Welcome back to Brunch with Desb! Today, I am absolutely thrilled to have New York Times best-selling authors Vanessa and Xander Marin on the podcast to talk all about sex! Vanessa is a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and Xander is just a regular dude along for the ride. Together, they wrote Sex Talks and are very open about the ups and downs in their own relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques to improve yours. They share doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, and honest sex stories. In this episode, we are diving into all things long term relationships, initiating sex, as well as sex postpartum. How do we navigate sex after becoming parents with our partners? How do we keep the spark alive when it feels like the honeymoon phase is over? How do we explain to our partners how we’re feeling after experiencing a traumatic birth? We’ll be answering all of these questions and so many more so keep listening! Time Stamps: (4:33) Get to Know Vanessa & Xander Marin (14:38) Adult Sex Ed (23:37) Long Term Relationships (38:56) Postpartum Sex (47:07) How Often Should I Have Sex? —--- Find Vanessa and Xander: https://vmtherapy.com Follow on IG: https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander Follow on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vanessaandxander Sex Talks Book: https://amzn.to/3OLffvg Join BetterHelp today - www.betterhelp.com/desb code “desb” for 10% off your first month! #ad #sponsored JOIN MY APP: https://train.desbfittraining.com/trainers/desb___/landing/  ubeauty skincare: DESB for 25% off tula skincare: DESB for 15% off #tulapartner watch my latest YouTube video: HTTPS://WWW.YOUTUBE.COM/@DESB___  DM me on IG: www.instagram.com/brunchwithdesb  Follow my like to know it: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/desb___ Follow up amazon store: https://www.amazon.com/shop/desb___  —--- OPEN FACEBOOK FITNESS COMMUNITY: www.facebook.com/groups/dbftcommunity