Toddler Parenting: The Ultimate Guide to Using Positive Discipline to Raise Children with High Self-Esteem, Including Tips for Sleep Training, Handing Tantrums, and Potty Training

By Meryl Kaufman

Are you feeling overwhelmed with raising your children? Are you struggling with connecting with your child? Are you yearning for an environment filled with love and understanding? Keep on reading…

Going to bed without objections, no tantrums, a no-drama mealtime, anxiety-free potty training… Does this sound like a fairy tale? For the majority of parents, it does. Few people know the chaos and challenges that come with being a parent prior to becoming one. There is nothing that can prepare you for it. Parenting is a skill, and little by little, it can be improved and enjoyed.

Have you heard of positive parenting? Well, everything you will read in this book is based on the philosophy of positive discipline. There are no bad children, only bad behavior. This approach is focused on training parents to become peaceful and to recognize bad behavior on time. It eliminates the yelling and frustration, providing a calm and stimulating environment in which your kids can grow.

You can be the patient parent raising good, happy, and confident children who listen when you talk.

Welcoming a baby into your household is one of the biggest changes of your life. To nurture him or her into a responsible, whole-brain, and respectful human being is a huge responsibility. As excited and delighted as you are, you may also feel scared and helpless. Every parent does! Children don't come with an instruction manual. That is why you need strong support, exactly what this book provides.

There are many new techniques and strategies for raising cooperative children, but most don't have long-lasting effects, which may lead you into frustration. After reading this comprehensive guide and understanding what positive parenting means, you can acquire mindful logic, extensive knowledge, and effective tools that will help you easily tame and discipline even the most explosive and inflexible children.

The philosophy of positive discipline builds upon what Maria Montessori, a revolutionary educator and pedagogue, said: "One test of the correctness of educational procedure is the happiness of the child".

This book will prepare you to tackle the most difficult challenges of raising kind toddlers of any age, like:
- Positive discipline explained in detail – definition, principles, benefit
- The most common troubles you can expect from your toddler at each stage
- How to get started with positive discipline
- The positive approach to sleep training – how to overcome bed-wetting and co-sleeping
- Tips on using positive parenting to potty train your toddler
- Breaking the cycle of tantrums and misbehavior – why they happen and how to stop them
- How to stimulate a creative mind and imagination, as well as build self-esteem and confidence in your toddler
- Developing positive habits and routines
- How to prepare your toddler for preschool

Parenting doesn't need to be difficult. All you need is the willingness and commitment to abandon reactive thinking and master positive parenting. With instructions and advice in this book, you'll become the happiest parent on the block in no time.

Ready to follow your curiosity? Grab your copy and start your journey of becoming a super parent!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Meryl Kaufman
• Release date: Mar 20, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393986492

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Introduction

Imagine a home with happy children who listen to their parents and don't misbehave. A home where no one must raise their voice, and everyone is happy. This book will give you all the information you need to turn this peaceful thought into reality. Raising a child isn't always easy, no matter how much love you have for your little one. No single approach would fit all children. Sometimes, you wish your toddler came with an instruction manual. Alas, this isn't the case.

Being a parent is perhaps one of the most memorable, dynamic, and exciting roles you will ever play. Parenting is rewarding and fruitful, but it can be difficult. Parents have no formal training before they are made responsible for dealing with kids. It can also be a little overwhelming and daunting. Even the best of us require some support. Well, you can rest easy because this book has all the information you need to understand about positive parenting to raise a well-adjusted, happy, and confident child.

In this book, you will learn about understanding your toddler's development, the meaning of positive discipline and its importance, and tips and suggestions to get started with positive parenting. You will also discover helpful and practical tips for potting training and sleep training for your toddler. Besides these things, you will learn about dealing with your toddler's tantrums, correcting any misbehavior, and helping your toddler form positive habits. When all the information in this book is implemented, it helps encourage your toddler's creativity and imagination and build self-esteem and confidence. Simple and practical tips for applying positive discipline once your toddler grows and enters the age of schooling are also included. This book includes all the information any parent would need to get started with positive parenting.

