Hold up. Wait a minute.
You're telling me that *I* am "empowered" to communicate better with my husband when HE's the one not getting it? I feel misunderstood and disappointed because he's not listening, and you want ME to work on how *I* communicate? 
Yep.
Listen, Linda, we wives hold more power than we think we do in situations like this, and I've got some simple tools you can use! 
Come on, let's sit down and talk.

*Notes taken from Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenburg*

Loads of Love,
Lydia
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