Sexually Inhibitive Thinking

By jeremiah dotson

Presenting the 14th book from highly controversial author Jeremiah Dotson. Sexually Inhibitive Thinking - 50 Questions That The Significant Other Will Never Honestly Answer, opens up the discussions that many in relationships try desperately to avoid. Included inquires are: Question 50 - Would my partner have sex with a sex doll? Question 16 - Does good sex guarantee a relationship? Question 7 - Why do people cheat if their partner is giving them a lot of sex? And 47 more! Real questions. Real answers. From people in real relationships. Sexually Inhibitive Thinking. Find out what you've always wanted to know.

• Language: English
• Publisher: jeremiah dotson
• Release date: Mar 23, 2018
• ISBN: 9781986514910

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Sexually Inhibitive Thinking

50 Questions About Sex That People In Relationships Would Never Honestly Answer

by Jeremiah Dotson

Acknowledgments

Thank you God, for allowing the publication of my 14 th book. Thank you to everybody who continues to support. Mark and Corey, I love you.

Table Of Contents

Question One – Does Size Really Matter?

Question Two – Is My Partner A Sex Addict?

Question Three – Why Do Some Guys Cum So Fast?

Question Four – Why Does It Take So Long For Some Women To Have An Orgasm?

Question Five – Why Do Guys Brag About Their Dicks And Sexual Ability?

Question Six – Why Can’t Women Have Sex Without Catching Feelings?

Question Seven – Why Do People Cheat If Their Partner Is Giving Them A Lot Of Sex?

Question Eight – Why Would My Significant Other Fuck Somebody Uglier Than Me?

Question Nine – Why Is Relationship Sex So Different From A One Night Stand?

Question Ten – Does Sex Mean The Same Thing For A Man As It Does For A Woman?

Question Eleven – Are Men Capable Of Faking Orgasms?

Question Twelve – Will My Partner Tell The Truth About Being Satisfied Sexually?

Question Thirteen – What Does My Partner Fantasize About Sexually?

Question Fourteen – Is The Sexual Experience I Provide The Best You’ve Ever Had?

Question Fifteen – Is The Sexual Experience I Provide Better Than Your Ex?

Question Sixteen – Does Good Sex Guarantee A Relationship?

Question Seventeen – Why Do People Masturbate If They Are In A Relationship?

Question Eighteen – Can You Fall In Love With A Sex Worker?

Question Nineteen – Can Sexual Attraction Only Be Based On Appearance?

Question Twenty – Is It Normal To Fantasize About My Partner’s Friend’s And Family?

Question Twenty One – After An Argument, Sex Makes Everything Alright. Doesn’t It?

Question Twenty Two – Is It Possible To Fuck Somebody You Don’t Like Or Love?

Question Twenty Three – Does A Fat Ass Turn On All Men?

Question Twenty Four – Does Every Woman Have A Price When It Comes To Sex?

Question Twenty Five – How Important Is Sex In A Relationship?

Question Twenty Six – Does Not Having Sex With My Partner Guarantee Infidelity?

Question Twenty Seven – If I Cheat, Does That Mean My Partner Is Going To Cheat?

Question Twenty Eight – If My Partner Asks For A Threesome, Do They Still Love Me?

Question Twenty Nine – Why Doesn’t My Partner Like Providing Oral Sex?

Question Thirty – Why Does My Partner Only Do Certain Positions In The Bedroom?

Question Thirty One – Does My Partner Prefer Two Personas Or Two People?

Question Thirty Two – Why Do Women Fake Orgasms?

Question Thirty Three – Is My Relationship A One Night Stand Gone Wrong?

Question Thirty Four – Will My Partner Tell Me If They Have An STD?

Question Thirty Five – Will My Partner Tell Me If They Get Pregnant By Someone Else?

Question Thirty Six – Does My Partner Like Hand Jobs?

Question Thirty Seven – Does My Partner Want Me To Watch Porn With Him?

Question Thirty Eight – Why Would My Partner Want To See Me With Somebody Else?

Question Thirty Nine – What Does My Partner Fantasize About Me Doing Sexually?

Question Forty – Will My Partner Tell Me If They’re Thinking About Having An Affair?

Question Forty One – Will My Partner Tell Me If Their Feelings About Sex, Change?

Question Forty Two – Is The Amount Of Sex I Receive Based On My Attractiveness?

Question Forty Three – If I Agree To A Threesome, Will My Partner Think That I Am Okay With His Or Her Cheating?

Question Forty Four – Does Role Play Actually Help Our Sexual Relationship?

Question Forty Five – Does My Partner Enjoy Foreplay?

Question Forty Six – Does The Cleanliness Of My Home Affect My Partner’s Sexual Performance?

Question Forty Seven – Has My Partner Been Sexually Abused?

Question Forty Eight – Is My Attitude Contingent Upon The Amount Of Sex I Get?

Question Forty Nine – Does My Partner Like Masturbation More Than Sex With Me?

Question Fifty - Would My Partner Have Sex With A Sex Doll?

The one thing, which has been consistent throughout the history of relationships, is the deception and secrecy used to initiate and continue those relationships. 

Question One – Does Size Really Matter?

The Answer That Most Will Tell You: No. Most people will say that love is the only thing that matters when it comes to a relationship. People will tell you that love conquers all and this especially includes inadequacies in the sex department.