Once you follow the practical advice in this book, you will see a positive change in your toddler and the relationship you share. Taking care of children isn't just about looking after their basic needs of food, clothing, and shelter. An important aspect of parenthood and your duty as a parent is to equip your child with the skills he needs to survive in the real world. As with everything else, the sooner you start, the more effective and efficient are the results. A little love, patience, consistency, and effort are all you need to change your toddler's behavior.

Are you eager to learn more about all this? Do you want to discover the concepts of successfully parenting your toddler? If yes, let's get started without further ado!

Chapter One: What It Means To Be A Toddler

There are different terms used to describe children between the ages of birth to four years, such as infants, babies, newborns, and toddlers. These terms are often used synonymously, but there is a slight difference between each. Until the baby is two months old, he is called a newborn. The infant is a term used to refer to children until they are 12 months old. Baby is a term collectively used to refer to children who are or less than four years old. Therefore, it includes all the other terms, such as infants, toddlers, and newborns.

Who is a toddler? It turns out there isn't any official definition or an upper limit to the term toddler. Often, it's a term used to define children between the ages group of 12-36 months. The Centers use the same definition For Disease Control And Prevention. A toddler is a child who is learning to walk or toddles. This stage usually starts when a child is about 12 months old. The period between 12-36 months is critical for the baby's growth and development. There is a lot of change your baby needs to get accustomed to during this period. From learning new skills such as interacting with others or talking and walking, to becoming independent, this stage is all about growth.

Major Toddler Milestones

All the things that your little one can do will excite and surprise you. From the first step he takes to the words he utters and the real interactions through verbal and non-verbal communication, there is a lot to look forward to. There are critical milestones for every toddler, which determine his overall growth and progress. Usually, a baby takes his first steps around his first birthday, but this can also vary. No two individuals are alike, and the same stands true for toddlers too. The first milestone, you need to watch out for is when your baby learns to walk. This usually happens when the baby is between 12-18 months old. Parents often worry when their baby doesn't do things that other babies do. Don't be in a rush, and don't worry because they also grow at their own pace. As your baby grows, he will walk alone, run, and indulge in simple physical activities with objects such as playing with a ball or pulling his toys.

Between the ages of 10-14 months, babies utter their first words. Be a little patient, and you might need to listen to a lot of gibberish before he speaks real words. Even if your toddler isn't communicating using actual words, don't worry. Instead, look for other ways he's trying to communicate with you. Other forms of non-verbal communication include pointing, nodding his head, or even staring in a specific direction. It is also an age during which toddlers learn social and emotional skills that help them understand simple concepts such as making others laugh and associating names to their feelings and emotions.

Usually, here is the basic development; you might see your toddler when he is between 12-17 months old.

• Get attached to a stuffed toy or a blanket.

• Starts showing a preference for a specific hand (uses his dominant hand)

• Loves to play games

• Holds out his arms when you dress him

• Has probably perfected one or two simple words

• Understands the concept of a reflection he sees of himself in the mirror

• Can bend and pick up objects

• Can follow simple instructions

• Starts eating with fingers

• Points at objects

• Tries to stand up from a sitting position

• Grabs hold onto small objects.

• Starts scribbling

• Can chew bigger pieces of food

• Understands and obeys instructions

• Starts to run

• Shows preferences specific foods

• Tries to climb

• Shows an affinity for specific colors

Here are the basic developmental milestones you might see your toddler when he is between 18-36 months old.

• Might understand instructions but does not necessarily follow them

• Excitedly dances to music.

