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Listeners Ask: Mom Guilt, Burnout, and School Stress

Listeners Ask: Mom Guilt, Burnout, and School Stress

FromFlusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry


Listeners Ask: Mom Guilt, Burnout, and School Stress

FromFlusterclux With Lynn Lyons: For Parents Who Worry

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Length:
40 minutes
Released:
May 25, 2020
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Mom guilt, burnout, and stress over remote learning has most parents exhausted these days. Hear psychotherapist Lynn Lyons share ways to manage these common pandemic parenting stresses.
In this bonus episode, we asked listeners to share what they needed help with most, and Lynn delivers strategies to make days smoother.
1:38 We address burnout and how to fill an empty tank is small breaks.
6:56 A listener mentions that she feels guilty telling her children she is working when they want her attention.
Lynn discusses the real purpose of guilt as an emotion and the toxicity of misapplied guilt.
12:06 The conversation moves to schoolwork stress and how to give the right space for kids to perform and why getting involved isn't always best.
19:06 We discuss how the lockdown has been a teacher of resilience for kids used to getting what they want. Lynn describes the difference between disruption and devastation and how the pandemic affects families differently.
Lynn explains that our own self care must be independent of our children's emotions.
29:29 Robin asks Lynn to relay a time as a mom that she couldn't easily show her vanilla ice cream face.
Read the whole transcript on our site.
Released:
May 25, 2020
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (100)

Parenting isn't easy, and it's normal to worry. Lynn Lyons, therapist, author, and speaker is one of the world's experts on helping parents, kids, and teens manage anxiety. She talks with co-host and sister-in-law Robin Hutson in a weekly podcast full of laughs, and practical advice without the psychobabble. At the beginning of the pandemic, Lynn and Robin started the Flusterclux podcast when their parenting retreats went on hiatus, and they're now 2 years in, talking about anxiety and worry, their love for Mr. Rogers, and the crazy things the mental health field gets WRONG about anxiety. Anxiety Expert Lynn Lyons has been a therapist for over 30 years. She's an author of 3 books with a new one coming out in October and has traveled around the US and Canada training hundreds of audiences teachers, school nurses, counselors and parents about managing anxiety. Flusterclux represents that feeling of overwhelm. Each episode is filled with practical advice for parents how to better manage their worry and big feelings like anger and sadness so that they are modeling healthy emotional awareness. Lynn answers listener questions and gives parents concrete strategies for developing the traits that are their kids' best defenses against anxiety and depression later in life: flexibility, resilience, autonomy, and problem solving. New episodes every Friday at 5AM EST. Find us at flusterclux.com https://www.facebook.com/flusterclux https://www.instagram.com/flusterclux/