You Can Make It In Life

By Louis Debra

life is not a straight path and things are not always happening as we expected them to be. We may experience success today and failure at another time. Confusion is taking place everywhere and many people have been shattered. Again, many people have been defeated by the various life challenges and have abandoned everything they once dreamed about.
in this book, you will learn that, defeats and failures are not the end of life. these challenges are there to refine and purge you so that you become great and tough for life. you will understand that in the midst of the many obstacles and challenges that you will face. Never pull down the brakes and call it dead. all things are possible as long as you are still alive. before you take the most catastrophic decision to end it up, read this book and you will be fired up to overcome and conquer your world.
I would like to stress with emphasis that the word of God is the only. quitting your dream is not the solution but rather getting the right strategy is the solution. your will be tremendously blessed and your understanding will receive fresh fire that will release inner energy to arise and conquer.
It is a common thing to sometimes lack confidence in going for your dreams. This book will help you to understand how to overcome these limitations. When people say for you to go after challenges and they say you can do it, do you believe them? Do you believe in yourself? Don’t sell yourself short. In life, there are going to be many people who will try to bring you down and tell you what you want to achieve is not possible. Don’t let anyone destroy your dreams. And don’t allow your own self to destroy your dream. You can make it in life.
You need to get to appreciate the fact that success feels great and that is the clear reason why you should not give up until you are dead. Beloved this book is a must read because it will deliverer into your hands the knowledge keys that will help you to become the successful person that you have ever desired to be. Again, I would like you to remember this fact that all thing are possible so long as you have life and that your worst problems can change for you to become a celebrated and anticipated personality that many will to be like. Enjoy your reading time.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Louis Debra
• Release date: Aug 27, 2017
• ISBN: 9781370156214

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You Can Make It In Life

By: Louis Debra

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Copyright: 2017 Louissoftpublishing

Chapter 1

As Long As You Are Alive Anything Is Possible

The only valid excuse you have to give up is if you are dead. As long as you are alive (and healthy and free) you have the choice to keep trying until you finally succeed.

There is an intoxicating idea that is repeatedly sold to us by the self-help industry. It is the thought that we all possess limitless potential. The idea has certainly captivated a huge audience it is reported that the burgeoning self-help industry is worth several billion dollars in the U.S. alone.

The enticing promise of limitless potential is that anything is possible. To support their claims, many self-help gurus make assertions such as whatever the mind can conceive it can achieve. The question is, as you pursue success, can you rely upon this belief?

There is no doubt that it will (initially at least) cause you to aim higher as you dream of greater possibilities. The hope that your best achievements still lie ahead of you is certainly exciting. However, what if it this anything is possible belief leads to false hope and the success you intensely desire forever eludes you? What then? According to some, this kind of false hope can be highly damaging.

When our hopes are not realized they can cause strong disillusionment. In his book, SHAM, for example, Steve Salerno writes about the potential harm positive psychology books may do to individuals who are lured in by the grand promises of transformation and success but who ultimately fail to achieve their aims because they did not believe enough in their dream.

Because impossibility of things changes with time. Things thought impossible today will become possible tomorrow. Landing on the sun looks impossible today to most people, at least during their lifetimes. But it may become possible. We can only reasonably predict impossibility in a short time span. Like I can say that it is impossible for any human to land on the Sun within the next 1 year. But when we make a blanket (a general, overarching one) statement, we are almost always wrong while saying if a thing is impossible. All we can talk is in terms of Probability.

In his excellent book, Thinking Fast and Slow, the Nobel Prize-winning author, Daniel Kahneman, also outlines the danger of false hope through what he refers to as the optimistic bias that many of us possess in our thinking.

Most of us view the world as more benign than it really is, our attributes as more favorable than they truly are, and the goals we adopt as more achievable than they are likely to be, Kahnemann writes. We also tend to exaggerate our ability to forecast the future, which fosters optimistic overconfidence.

To make his point, Kahneman gives the example of entrepreneurial delusions that many business owners entertain. He states that the chance of a small business surviving for five years in the U.S. is about 35 percent but most new business owners do not believe that the statistic applies to them. Kahneman quotes a survey of American entrepreneurs in which 81 percent put their personal odds of success at seven out of 10 or higher, and 33 percent said their chance of failing was zero.

It would be wrong, however, to blame the self-help industry as being the sole cause of false hope. As many of us know, well-meaning parents may also inadvertently play their part, especially those that psychologists refer to as the philoprogenitive type. These parents typically over-praise their offspring, believing them to more talented than they actually are, something which can later lead to bitter disappointment if their children realize that they are not as good as they were led to believe.

This is a critical question, especially as many of you will no doubt have put your future on the line as you seek the success that matters to