In this episode, I share a simple question that will help you ground yourself in reality, and actually move forward with life, if you're stuck on the fence over your relationship.   Links: Ask me a question: https://www.wisio.com/anxiouslovecoach Evoke his Devotion 1 on 1 program: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/evoke-his-devotion-1-on-1-program Overhaul, my 1 on 1 relationship anxiety program: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/overhaul-1-on-1-program Next Patreon group coaching call - September 20th @ 9am:  https://www.patreon.com/AnxiousLoveCoach   Time Stamps: 2:48  Wanting to control or change my partner in order to continue in the relationship 3:58  Disclaimers about abusive relationships 7:56  Dealing with resentment in your relationship by “being on the fence” 9:45  Reasons we feel like we need to be in control of our partners 10:25  What to do when you’re on the fence 13:05  A question you can ask yourself if you’re on the fence