Voices: My Daddy's Instructions

By Mark A. White

This guide is merely a reference for all of those young ladies who are not fortunate enough to be under the covering and care of their fathers. My purpose and motive for writing this guide was to better prepare teenage girls entering into junior high school and high school who will face an insurmountable amount of peer pressure. With all of social medias connections and users it is very important for me to inform these future adults that certain acts and behaviors caught on camera or video can be very devastating for a lifetime even if the act was a mistake, a dare or simply just a lapse in judgement. Unfortunately cyberspace will never let you forget it and it will certainly be archived for you or against you.This is the danger in social media and that is how cyber bullying is birthed and often created from unsuspected videos and pictures that are unapproved by its victims. All of it is not planned because this generation will automatically pull out their phones to capture any moment or event they feel is worth it. But some are planned and for the sole purpose of destroying someones good name and reputation. So this book/guide is to better prepare and equip those young teenage girls who may not be aware of the tricks and traps that jealousy, envy and boredom can breed. I believe it will change and save some young ladies life. Social Media has brainwashed and manipulated our girls into thinking that their worth is measured by the likes and comments that often come from perfect strangers. Thats a LIE!!! No facebook, instagram, snapchat or twitter could ever reveal or measure a young ladies TRUE worth.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Jan 23, 2016
• ISBN: 9781503529182

Mark A. White

My name is Mark White, I’m married and a father of four I have two boys and two girls. I was born in Westbury, New York my younger brother and I were raised by my mother in a single parent home. I am the forth youngest of my father’s six boys who all currently still reside all throughout N.Y.C. I have lived in Michigan the majority of my life. I mentor and coach in the community where I grew up Mt. Clemens. I attended college at North Carolina A & T State University. My experiences as an author are not followed by any bachelor’s, master’s or doctor’s degree like most authors. However, my experiences as a young man being raised around a few major players, pimps and hustlers who have undoubtedly shaped and fashioned some of my thinking. These experiences along with my own personal experiences, I feel gives me enough credibility to write to our young and forgotten daughters who have been kidnapped by misinformation.

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Voices

My Daddy’s Instructions

Mark A. White

Copyright © 2016 by Mark A. White.

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Rev. date: 04/18/2016

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Contents

#1 Do you know who you are? Have I told you why you’re so precious and so special?

#2 Why am I attracting the kind of boys I’m attracting?

#3 Why do boys feel comfortable talking to me the way they do?

#4 How do I avoid cat fights over boys?

#5 How to combat peer pressure to abstain from having sex or using drugs?

#6 How to pick the right friends to pursue all of my dreams?

#7 How to build self-esteem without the validation of my peers?

#8 How can I use my time better as a teenager?

#9 Why my parents should approve of my boyfriends?

#10 How do I know if the boy I’m dating is the right boy for me?

#11 How to understand my boyfriend by considering his friends and habits?

#12 How do I avoid being mistreated by boys I choose not to date?

#13 How do I avoid being mistreated by the boys I choose to date?

#14 Things that will tell you if you are on the right track as a teenager…

#15 How are boys able to talk girls into doing what they really don’t want to do?

#16 How do I tell girls that hit on me that I feel uncomfortable without offending them?

The verbal and spiritual healing for you…

Daughter

Say this prayer

Gracious and heavenly father I come to you in the mighty name of Jesus. Oh God, thank you for covering me and standing in the gap for my biological father, only you know why he hasn’t been present in my life. But I thank you for touching his heart and allowing him to speak to my heart after so many years of heartache, pain and disappointment from not having him in my life. God heal me in every area of my life where there maybe unforgiveness and resentment towards my father, heal me in those secret places where idolatry would try to hold me hostage. I don’t want to feel sorry for myself anymore because I know that this is idolatry. I won’t idolize myself another hour from this day forth. So with the authority that you have given me as a believer, I bind the spirits of deep hurt, rejection, bitterness, idolatry and anger, and I loose your spirit of love, peace, hope and restoration in my life. Thank you, Heavenly Father for deliverance concerning any and all of my early childhood scars. I have made a conscious decision to walk in victory free from any and all unresolved pain from my past and Father, I decree and declare that healing is my portion and love is my new motivation to be the best daughter I can be from now on. I receive the letters for my healing that have come from this book from an earthly father who has spoken to me through my unanswered prayers up unto now. I have confidence in my prayer because I have prayed according to your will and I know you hear me, it is your will for me to walk in love free from unforgiveness and hate. Now, God order my steps and continue to keep your hedge of protection around me. I forgive my father for not being there for me and I pray for healing to be his portion and if he has already been accepted into the heavenlies by you tell him I’m going to do my best to make him a proud father. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

#1

Do you know who you are? Have I told you why you’re so precious and so special?

I am who God says I am

Listen daughter, you know I love you, right? I know that I’ve never told you this before,