How can you heal codependency in family relationships and break unhealthy patterns established in childhood? 
That’s what we’re here to talk about today.
Codependency is a buzzword you might hear often, but it can be confusing and misunderstood.
My guest today is Brandi Merrill, she’s a life and recovery coach, a She Recovers coach, a licensed clinical social worker and a “boundary boss”. Brandi’s going to help us understand what codependency is (and is not) and how to break unhealthy patterns that may be sabotaging your health and happiness. 
 
Codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and sense of self. 
 
It can cause you to worry about the lack of response from people, to feel anger about what you said or didn’t say in situations because you are relying on others for approval, not honor your own opinions and thoughts, and believe that putting yourself first is rude or selfish.
And codependency can make it challenging to set healthy boundaries, or cause guilt or anxiety when you do set them.  
 
In this episode, Brandi and I are going to dig into:

The 4 steps to healing codependent behavior

7 signs of healing from codependency

Why overly harsh or loose boundaries can cause you to avoid close relationships

How and why codependency manifests in many family relationships

How to break unhealthy patterns established in childhood as an adult

The complicated relationship between codependent feelings and boundaries 

 
About Brandi Merrill 
Brandi lives in Idaho and is a single mom to three amazing daughters. She's a life and recovery coach, a She Recovers coach and a licensed clinical social worker who has provided counseling services for many years. Brandi is passionate about coaching and the transformations that are possible with the use of positive psychology and spirituality. 
 
Her personal journey has been one of forgiveness, self love, becoming a boundary boss, and single parenting in recovery. She's in recovery from alcohol and codependency and believes that anything is possible. Brandi is passionate about inspiring her clients to make the changes they desire and to live their best lives. Brandi also works closely with moms in recovery that have experienced loss, including time with their kids, divorce or death.
 
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Links and resources mentioned:
Books mentioned: 

Codependency by Melody Beattie

The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner

 
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Website: www.thepassionatepath.com
Instagram: @thepassionatepath
 
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