Look Damn Good: At Your Age, with Your Body and on Your Budget
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With public interest in makeovers at an all-time high, why does looking good still feel like a huge mystery? Image Consultant and motivational speaker Janet Cargill demonstrates that, in fact, it can be easy, fun and even deeply transformative.
Using real-world stories, seasoned insights, and lots of humor, Janet shares practical tipsto help you look DAMN good!
Learn how to discard the need to be perfect. Instead, discover your own unique beauty and how to work with it in alignment with who you are, your lifestyle, your body type, your age and your budget.
Conveying her message with the wit and warmth of Erma Bombeck and the wisdom and wonderment of Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Janet shares vignettes of her inspiring journey from feeling like the most unattractive girl in the 8th grade to a woman who finally came to realize that she looks damn good! If she can do it, you can, too. Learn how in Look DAMN Good!
Looking DAMN Good is ultimately an inside job. Janet shares practical,down-to-earthtips that shes used with hundreds of women with phenomenal results.
Its not about how big your budget is; you dont have to buy a lot of clothes just a few of the right ones. And Janet tells youHOW to shop andWHAT to buy.
JoinJanet asshe uncovers the powerfulattitudes about ourselves andour bodies that deeplyimpact the image we project to the world.
Janets unique approach focuses on the internal attitude shift AND the real know-how that will give you the confidence you need to make phenomenal changes in your inner and outer selves. Emerge comfortable and confident, with a spring in your step looking DAMN good!
Janet G. Cargill
A highly sought-after image consultant, personal stylist and motivational keynote speaker known for her lively manner and disarming wit, Janet Cargill is a seasoned traveler in the world of fashion. Janet's helped hundreds and hundreds of women look DAMN good. She’s spent more than 15 years as a wardrobe consultant, fashion show coordinator and executive sales trainer and award-winning top salesperson for Brooks Brothers, Ralph Lauren and Liz Claiborne. She owns her own private image consulting and speaking business, J. Cargill Image Consulting. Click here to visit her website. Janet has been married to the same wonderful man for over 45 years. They have of six children and 18 grandchildren. Janet says, “I hope my readers will sit down with a lovely cup of tea and enjoy my little book. My ultimate goal is to help women feel DAMN good about themselves! ‘Looking Damn Good’ is all about our insides and outsides living together happily ever after. I invite each of my readers to say YES! to the invitation to jump into your beautiful selves and live your life, looking and feeling Damn good!”
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Look Damn Good - Janet G. Cargill
Look DAMN Good!
10 Simple Ways to Maximize Your Style
At Your Age, With Your Body
and on Your Budget
JANET CARGILL
©2007 Janet G. Cargill. All rights reserved.
No part of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted by any means without the written permission of the author.
First published by AuthorHouse 07/02/2007
ISBN: 9-781-4343-2178-7
ISBN: 978-1-4772-8033-1 (ebook)
Library of Congress Control Number:2007904929
Editors—Claire O’Connor and Barbara Noe
Layout and Design—Angelique Devost, Devost Design LLC
Cover photo taken in May 2006 on Spirit Rock at
Laurel Springs Ranch in Santa Barbara, California
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1663 Liberty Drive, Suite 200
Bloomington, IN 47403
www.authorhouse.com
Phone: 1-800-839-8640
Contents
Acknowledgments
Introduction
What You Might Like to Know About Me
Chapter1
Looking DAMN Good: Appearance with Attitude
Chapter2
Not-So-Basic Basics
Chapter3
Get a Lift With the Right Bra
Chapter4
What Is Your Closet’s Personality?
Chapter5
10 Steps to a Reality Closet
Chapter6
Your Amazing 10-Piece Wardrobe
Chapter7
How to Shop: 7 Great Tips From the Other Side of the Cash Register
Chapter8
The Curative Powers of LDG
Chapter9
The LDG 10-Step Remedy for Recovering From All of Life’s Traumas, Both Big and Small
Chapter10
Professionally Speaking
Epilogue
Say YES!
to Looking DAMN Good – and to LIFE!
This book is dedicated to my parents Leslie and Mary Gaskell, also known as the handsome Mr. Leslie of Westfield and his beautiful wife, Suzanne.
Acknowledgments
With love and gratitude to my husband and best friend, Bruce, and to our creative and amazing children: Jennifer, Elizabeth, Bruce, Amy, Peter, and James; their spouses; and 18 delightful grandchildren who all encourage me to go for it.
To my sisters, who are my very best friends and who always believe in me.
To all of my business pals and associates who helped me launch my business from just an idea that I used to talk about to really doing it.
To all the trusting clients who have allowed me into their lives to practice the art of Looking Damn Good.
To some special people who helped me bring my book to life: Angelique Devost, Claire O’Connor, and Tracy Ivie.
Thank you!
Introduction
What You Might Like to Know About Me
My name is Janet Cargill and I am an image consultant. I get a kick out of hearing myself described as the Fairy Godmother of Looking DAMN Good.
So how did I come to earn this designation, you ask?
An Education for Life at Salon de Beauté
I was raised by a very beautiful mother and a very handsome father. I know that because anyone and everyone that met them told me just how beautiful my mother was and how handsome my father was. When I was a very little girl, I did take note that when we went to the butcher shop in town, I always got a very large slice of baloney when I was with my mother. All the ladies I knew in town remarked about how handsome my father was, just in case I might not have noticed. When I reached my 13th birthday, somehow all my previous notions of growing up to look just like my mother vanished.
In fact, years later, when I was working at Liz Claiborne, I was helping a client, an elderly lady, who told me she was from Westfield, New Jersey. I always tried to find common ground with new clients, and so I said, Oh, Westfield! That’s my hometown. Perhaps you know my father, Mr. Leslie; he owned a beauty shop in town.
She said, Mister Leslie!? I was one of his regular clients. Why, he was the most handsome man I have ever known in person. And YOUR mother, why, SHE looked like a movie star!
Then, she paused, cocked her head to one side, and fixed a quizzical gaze upon me, as she remarked, Why, you don’t look a THING like either of them.
The story of my life!
Both of my parents knew the importance to their business of always looking their best. I suppose I was genetically hardwired to know that my shoes, belt, and handbag had to match, along with being aware of the intrinsic value of a good haircut and the wonders of makeup.
My father had a very upscale beauty shop. My earliest recollections of his shop are the strong smell of permanent wave solution and nail polish remover, and the smell of clean towels from the laundry service. It was a fascinating place for a young girl to be. The manicurist tables had cute little scissors, bottles of nail polish in a rainbow of pinks and reds, and there were little funny-shaped dishes for soaking your nails — and chairs on wheels! My favorite was my father’s big chair with the foot pedal that could make you go up and down.
Then there were the big floor brushes for sweeping up all the hair and the hairpins. No rollers or clips back then, just hairpins. My first real job was picking them up off the floor. I had a long broom handle with a magnet attached to the end. I would run my magnet through the cut hair and into the corners, under the chairs and anywhere a hairpin might be lurking. My goal was to see how many pins I could get before they fell off.
There were cotton balls for over your ears, and pink hair nets to cover the elaborate sets and to keep all the little curls in place while the ladies cooked under the noisy hair dryers while having their nails painted. There was the familiar cacophony of ladies’ loud voices trying to chat with one another as they sat under the dryers with scissors snipping and snipping—all the rather wonderful chaos of the