers in Effective Communication
Attending
Door Openers
Techniques of Active Listening
Communicating Your Feelings to Your Children
Constructing an I Message
Examples of I Messages
Feeling Words
Finding the Hidden Message: Listening For Feelings
Points to Remember: Communication and Listening
Module 7: Developing Effective Communication and Listening Skills (Teens)
Teen Communication Styles
Introduction
How to Communicate With Your Teen
Why is Communication so Important during the Teen Years
Twenty-One Strategies for Talking to Your Teen
Talking About Tough Topics
Possible Problems
What to Do About Disagreements That Do Not Go Away
Open the Door for Good Communication
Section 8: Emotions and Avoiding Daily Battles
What Would You DO?
Dealing with Negative Emotions
Dealing With Your Emotions
Dealing with Anger
Just For You
What Individuals Get Angry About and Why
Avoiding Daily Battles
Handling Conflict in Adult Relationships
Whose Problem Is It?
Problem List
Points to Remember
Let Me Be a Child
Module 9: All about Anger
The Brain of an Angry Teen
Warning Signs of a Teen Anger Problem
What You Can Do To Help Manage Teen Anger
Suggestions for Teen o Deal with Anger
What NOT to Do
Other Methods of Handling Anger
Increasing Self Esteem
Tools to Tame a Temper: Self-Awareness and Self Control
Getting Ready to Make a Change
Five Step Approach to Managing Anger
When to Ask for Extra Help
Communication
Communication Skills
More Ideas on Communication
Pre-Conversation
During Conversation
Post Conversation
Preparing for Tough Conversation
Module 10: Discipline VS Punishment
Why Not to Use Physical Force When You’re Child Misbehaves?
Alternatives to Hitting Children
Consequences of Hitting
Instead of Punishment-Discipline
Positive Discipline
Approaches to Discipline
Techniques for Pre-Teens
Points to Remember
Take a Moment to Listen
Module 11: Building Your Child’s Self Esteem and Developing Encouragement Skills
Constructive Criticism: Building Self Esteem?
Attitudes and Behaviors to Eliminate
Attitudes and Behavior That Encourage
Seven Steps to Facilitate Positive Criticisms
How to Encourage the Development of Healthy Self-Esteem
101 Ways to Praise a Child
Points to Remember
Encouragement
Building Your Child’s Confidence and Feelings of Worth
Module 12: Personal Inventory, Closing Remarks, Graduation
Inventory of Positive Traits and Experiences
Evaluation of the Workbook
Closing Exercises and Graduation
Additional Materials
Intake Form
Duty to Warn Form
No Violence Contract
NYMFT
New York Marriage and Family Therapists
Dr. Joan D. Atwood
With Special Assistance from Amanda Geena Garha, M. S.
Happy Parenting:
Happy Kids
The Trainer’s Manual
001_a_aa.jpgAuthorPhoto.jpgNYMFT
New York Marriage and Family Therapists
Presents
Happy Parenting:
Happy Kids
The Trainer’s Manual
Dr. Joan D. Atwood
With Special Assistance from Amanda Geena Garha, M. S.
516 764 2526
jatwood@optonline.net
http:www.NYMFT.Com
50236.pngINTRODUCTION
INTRODUCTION
Cartoon, Children, Creepy, Cute, Face, Kids, Odd, ScaryPHILOSOPHY
This Program supports the idea that the most challenging role in society today is that of being a parent. Yet, there are few, if any, educational programs that help parents develop the attributes necessary to meet the needs of this role. It is also apparent that traditional methods of raising children are no longer as effective as they were a generation ago. The Program model not only provides parents with realistic and practical methods for meeting the challenges of raising children today; but it also provides Professionals with a complete training course in Parent Education, leading to the Parent Educator Certification.
The Program offers a safe, supportive environment where parents become actively involved in discussing common concerns, while learning effective, enjoyable ways to relate to their children. Parents develop increased confidence and learn to maximize their potentials skills in order to create more satisfying and more productive relationships with their children.
While many specific topics are covered, for parents, the overall goal of the program is twofold:
1. To improve and enhance parent-child relationships
2. To help parents learn the skills necessary to raise responsible children who will grow into responsible adults capable of living meaningful, happy lives!
Specific Objectives for the Parenting Program
1. Parents identify, acknowledge, and use emotions to build positive relationships with their children.
2. Parents utilize emotions to improve communication and listening skills.
3. Parents examine the effects of biases, perceptions, appraisal processes, and possible self-fulfilling prophecies on parent-child relationships.
4. Parents learn to use encouragement and to be optimistic in their expectations of their children.
5. Parents increase understanding and develop realistic expectations from knowledge of children’s developmental issues.
6. Parents increase awareness of the role of emotions in implementing effective discipline.
7. Parents learn various approaches to discipline to foster cooperation and avoid daily battles with their children.
8. Parents develop skills for resolving conflicts and exploring alternatives with their children.
9. Parents learn methods for developing responsibility and cooperation in their children.
10. Parents explore and develop alternative scripts to deal with both their anger and their children’s anger.
11. Professionals identify topics related to parenting issues that are relevant to parenting.
12. Professionals survey parents upon completion of the program to ascertain the usefulness of the program.
Guidelines for Parents in the Parenting Program
Parents are expected to be respectful to themselves and to other parents. Therefore, we encourage all members to freely contribute to group discussions and maintain the highest level of respect when others are contributing as well. To reinforce this, we maintain the following guidelines:
✓ NO CROSS-TALK: Do not speak while others are speaking. There should not be any side conversations among other group members when another parent is sharing.
