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Reboot: Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 1
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Length:
34 minutes
Released:
Feb 21, 2018
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Podcast episode
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Reboot, so please enjoy:
Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 1 Intro and My Story
Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.
Today I am starting a series that is different from the ones I usually do. Since I started this podcast, I have covered different topics to do with sex, sexuality, gender and relationships over two or three weeks, looking at each topic in moderate depth. In this new series, I am interviewing people from all walks of life about their journeys to sexual authenticity and integration. Different people are in different places on their journeys. Some are close to the beginning, others in the middle and still others have reached a place of authenticity and integration and their journeys are focused on more pleasure and more learning. For each story, I’ll give a short summary and I will provide some advice or tips for further learning or help if you need it with any of the issues talked about during the story. It is my hope that you will see yourself somewhere in these stories and you will gain support and inspiration from them. Some of them are really hard in places and they also contain great joy. Your sexual journey is as unique as your lip print (which is as unique as a fingerprint – as is your nose print, ear print and your eyes).
My journey is a long one, so grab a cup of tea, coffee or your favourite tipple, any nibbles you choose and get comfortable. When you listen to these stories, try to listen without judgement. Reflect on your own story and each unique piece that makes you authentically you.
Many people believe that all good stories begin ‘Once upon a time’ but that beginning is for a fairy tale and my story starts in the real world. As a pre-teen, my fantasies were about having a master and living in a bottle like the show I Dream of Jeannie. I created a decorated a bottle to live in. I didn’t know why I wanted this, I just did.
By the time I reached my teens, the fantasy was more detailed. There were Masters and Mistresses, and other slave women (for that is how I saw the genie). I was sexually precocious for a number of reasons that I will leave for another day. At 13, I was desperate to lose my virginity but I was ashamed of my desire. I got it in my head that doing so at 13 would be too young and therefore make me a slut so I decided to wait until after my 14th birthday. I had a boyfriend at the time and I made him wait until 10 days after my 14th birthday. Before my birthday, I discovered the joys of blow jobs. I loved the feelings that giving a blow job gave me. My boyfriend counted himself lucky.
My boyfriend’s parents were divorced. He was 16 and lived with his mom. She didn’t mind him bringing me to his bedroom. As a result, I lost my virginity in a comfortable room, in a clean comfortable bed, with Pink Floyd’s Darkside of the Moon album playing on the stereo. We used condoms and he was careful to work on arousing me before the first penetration. There was nothing at all traumatic about the experience. It hurt a little but within a few minutes it was feeling good. It was a great entry to the world of fucking and I have been grateful for this ever since. When I finally did experience traumatic sex, I knew that sex could be seriously good which meant I knew it could be again.
Shortly after this, I had my first proper girlfriend. I had fooled around with some of my female friends earlier – kissing here and there, an occasional fondle. S was my first real girlfriend. With her, I discovered the joys of eating pussy. At that time, I preferred to be the one giving not receiving.
My desires to be forced, to be a slave, to be told what to do, just increased as time went on. At 14, I got involved with Perry who was 18...
Sex Spoken Here: Sex Love Stories 1 Intro and My Story
Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.
Today I am starting a series that is different from the ones I usually do. Since I started this podcast, I have covered different topics to do with sex, sexuality, gender and relationships over two or three weeks, looking at each topic in moderate depth. In this new series, I am interviewing people from all walks of life about their journeys to sexual authenticity and integration. Different people are in different places on their journeys. Some are close to the beginning, others in the middle and still others have reached a place of authenticity and integration and their journeys are focused on more pleasure and more learning. For each story, I’ll give a short summary and I will provide some advice or tips for further learning or help if you need it with any of the issues talked about during the story. It is my hope that you will see yourself somewhere in these stories and you will gain support and inspiration from them. Some of them are really hard in places and they also contain great joy. Your sexual journey is as unique as your lip print (which is as unique as a fingerprint – as is your nose print, ear print and your eyes).
My journey is a long one, so grab a cup of tea, coffee or your favourite tipple, any nibbles you choose and get comfortable. When you listen to these stories, try to listen without judgement. Reflect on your own story and each unique piece that makes you authentically you.
Many people believe that all good stories begin ‘Once upon a time’ but that beginning is for a fairy tale and my story starts in the real world. As a pre-teen, my fantasies were about having a master and living in a bottle like the show I Dream of Jeannie. I created a decorated a bottle to live in. I didn’t know why I wanted this, I just did.
By the time I reached my teens, the fantasy was more detailed. There were Masters and Mistresses, and other slave women (for that is how I saw the genie). I was sexually precocious for a number of reasons that I will leave for another day. At 13, I was desperate to lose my virginity but I was ashamed of my desire. I got it in my head that doing so at 13 would be too young and therefore make me a slut so I decided to wait until after my 14th birthday. I had a boyfriend at the time and I made him wait until 10 days after my 14th birthday. Before my birthday, I discovered the joys of blow jobs. I loved the feelings that giving a blow job gave me. My boyfriend counted himself lucky.
My boyfriend’s parents were divorced. He was 16 and lived with his mom. She didn’t mind him bringing me to his bedroom. As a result, I lost my virginity in a comfortable room, in a clean comfortable bed, with Pink Floyd’s Darkside of the Moon album playing on the stereo. We used condoms and he was careful to work on arousing me before the first penetration. There was nothing at all traumatic about the experience. It hurt a little but within a few minutes it was feeling good. It was a great entry to the world of fucking and I have been grateful for this ever since. When I finally did experience traumatic sex, I knew that sex could be seriously good which meant I knew it could be again.
Shortly after this, I had my first proper girlfriend. I had fooled around with some of my female friends earlier – kissing here and there, an occasional fondle. S was my first real girlfriend. With her, I discovered the joys of eating pussy. At that time, I preferred to be the one giving not receiving.
My desires to be forced, to be a slave, to be told what to do, just increased as time went on. At 14, I got involved with Perry who was 18...
Released:
Feb 21, 2018
Format:
Podcast episode
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