• Starts insisting on eating by himself

• Likes helping adults with their chores

• Can identify body parts such as eyes, nose, and mouth

• Stops putting different objects he picks up in his mouth

• Starts reading on his own, even if it sounds like gibberish

• Bedtime struggles start

• Understands the difference between right and wrong

• Can link two words together

• Starts undressing on his own

• Learns to throw a ball or other objects

• Starts to walk up and down the stairs slowly

• Has better communication skills

• Can brush teeth by himself

• Can identify objects or people in pictures

• Learns to understand

Reviews for Toddler Parenting

[Enmar David · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book is a much-needed addition to any library of new parents. There seems to be a huge gap in books and resources on toddlers. Toddlers are so different, and sometimes feel so difficult! Mr./Ms. Meryl has created a book to bridge the gap. This is a beautiful workbook full of research-based wisdom. I’ve been recommending it to everyone!

[Julius Brigades · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book is a much-needed addition to any library of new parents. There seems to be a huge gap in books and resources on toddlers. This book is so practical and helpful. I recommend this book.

[Lancy Lass · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

By allowing me to see my toddler's actions in some circumstances from his eyes and analyze why the behavior is happening in the first place, this book has given me the ability to diffuse and even avoid tantrums before they start. I like that the book is really easy to read and that it offers practical, real-life guidance for any circumstance.

[Fränjelä Iënäh · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

Keeping an eye on a toddler is a tough job. As a mom, raising a 36-month old kid takes a lot effort and hard work. The author of this article relatively discussed on how to handle our toddlers the positive way we can. It has been properly discussed on the article the proper way and understanding on how we should deal with our kids’ common problems.

[Regina Rieza Benedicto · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

In this book, you will learn about under-
standing your toddler's development, the
meaning of positive discipline and its importance. Now we have time to make bond and make a strong and positive connection with your child this will really help you. A happy family will result to a well mannered kid. Having a good relationship with your child is very important it's help them to grow with a happy heart. Positive environment will result to a happy kid. Great book.

[Arvie · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

In my own experience, toddlers are hard to handle especially if you have a short temper. This book is a thick-set of information that parents must know in knowing and understanding their child. Moreover, I loved the fact that the author made a clear distinction between discipline and punishment. Overall, I enjoyed reading this book. I can testify that the informations given are all factual. Kudos, Author!

[Kimmie Camerino · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I like self-help books like this about positive discipline. . I loved the chapters on handling toddler tantrums and misbehavior. The author really put into perspective, parents are human too, and we all are going through various experiences with our children. She gives a wealth of real life, practical information in a way that’s very easy to digest.

[Chelly Cruz · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

One of the best books on discipline I've ever read. Is a really good book for it’s easy to understand I can actually relate to it. It’s not making you feel like a failure parent but it gives you hope and helping you move forward by giving you helpful tips and techniques.

[Anthony N. Luarez Jr. · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I love how practical and research-based it is. It offers solid advice on how to communicate healthily with children. Creating a positive environment and correcting undesirable behavior at an early age are signs of ideal parenting.

[Camille Manalese Gonzal · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Toddlers may be hard to handle. Parenting means to do a lot for your toddler to be a great person someday, as they always say great discipline starts with you.

This is an amazing book that really tackles on how you can do it as a parent, i know some people suck on parenting but this book tell a lot about how you can be positive while learning to teach your kid in a great manner.

[Cathy Malubay · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

The author was able to identify the stages of toddlers and the troubles that it may bring so that you can prepare ahead of time. Establishing a positive discipline can strengthen our relationship with our kids and avoid punishments and negative connection. This book can be helpful as you start your parenthood stage.

[Antoniette Luarez · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

This book was very insightful. It provides the principles of positive discipline and how we, parents and adults, can work on it to come up with better outcomes. The given methods in this book can like reinforce some negative behaviors. Reading this book can have a huge change!

[Rosendo Villarmea · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Love the book! It helps me understand the importance of knowing the different stages of my child as she grows and how to handle difficult situations we are going to encounter in a positive way that will benefit both me and my daughter.

[Karl Angelo Gil · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

This was a really good book that provides a great introduction to positive, respectful parenting theories and techniques.