The Truth: The assumption is that we are talking about men here when it comes to whether or not size matters and if that assumption is correct, then of course it fucking matters. And the issue of what matters, is not just the size of the penis. It is the size of the vagina too. Now certain studies have shown that the vagina can expand to accommodate certain sizes but there are no studies (well none that I have found) that say it will contract to fit something smaller than its normal size. Now here’s the thing: what is considered small for one individual may be just right or even big for the next individual. There are some women who say men with small ones do better work than men with big ones and vice versa, so the obvious conclusion which can be drawn here is, it is not the fact of the size which matters as much as it is whom the size matters to. This is what causes a lot of reputation killing and is also what causes a lot of sleeping around. Men and women have to find out with whom they are sexually compatible before they waste weeks, months and possibly years getting to know somebody who will turn out to be a total buzzkill in the bedroom. The problem here is that because of many society and family imposed restrictions, people are not supposed to sleep around with people they are not married to. So for some people, it is impossible to test drive the goodies, so to speak. Many will say that if a man is not satisfying a woman, then the only possible reason is because the man’s penis is too small to do so. This is sometimes, but not always the case. A common self esteem boost saying is – it is not the size of the ocean, but the motion of the waves but see here’s the thing: if a man does have a small package, then it is very possible that he will not be able to satisfy the woman he is involved with – no matter how well his movements in the bedroom may be. Many guys for example, like women with big butts. Many women with big butts like guys with big dicks. Now the average guy is not going to compare dick size with any other guy to see if he measures up and the average woman is more than likely not going to tell, so it is entirely possible that the guy with the small package may be under the impression that he is completely satisfying the other solely based on his impression of his performance. On the other hand, if a woman has an exceptionally large vagina or the more politically correct term of well used vagina, then the size of the man will not really matter all that much anyway. As stated above, the thing about size being an issue in relationships is that no one who is not a cold hearted bitch or hell bent on ending their relationship, will admit that they are unhappy with the size of somebody’s equipment. What people will many times do is either stay in the relationship, pretend to be completely happy, while having somebody on the side just for sex – or they will leave the relationship without telling the significant other why.

Question Two

Is My Partner A Sex Addict??

The Answer That Most Will Tell You: If he’s a man, yes. If she’s a woman, maybe. All men are sex addicts. They just can’t control themselves when it comes to getting some pussy. The more they are offered, the more they are going to take. Conversely, women are sex addicts depending upon age and time since last sexual encounter. (Age being defined as either teens or thirties and time since last sexual encounter equaling what many would call a drought.)

The Truth: This has got to be the most confusing question in history, right up there next to does my partner really love me? You see just like how there are no textbook signs or theories or methods of proof to show that love actually exists, there is no way to actually prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that someone is a sex addict. Now here’s the thing: people like to fuck. No, scratch that – people love to fuck. Some people will fuck 5, maybe 10 times a day. Some people will fuck those they do not know and some people will even fuck in a broom closet at work. Trust me, I’ve seen it happen. None of these things are a guaranteed indicator of an individual being a sex addict as opposed to just loving the act of intercourse. There are those who will say that sex addiction begins when you lose the ability to control your desires for sex and it interferes with your job and things of that nature. But when many people are new in relationships, they try and fuck as much as they possibly can, and the above two consequences often result. Now when it comes to the love example; some people say that love is a feeling. Other people say that love is an action. The question I have is who’s right? You see actions include buying and giving someone a $500,000 engagement ring. Actions include cutting off contact with other individuals that one may be having random sex with so that that individual may give the impression he or she is in love with the one who is left. Actions include always answering the phone calls and text messages left by the other. These are some of the things that people confuse with love. You see, the reason I say that there is no textbook criteria for what love is, is because all of the above things, as well as many other things, can be copied. Somebody who is rich can give another a half million dollar ring for no reason other than to give not only her but everybody that she knows the impression that he loves her. And how is this impression given? Damn near everybody and their mother will surmise that if he is going to spend that much money on a ring, he MUST love her. Now I have said this a million times or more, if you love somebody, I mean really love somebody, then you could give this somebody a ring made of bamboo and that person would be as happy as shit in the knowing that she held the heart of the one who gave her the ring. But we all know this is not how shit works. You give the average woman walking down the street a bamboo ring and she is going to look at you like what the fuck is this shit??! Feelings on the other hand do not include money. Feelings are I know he or she loves me because I can feel it in my heart. I can feel it in my soul – and things of that nature. This too is confusing because when there is fantastic sex (which by the way often occurs when there is an abundance of alcohol or certain mind altering drugs involved) people will feel all of the above. People will feel that they are in love because the sex was so good, they will have no choice but to begin a relationship. Now the million dollar question is does a lot of fucking and sex related behavior equate to sex addiction? The answer: no. You see everybody has sexual desires. Sometimes people have daily desires. Sometimes people have daily sexual desires. The problem is when, how much and how an individual responds to those desires. If you are fucking everyday and after you finish fucking, you are masturbating because your partner who has tapped out, did not satisfy you, there is a good chance you have an addiction. If you find yourself overindulging in pornography, and by overindulging, I mean viewing it on your cell phone at the job, thinking about sex at church, not being able to go to sleep until you achieve that orgasm, there is a strong chance you are fucking addicted. Now the disheartening thing about sexual addiction is that it is reported as being one of the most difficult types of addiction to rid one’s self of. The fucked up thing about sexual addiction is if you are dealing with someone who suffers from it, your life will become a living hell. You see it’s not just a thing of ‘my partner is addicted to sex, so I can get all the pussy or dick I want.’ Often it is ‘my partner is addicted to sex and he or she will fuck any and every person they can find.’ This is one of those misunderstood things about infidelity. People don’t mention or consider the possibility of sex addiction when cheating is