Do the Do Truly Heal from Abusive Tendencies with Theta Healing

By Crystal Hatfield

What if your relationships could change, you could change, your anger could melt and you could become loving? What if every bit of happiness and love you desire was real for you? What if your pain could dissolve and your radiated, uncontrollably, joy? This book produces miracles. What if your life could really change?

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• Language: English
• Publisher: Innerconnected Publishing
• Release date: Apr 21, 2021
• ISBN: 9781970043051

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Contents

DO the DO

Truly Heal from Abusive Tendencies

With Theta Healing

By Crystal Hatfield

How I thrived from a Pattern of Abuse by Crystal Hatfield

Copyright ©2015, 2019 by Crystal Hatfield

All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means – electronic, mechanical, photographic (photocopying), recording, or otherwise – without prior permission in writing from the author.

Printed in the United States of America

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The method of healing used in this book came about by someone who used Theta Healing and Melanie Tonia Evan’s Quantum Freedom Healing and found that it didn’t fully work. So, she created this. If it is not working for you, I invite you to ask God why and come up with what will work with you. As such, this book is nothing but instruction in how to prayer for emotional healing. The true healer is God. The author and its publisher bear no responsibility for how effective it is or isn’t and anything that results from it. The author found this effective for healing PTSD, Panic Attacks and more, but the same results may not work with you. It is presented as entertainment, and it is your right, but your choice, to pursue using it. Please do not operate a vehicle while performing it.

Introduction19

God’s Words for the Abused:23

Jesus’s Words for the Abused:23

How to have a conversation with God or Jesus and get a response:28

Some suggestions on what to expect from a conversation with God or Jesus29

The Right Way to Deal with Your Emotional Pain29

Using God as your Therapist34

If You Don’t Want to or Don’t Feel Motivated to do Healings35

Suicidal Feelings35

Additional Resources35

Positive Self talk36

Healing Physical Pain36

How Healings Work36

Common Questions about the Healings37

How Long Will Healing Take?39

Practice39

Tips3

When you are upset and crying3

Time Commitment3

What to do if you can’t get to the immediate healing stage for a lot of pain and you can’t work4

If you need to be homeless or are fleeing4

If You Don’t Want to or Don’t Feel Motivated to do Healings5

What to do after you have Practiced5

Reasons Why You May Be Struggling to Do Instant Healings6

Hearing Someone’s Soul Truth (or what the truth would be if they were completely honest)7

If You Need to Express Yourself and Pain7

If You feel like Putting Some Work into the Healing8

If You Know You have Trauma in your Past and Can’t Remember8

Inner Child8

Healings:10

Listening to Your Emotions and Embracing Them10

Judging What Happened to you or What you did10

Your Views on God and Your Pain11

How to Self-Care11

Self-Care12

Supporting Self12

Forgiving God, Life and yourself for how your life has gone12

Making a Mistake13

Emotional Pain and Breakdowns = Breakthroughs and Healing13

Finding the Gift in the Pain13

Fear of Being Judged13

Asking for help13

Depending on Someone14

Support14

Fear of being Invalidated14

It is not Forgiveness Until You Can Thank the Person (seriously!)14

How our life is created –14

Establishing Trust15

Trust16

When you have no hope16

Forgiving God for What Happened to You16

You are a Beautiful Creature Who Deserves Acceptance17

Establishing Acceptance17

You are Never Alone17

Establishing Love17

Establishing Safety18

Feeling Free18

The Goal is to Uncover the Jewel That You Are.19

The way our emotional wounds work19

Establishing Self-Esteem19

Establishing love20

Our Natural State is Completely Connected to Every Bit of Happiness and Success that You Want – It is a Matter of What is Blocking This20

Creating Trust in Self20

Loving God more than Anything21

Others are You – What You See in Others Relates to Your Emotional Wounds21

Stop Feeling Like a Victim21

Overburdened22

Eradicating Powerlessness22

Never Enough – Gone22

Respect22

How to Give and Take22

Changes22

Move Forward22

Anger23

Enjoy life23

Finding fault23

Being Happy23

Blame23

Caring23

Acceptance24

Sin24

Creating Misery24

Guilt24

Manipulation24

Listening24

Humility24

Status25

Being cool25

Jesus’s Love for Women (He would have Helped)25

Healing From PTSD or Panic Attacks26

What is abuse from http://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/types-of-abuse/26