[Jefferson Baniqued De Guzman · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

This book will teach every parent to teach their child solidified principles and morals using positive reinforcement. Positive reinforcement is very salient in building child’s character and its tolerance in the real world. This book will also teach you to the journey of parenthood.

[Jhoannha Mhaye Tan · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Being a parent is hard if you are new to parenthood, raising a child requires effort and patience since we know children can be unpredictable. This book is worth the read because it contains tips on how we should raise our child, how to put them into sleep, how to teach them discipline, how to use the bathroom and many more. I would say this is a book for the new parents out there and with this you'll learn a lot, this book contains all you need to know about parenting.

[Lexi Shane · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

A book much needed in this generation. Couples nowadays would usually choose to have kids without proper education and preparation. Lessons about parenting are mostly neglected, hence resulting in an undisciplined child and a weak foundation of their childhood.

If you are planning to start a family, this book is perfect for you. It comprehensively explains what is the nature of toddlers, struggles that you may encounter, and how to handle them with positive discipline. I enjoyed reading this book because it is very informative and an eye-opener.

This is a must for every parent especially first-time parents who are struggling to teach their toddlers.

[Wonderweiss Roslo · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

a well written book, simplify the whole parenting in just one book basically tells you how you can easily raised your child and how to deal with them, highly recommended to those who have child and planning so they can be well equip to raised a well mannered child.

[Leley Guiwo-guiwo · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

As a parent I can say it's not really that easy to take care of a child. I have one child and for the first time I was a mother it was very difficult to put the child to sleep especially when he had a seizure. Earlier while I was reading this I was amazed because it was fun to read. Not only is he helpful you can also imagine the details stated in this book. What if I do what the author says? will it be so effective? Those questions will make you tired because you will realize the great help of the author's advice and details about how you can put your child to sleep without huzzle and without fatigue. Recommended 101%.

[Lyra Jhoana Marapao · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Toddler parenting is not as easy as slicing a cake. It requires enough knowledge and experience to make it effectively. This book will surely help you specially when you are a first-timer mom. Tips and techniques are laid in here in detailed so that you wont miss any important matter in disciplining your child. Dont know how to handle your child's tantrums? this material may help you with that. It also include sleep and potty training which are both important in the parenting process. But before you proceed on the tips provided, you should know first what it means to be a toddler so that you can easily manipulate your child. Understand every actions they make and be aware of their behavior.

[Castañeda Del Rey · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Being a parent is not easy, especially if you are new to parenthood. Being a parent needs to have long patience and determination to be a good role model to them. I love how this books contains ways on how to deal with tantrums, book also include this thing they called "positive discipline",which is very helpful as this can help the mother have strong relationship with their children. The book contains tips on how we should treat our children if they misbehave. Instead of punishing them the book says we need to understand our children as their actions always have reason even if it is silly. This book tells us not to be punitive with our children as this can be a reason for our children to become rebellious. I highly commend this book not only to the new parents out there who struggles with their child but also to those people like me who takes care of their siblings.

[Eduard Salvador · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

"Raising a child isn't always easy, no matter how much love you have for your little one. "

From the very beginning of this book this one statement caught my attention. And I couldn't agree more. I am not still a parent but I can see from others, my friends and my relatives, who are now one that it is indeed so hard to raise a child. Because there is no instruction manual or handbook that can help you with that! Or so I thought...

When I saw this book the first thing that came to me was like "oh, another self help parenting book". And boy was I surprised. This book was so full of information. All that you need to know about toddlers. From the different troubles you may face of raising one up to different training regimens specially made for toddlers. I love how the author gave tips on how to better discipline kids and how to have a positive parenting mindset too. Not only this book teaches the reader about parenting toddlers, it also teaches different problems and their solution like sleep training, bedwetting, potty training and many more. The scope of this book is so wide that it almost covers up everything you need to know about parenting. I also loved that the book is backed up by different scientific and psychological studies that adds to it's credibility. I would definitely recommend this to parents, new or old alike, that I think needs to know more about how to be a better version of themselves. And hey, I hope that what I learned from this book can be applied when I too can have my own child.

