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161. BTS: What can I do to ensure my child doesn't feel pressure to perform for other adults?

161. BTS: What can I do to ensure my child doesn't feel pressure to perform for other adults?

FromSecurely Attached


161. BTS: What can I do to ensure my child doesn't feel pressure to perform for other adults?

FromSecurely Attached

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Length:
27 minutes
Released:
Dec 21, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about...     1:40 - Unpacking whether our child is anxious about this experience, or if we might be projecting our own feelings onto the request for them to perform.   5:33 - What interventions can you use in the moment when someone asks your child to do something you're not sure they want to do.   9:26 - How to avoid fragilizing our kids in this world of gentle parenting.   12:17 - How can we respond when an adult asks our child to perform a social expectation, like giving a hug or answering their questions - whether they're 3 or 10.   15:40 - Deciphering how much we should protect our child from things that make them feel uncomfortable and how much are we should work to stretch them.   20:28 - At what age or developmental stage does it become about manners versus allowing them to listen to their internal drives?     ✨We want to hear from you! Go to https://drsarahbren.com/question to send us a question or a topic you want to hear us answer on Securely Attached - Beyond the Sessions! ✨
Released:
Dec 21, 2023
Format:
Podcast episode

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Securely Attached is your source for psychologically informed, research based information about parenting, child development, and the fundamentals of fostering secure attachment relationships with our kids. Through deep dives into specific topics, engaging interviews with specialists and Q&A sessions that answer real listener questions, this podcast will help caregivers to understand the building blocks of children’s social, emotional, and cognitive development. Securely Attached is for anyone who wants to peek under the hood of their child’s behaviors and gain an understanding of the brain science and psychology that drives and shapes the parent-child relationship. Parents to children of all ages, from birth to the teen years, as well as anyone who needs to reparent their own inner child, will find something useful in this podcast! About Sarah Bren, PhD As a licensed clinical psychologist, Dr. Sarah specializes in psychodynamic and relationship-based approaches in her work with children and families. She has a particular passion for equipping parents with tools to understand the building blocks of child development and how secure relationships form and thrive. Her work is focused on helping parents find their inner confidence so they can respond to any parenting problem that comes along and raise kids who are authentic, confident, resilient, and kind.