Keep in Mind30

Fear, obligation, guilt35

How do I think I deserve Abuse?35

Consideration35

Healing the Shame of What Has Happened to You35

Law Enforcement or courts35

Warning Signs of an Abuser from http://www.newhopeforwomen.org/abuser-tricks:36

Finding the good in every situation39

Healing How you where Invalidated and Scapegoated and Blamed39

Feeling empathy for your self39

Healing The Feelings of Injustice And Betrayal40

Accepting God’s love40

When Jesus was abused40

Our wounds40

Achievement40

Crying is a good thing.41

Needing Approval41

Need to Get Justice or Revenge41

Beauty41

Loving yourself is getting to a point where you love the abused kid instead of feel anger or shame.41

Feeling Responsible for an Abuser or other Dysfunctional Person42

Breakdowns are breakthroughs42

Healing the Betrayal of not Being Protected42

Establishing Love42

Attraction to abusers or otherwise dysfunctional people42

Being Cherished43

Why forgive43

Emotional Issues/ Forgiveness43

Being Happy for Others47

Being in the Moment47

Thinking you are Bad47

Being Special47

Abandonment47

Fighting for justice48

Denial48

Inconsistency48

Unpredictability48

Empathy48

Saying No48

Over responsibility49

Needing Conflict to Thrive49

Self-Esteem49

Helplessness49

Experiencing Lots of Difficulties49

Perfectionism49

Wanting to be Invisible or Disappear49

Rebelling50

Controlling50

Guilt50

Addiction to Crisis50

Looking to Others50

All or Nothing Thinking50

Issues with Touch50

Issues with Closeness50

Inability to have Fun51

Listening51

Healthy Communication from https://www.loveisrespect.org/healthy-relationships/communicate-better/51

Tips for Better Communication52

How to Communicate if You Are Angry53

Appreciating Others and Self54

Seeing Possibilities54

Goals54

Needs54

Wants54

How to Say No55

True Love55

Protection55

Betrayal by God55

Get rid of Drama55

Will to Live55

Deservedness55

Speaking Up for Self56

Success56

Fulfillment57

Having a Better Relationship with God and Jesus57

Pain is Pleasure58

Confidence59

Feeling not good enough59

Deserving to Shine59

Expecting Things59

Worth59

Gratitude59

Regrets59

Honor60

Taking on the Abusers feelings and pain60

Out of Control feeling60

Satisfaction with Life60

Genuinely Liking Yourself60

Having Fun61

Emotional Pain affects how we show up in life61

Feeling Guilt for doing something nice for self61

Saying Yes When I mean No61

Placing others Feelings before Mine61

Giving but not getting in return62

Putting others needs before yours62

Fixing Others62

Being who others want62

Accepting Others62

Fearlessness63

Fighting with things that are not your truth63

Living in the present63

Loving Life63

Needing people to like you63

Needing people to Validate you64

Operating in Integrity64

Creating Win/Win situations and Compromise64

Being Expansive64

Selfishness64

Fear of Being Vulnerable65

Emotional Power plays65

Emotionally Validating65

Need to Be Understood65

Defensive65

Worry66

Trying to Impress Others66

Analyzing others66

Confrontation66

Blaming others for how you feel66

Other people’s moods bring me down67

Seeking Others Opinions over my Own67

Not Letting Go67

Being a Martyr67

Only Feeling Safe Alone67

Persecution67

Body Issues68

Needs69

Money69

Loneliness70

Giving for the Sake of Giving70

Losing Weight and Eating Healthy70

Allowing God71

Resistance to Change71

Why is this My Life?71

More Open to Love71

Accepting life for what it is71

Just Being71

Judgmental71

Feeling Love71

Feeling Expansive72

Seeing Goodness72

Seeing Love72

Creating Bliss72

Not in Control of Your Life72

Express Self72

Seeing Miracles73

Manipulation73

Creator of Your Own Life73

Feeling Expansive and Full of Life73

Fear of Commitment73

Abandoning Self73

Fear of Wrong74

Patience74

How to Stand in your Own Power and Confront Something74

Boundaries74

Sexual Abuse77

Making a difference78

Getting over Past79

Verbal Abuse79

Saying yes to life. Becoming radiant from the healing. . .81

Nurturing82

Self-Sabotage82

Deservedness82

Can’t Admit a Fault83

Goals, Needs and Wants83

Mattering84

Procrastination84

Feeling Free to be