[Revi James · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I had a wonderful time reading this book. This book was so informative because the author offers solid insights and qualitative information, as well as recommendations in incorporating empathy and mindfulness in our actions. It's articulated in an easy-to-understand way, and learning to a little bit of it together every day helps all couples stay on the same page when it comes to parenting and discipline, which is imperative for me and my wife.

[Sara Jane del Rosario · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

Being a first timer parents is not easy one but if you know some ideas or techniques and strategies on how to communicate with your child, its not that hard thing to do. So if you are looking for some tips and techniques on how your child can be cooperative and well manner kid as well then this book is all you need. Specially if your children is having tantrums.

[Marnie Bentulan · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Very helpful book for first time parents like me. It helps us understand the importance of knowing the development stages of our child as they grow, so that we, parents will know how to handle our child in a difficult situation with a positive approach.

I am thankful to the author of this book for sharing her tips and knowledge direct to the point that we can understand it easily. Also, thankful for this young lady who introduced this book knowing that it will be a great help for working mother like me.

[Cherry Pie · Rating: 4 out of 5 stars]

An eye opener!
I read this book with the thought that it's going to be easy after I read it because I will have takeaways regarding parenting, but not only did it give more insights about what it's like to take care and raise a toddler, it opened my eyes to the fact that as long as you will undergo this job called "toddler parenting" it will not really be easy.

From the topics covered, it tells and teaches how to form a positive daily habit for the child, encourage their creativity and imagination, dealing with their tantrums, being patient for potty trainings, and more, it shows just how it takes so much effort in order to properly raise a kid.
But then, it's really good that this book is around because even though it's opening your eyes to the reality, it also brings comfort to know that someone understands what other parents are going through and is there to offer help.

This book will tell you how to become the best support system of your child and how you can deal with their emotional needs and for me, it's something that first-time parents really need to read.

[Herlyn Martin · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Not a parent yet but as someone who takes care of children, this book is indeed a guide for peaceful home. Kids are so tough at learning attitudes when they aren't used to, but I can say that this period of this age is the perfect time to grow more bonds with them and get their trusts to make them grow as good as a happy child. To have a good parenting in a positive way. Making them a proper home is making them a proper preparation for tomorrow.

And the book is too good and simple that anyone can read, even a parent or a non-parent could. Not so formal and it's kinda relatable all the time. The author nailed it in every details. Thumbs up!

[Ian E. Daguplo · Rating: 3 out of 5 stars]

After reading the title, I had an idea what this book all about. This is not new to me since I read several books about parenting and raising child effectively.

What this book became stand out is the author convey the message direct to the point. Also, she used simple words that everyone could relate to. I commend the simple ideas and tips of this book but very useful.
I became a baby sitter of my nephew and hopefully I could apply this one. It was great tool for discipline and nurturing child. This book can be my guide when I became a parent soon.

[Vanessa Elnar · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I have read just about every sleep book out there, because my daughter had a hard time sleeping for a really long time especially when she was younger. The author can really relate for she knows how hard it can be to put babies to bed. I learned more on understanding toddler sleep as well as the kind of information parents need in today's information overload times.

[Daisy Regala-Ando · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Being a first time mother is hard, it's like you go to the school for the first time because all things you learn is new. Parenting is not an easy job there's no outline to follow, its a process of learning now and applying now. That's why this kind of book is very useful to read it gives helps to the new parents like me on how to deal with difficult situation in parenting, it gives us parents ideas and ways on how handle the child properly. We, parents must know how to understand them by knowing their development stages while growing up that's where this book takes place.

I highly recommend this book it give us knowledge about parenting . I'm really grateful someone suggested this to me.