I haven't spoken about this topic much, but in 2007 my first husband and I separated and eventually divorced in 2009.  The whole process was relatively amicable, and we managed to do a decent job co-parenting.   Being more concerned about my daughters through the process, I focused very little on myself or on what the outcome would be.  Some women opt to stay in an unhappy situation until their children are out of the house, and I totally respect that.   No matter your situation, it is important to have your legal ducks in a row to be sure that you are protected both financially and emotionally with the best outcome possible."I don't think anybody dreams of being a divorce or family law attorney, nobody goes to law school saying, that's what I want to be," says family law attorney Joseph Willmore.   This week's guest expert says that he "kind of fell into" this area of law.  What caught my eye about Joseph was his more people-focused approach.  Joseph doesn't want to be seen as home wrecker, as he wants his clients to focus on the big picture.  His main goal is to ensure an equitable parting of ways that is not vindictive or vengeful.  In this episode Joseph Willmore, Esq and I discuss: - Is the marriage truly broken beyond repair with no chance of reconciliation-  When divorce is the best option- Community property - who gets what- When you need a forensic accountant- Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements- How debt is handled in divorce- Why infidelity is not the most common reason for divorce- Communication is key to keeping marriages togetherYou can find Joseph Willmore at:https://www.instagram.com/joseph.willmore/https://www.willmorelawfirm.com/ Follow Asking for a Friend on Social media outlets:https://www.instagram.com/askingforafriend_pod/https://www.facebook.com/askforafriendpod/Please provide a review and share. This helps us grow! https://lovethepodcast.com/AFAF