If you: are with someone struggling with relationship anxiety/ROCD and want to do your part... were broken up with because of someone's RA... are struggling with RA, but want to see what your partner's "work" is... want to look at your RA from an outsider's perspective... ... then this episode is for you!   Links: Submit a Wisio here Next Irvine, CA donations class - movement, breath, discussion, lunch Irvine Oct 29 10am PST NEXT PATREON CALL: Nov 5 @ 11am PST Exclusive content + monthly coaching (my husband is jumping on at 150 patrons and we are SO CLOSE.)   Time Stamps: 4:26 Being the most attracted to my partner when he was more selfish 7:51  Your partner’s relationship anxiety is not your fault/this person is wounded and trying to resolve their issues through you 12:40  Tools for a person whose partner has relationship anxiety 15:14  Keep focusing on yourself 20:00  Become ok with them leaving 24:10 Let control and let your partner be without trying to fix them 28:15 There is always the option to leave 31:12 You can still stay out of their inner process while still staying in the relationship 36:50 Don’t try to control your ex-partner if they break up with you by telling them they have relationship anxiety 39:23  My upcoming Both Feet In program in January