Chance, Her Dog: 100 Letters from a Friend
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Sarah is my best friend. I have never known a better person, a more wonderful woman, a more courageous individual. I am grateful that she gave me a chance to be a part of her life, a chance to know her, and I promise to be as loyal as her dog, Chance.
Darrin Atkins
Darrin Atkins was raised in Stockton, California. He graduated from the University of the Pacific in 1993 and then studied in a Ph.D. Program in Social Psychology at the University of Nevada. He has worked at Premiere magazine, Nevada magazine, the Reno Gazette-Journal, Investor’s Business Daily and The Record. “You Always Lose” is his fourth book.
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Chance, Her Dog - Darrin Atkins
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Contents
PART ONE
May 22, 1993
June 27, 1993
July 30, 1993
August 3 , 1993
August 16, 1993
October 5, 1993
October 16, 1993
December 1, 1994 Postcard
January 7, 1994
February 5, 1994
February 15, 1994
March 7, 1994
August 5, 1994
September 14, 1994
September 29, 1994 Postcard
October 5, 1994 Postcard
October 10, 1994 Postcard
October 16, 1994 Postcard
October 27, 1994 Postcard
PART TWO
December 2, 1994
January 9, 1995
January 23, 1995
March 20, 1995
April 17, 1995
July 10, 1995
November 6, 1995
November 18, 1995
December 2, 1995
February 18, 1996
April 18, 1996
July 10, 1996 Postcard
July 12, 1996 Postcard
August 1, 1996
September 5, 1996 Postcard
October 7, 1996
November 14, 1996
December 1, 1996
December 13, 1996
December 18, 1996
December 30, 1996
January 9, 1997
January 10, 1997 Postcard
January 22, 1997
February 10, 1997
February 19, 1997
March 14, 1997
March 31, 1997 Postcard
April 16, 1997
June 8, 1997
June 24, 1997
July 10, 1997
July 13, 1997 Postcard
August 24, 1997 Postcard
August 26, 1997 Postcard
August 30, 1997 Postcard
September 8, 1997 Postcard
September 11, 1997 Postcard
September 18, 1997 Postcard
PART THREE
October 1, 1997 Postcard
December 8, 1997
December 30, 1997
January 14, 1998
February 9, 1998
March 28, 1998
April 5, 1998
May 4, 1998
May 10, 1998 Postcard
May 25, 1998
June 7, 1998
June 24, 1998
July 8, 1998 Postcard
August 30, 1998
October 5, 1998
November 3, 1998
November 10, 1998
November 13, 1998
November 26, 1998
December 5, 1998
December 13, 1998
December 17, 1998
December 22, 1998
December 31, 1998
February 4, 1999
February 20, 1999 Postcard
February 25, 1999
March 8, 1999
April 18, 1999
April 23, 1999 Postcard
April 27, 1999
June 1, 1999
July 7, 1999
July 17, 1999
August 18, 1999
September 20, 1999 Postcard
September 23, 1999
October 22, 1999
November 14, 1999
November 18, 1999 Postcard
December 10, 1999
December 22, 1999
December 27, 1999
January 18, 2000 Postcard
January 19 , 2000
April 6, 2000
May 28, 2000
I know the rent is in arrears.
The dog has not been fed in years.
It’s even worse than it appears.
But … it’s all right.
—The Grateful Dead
PART ONE
May 22, 1993—October 27, 1994
I first met Sarah in 1991 while we were students in an introductory psychology class at the University of the Pacific in Stock-ton, California. We became friends instantly and I adored her kindness and easygoing manner, her casual approach to life as compared to my stress and difficulty. I envied her rich and bountiful social life, something I was too shy to experience on my own. Sarah stood by my side and helped me finish an undergraduate research journal which some individuals were trying to stop.
I finished my degree in May of 1993 and moved to Reno for graduate school. Before I left I conveyed to her my desire for us to remain friends as long as we lived. One can only hope to be so lucky as to have such a loyal friend as Sarah, especially when so many others become traitors and betray you in an instant. This is our story so far. Her first one hundred letters.
May 22, 1993
Congratulations Darrin! You survived UOP! I could never find the words to let you know how glad I am we met. You are a wonderful person and friend. Part of me wishes you’d stay to see me through my senior year, but I know you’re moving on to bigger and better things. I know you’ll do great things and make a difference. Even though you’re moving forward, I hope you’ll remember to look back and stay in touch. I’ll miss you, Darrin!
With love,
Sarah
June 27, 1993
I just this very second (6/27 @ 3pm) walked in the door from Oregon. I headed straight to my mail box to find a wonderful letter form you. I’d been concerned about you since I couldn’t get a hold of you the day I left for home. Nicole told me you’d went apartment hunting in Reno. I sincerely hope things are going well for you. How does it feel to be out of Stockton?!? Personally, I’m pretty glad to be back. (We shall see how long this enthusiasm lasts!) Well, let’s see here … I was home for about 3 weeks and what can I say? It was … fun, boring, good, bad, relaxing, stressful, happy, and sad. What does such gumble amount to? Confusion!!! Let’s see if I can’t clarify some … The first week was fairly uneventful. I saw my friend from junior/senior high school days. She is getting married in September. This both blows me away and pisses me off. I can’t believe she’s making such a move at age 21. Has life even began?!? The words let go
seem appropriate. My choices need not be the world’s, eh? I think I’ll take a brief break now Darrin, so I can unload my car (and organize my thoughts so this letter is slightly readable!). OK, I’m back again. Shit, is it ever hot here. I’m dying and it’s not even my first full day of summer weather! Anyways, the second week of my vacation my good friend Sabrina and her 4 1/2 yr. old daughter, Kylah, arrived from Arkansas. Things were going great despite a little shock in seeing Kylah. She’d gained 20 pounds in less than a year and weighed in at 70 pounds. This was not a nice surprise. I don’t want to bore you with the endless and unnecessary details so I’ll simply say that all were shocked. Trouble between me and Sabrina began to occur after about 5 days. First, let me retrace my steps and tell you that Sabrina & I have fought 3 times in our entire 7 year friendship. The discussion
we had on this particular occasion, however, made up (and then some) for our minimal disagreements. We were at a friend’s (more hers than mine) for a bbq. Out of nowhere, Rose (the friend
) and Sabrina start discussing how much I’d changed and what a snobby, judgmental bitch I was a few years back. I was amused, at first, because Rosie knows next to nothing about who I am, and Sabrina takes great pride in reducing my self-esteem to zero. They attacked me for 5 or 10 minutes without letting me respond whatsoever. Finally, in desperation, I began to cry and repeatedly said you’ve said enough!
The reason I’m going through great lengths explaining this nightmare is in hope that you can empathize with my feelings of bitterness and anger towards Sabrina which persisted until I left today. We never discussed this event again during the entire week or so following. I pretty much feel saddened by the mean things she said, yet I realize a friend doesn’t strive to hurt and criticize in order to feel better and prosper from the other’s pain. I don’t know how we can be close again, but perhaps I am being overly dramatic. I sincerely value friends … true and honest friends with no other