On the pod today, we've got Vanessa and Xander Marin, the brilliant duo and authors of the New York Times Bestseller"Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life," and hosts of the #1 sexuality podcast, Pillow Talks. They're here to turn the tables on the whole taboo around sex talks. They've got a knack for infusing humor and candor into their discussions, making the 's' word less scary and more enjoyable. So be sure to follow them on Instagram @vanessaandxander.Now, we're all adults here, right? So, let's dive into the nitty-gritty of it... We're talking about everything from emotional connections and sexual initiation styles to the significance of physical arousal. They'll even be pulling back the curtains on their own experiences, imparting lessons they've learned throughout their relationship. And if you're looking to add a little more heat to your relationship, they've got some fantastic tips for acknowledging your partner's existence, appreciating the small moments, and taking the lead in initiating sex. Trust us, this ain't your run-of-the-mill talk about sex!Yet, it doesn't just stop at connection and intimacy; we're also learning how to infuse more pleasure into our lives. Vanessa and Xander believe pleasure is around every corner if we're willing to seek it. They're here to guide us on how to find it, cultivate it, and open our hearts to it. Whether you're single or in a relationship, this episode is a must-listen. So, sit back, relax, and let's transform our love lives one conversation at a time!Also, I'm hosting a FREE WORKSHOP to show you how to build more confidence and coach yourself through life's challenges. Check it out here.And, as a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to my signature course, Slay Your Year (usually $997)! All you have to do is: Leave a review of this podcast. Email a screenshot of your review to info@susie-moore.comSimple as that! If you'd love to watch the video version of our interviews, be sure to subscribe to the podcast's YouTube channel here.