Brainstorming, Business, Business People, Communication✓ I
STATEMENTS: Parents are directed to use I
statements when answering others in the room. Remember to talk about your own experience.
✓ OFFER SUPPORTIVE ADVICE: Give statements that reinforce positive growth for each other.
✓ NON-JUDGMENTAL ACCEPTANCE OF OTHER PARENTS VIEWPOINTS: Do not judge or blame others, it is important to suspend individual value judgments, and encourage one another to safely explore experiences that may not generally be accepted.
✓ MAINTAIN CONTINUITY AND COMMITMENT: Arrive on time and attend every session. Parents are asked to commit to all of the program’s sessions and to arrive promptly so that the group can begin on time.
50269.pngMODULE 1
Overview of the Program and Model
Overview of Module I
This module familiarizes the Professional with the Theoretical Assumptions of the Program. This section is discussed with clients in a very superficial way. Only generalized terminology is used.
How to Use This Program
This course is separated into twelve modules. Each module provides the Professional with information about Parent Education. In addition, it provides the Professional with the materials necessary to run a 12-session group. All forms and exercises are included within the text on separate sheets that may be copied for parents to utilize.
The program is progressive in that each module builds on the one prior. While each module stands alone, it is useful to follow the module order so that the probing and exploration into their anger response by the participant deepens as they progress.
This program teaches the Professional Educator the information necessary to see individual clients for Parent Education or to run parent groups. Please keep in mind that it is believed that a 12-session program is the tip of the iceberg. It will serve to expose parents to good parenting ideas and skills. If the parents are experiencing anger in relation to their child, it will help them get control over their anger response. It will help them become more aware of good communication skills that enhance their relationships with their children. The program is not appropriate for persons with deep-seated psychological problems. It is appropriate for persons who truly wish to learn good parenting skills so that they can have better relationships with their children.
It is recommended that after the 12-session group is completed that Parents be offered the option of continuing the group. Some of the individuals may opt for individual therapy to continue their exploration or some may wish to begin couples therapy to try to enhance their marriage or couple relationship. These options should be afforded to them or appropriate referrals given to them.
The groups are set up with 8-12 individuals in each group. This is what research shows to be the optimal number for group work. Sessions run 1 and ½ hours (90 minutes) and groups meet weekly.
The course is based on Cognitive Behavioral Psychology and Solution Focused Therapy Techniques. The course is available ONLINE (http:www.NYMFT.Com), is offered at the New York Marriage and Family Therapy offices in Rockville Centre, Williston Park, and Sag Harbor, Long Island and in New York City and can be reached by phone on (516) 764-2526. It is also available as a workshop for sports teams, school health courses, correction and parole officers, mental health clinics, court personnel, judges, attorneys, etc. For more information, please call or email jatwood@optonline.net.
The course is interactive in as much as parents have access to a facilitator after they complete the course and can submit questions and receive answers within 24 hours. The purpose of this is to assist parents with setting up and running their first group.
In addition, aside from the materials and information given on Parent Education to Professionals, they are given information on group process—the nuts and bolts of how to run a group, what to look for, how to facilitate.
THE PSYCHOLOGICAL BASIS OF THE PROGRAM
COGNITIVE BEHAVIORAL PSYCHOLOGY (CBT)
Cognitive and/or behavioral psychotherapies (CBP) are psychological approaches based on scientific principles that research has shown to be effective for a wide range of problems. Clients and therapists work together, once a therapeutic alliance has been formed, to identify and understand problems in terms of the relationship between thoughts, feelings and behavior. The approach usually focuses on difficulties in the here and now, and relies on the therapist and client developing a shared view of the individual’s problem. This then leads to identification of personalized, usually time-limited therapy goals and strategies, which are continually monitored and evaluated. The treatments are inherently empowering in nature, the outcome being to focus on specific psychological and practical skills (e.g. in reflecting on and exploring the meaning attributed to events and situations and re-evaluation of those meanings) aimed at enabling clients to tackle their problems by harnessing their own resources. The acquisition and utilization of such skills is seen as the main goal, and the active component in promoting change with an emphasis on putting what has been learned into practice between sessions (homework
). Thus the overall aim is for the individual to attribute improvement in their problems to their own efforts, in collaboration with the psychotherapist.
Cognitive psychology is a theoretical perspective that focuses on the realms of human perception, thought, and memory. It portrays learners as active processors of information—a metaphor borrowed from the computer world—and assigns critical roles to the knowledge and perspective students bring to their learning. What learners do to enrich information, in the view of cognitive psychology, determines the level of understanding they ultimately achieve.
Lev Vygotsky (1978) emphasized the role of social interactions in knowledge construction. Social constructivism turns attention to children’s interactions with parents, peers, and teachers in homes, neighborhoods, and schools. Vygotsky introduced the concept of the zone of proximal development, which is the difference between