This is part three of the three part series with Michelle and Emiliano. In this final session, Leslie coaches them to empower their 10-year-old daughter to become an expert on her own anxiety. For highly anxious and sensitive children, a fun overnight school field trip can feel like a looming nightmare.  Parenting children through their anxieties when they are very heightened can be troubling and upsetting for the parents as well.  Listen as we unpack the phrase: feel the fear and do it anyway.  Join us today as Michelle and Emiliano ask the question over and over again about how much to push and how much to give in.  A question parents and caregivers come up against.Finding ways to expose our children to what makes them anxious in a way that allows them to build up their confidence that they can feel anxious AND do it anyways.  Repeatedly exposing your child to uncomfortable situations and helping them push through and succeed will help them towards the path of mastery. Sometimes we may need to think outside the box and get creative in order to find that balance of exposing them but not pushing them too far outside their ability and skill level.We don’t want to throw our child into the deep end of a pool without the skills to swim.  But we also don’t want to avoid the pool all together. This is when we need to balance the art of parenting with the science of parenting. The science in parenting teaches us to develop a hierarchy of step-by-step exposures when conquering a fear. The art of parenting is knowing who your child is and creatively brainstorming the steps to help THEM feel safe and ready to take risks. I want to thank Michelle and Emilliano for showing up in this final episode in the 3 part series.  See you next time with new parents sharing their challenges.  Disclaimer:  Exposure therapy is a formal therapeutic treatment modality. I am suggesting that raising children with an informal approach to exposures helps build a sense of accomplishment as well as self-confidence in your child.  Parents do this naturally in raising children but understanding what you are doing and having a name for what you are doing is more likely that you can use the tool more effectively. Show Note Links:Youtube Video “The Nervous Guy Sings'' as an example of when we can be anxious and do it anyways. Youtube Video  Building Mastery Skill For a full transcript of this episode and more information about the host visit https://lesliecohenrubury.com/podcast/. You can also follow Leslie’s work on Facebook and Instagram. Join the conversation with your own questions and parenting experiences in the Is My Child a Monster? Facebook parenting community.Credits: Is My Child a Monster? is produced by Alletta Cooper, Dale Rubury, and Leslie Cohen-Rubury. Theme music is by L-Ray Music. Public relations is handled by Tink Media.  Graphics and Website Design by Brien O'Reilly.  Transcriptions by Eric Rubury. A special thanks to everyone who contributes their wisdom and support to make this possible.