In this episode, my friend and other relationship anxiety practitioner, Chelsea Horton over at Healing Embodied, and I share our counter-cultural relationship beliefs that have served us well and brought us deep peace in our long-term partnerships.   This episode was recorded as a joint effort - meaning it showed up on both our podcasts, and there is no formal host. Enjoy ?   Links: Ask me anything and receive a 10 min video response: https://www.wisio.com/anxiouslovecoach Evoke his Devotion 1 on 1 program: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/evoke-his-devotion-1-on-1-program Overhaul, my 1 on 1 relationship anxiety program: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/overhaul-1-on-1-program Join my Patreon! We host monthly meetings on Zoom https://www.patreon.com/AnxiousLoveCoach   Time Stamps: 7:00  Taking a non-entitled perspective on relationships 12:00 Creating a culture of gratitude in your relationship 14:30  #1 saying thank you to your partner even if you deserve what he/she gives 16:00 #2 I receive what I am given (say yes to what is 25:05  #3 I don’t need my partner to have similar interests to me in order to be happy 40:15  #4 I “settled” and I am deeply fulfilled (redefine what settling means to you) 46:55  #5 Trying to make my partner what I think they should be is not love, it is control 50:55  #6 I am 100% responsible for my own aliveness and pleasure 1:01:00 #7 I am okay with my partner not being perfect and fully evolved