EPISODE 34: Sometimes, our kids show behaviors that leave us utterly perplexed. Like when your child suddenly kicks out of nowhere or when nothing seems to work for them. Or when their emotions switch from "I want nothing to do with you!" to “I need you, I need you, I need you,” all within 60 seconds. These are the moments when we feel utterly helpless, unsure of why this is happening and how to respond. This often leads us to feelings of guilt, a sense of failure, isolation, frustration, and sometimes, even resentment towards our own child.Sounds familiar? Then, this week's episode is designed for you and the countless parents experiencing similar challenges. My special guest this week is Robyn Gobbel, MSW, who used to work as a licensed social worker in Texas and Michigan. Now, she focuses on teaching, writing, providing education, and creating communities for the kids and families impacted by complex trauma, nervous system vulnerabilities, and big, baffling behaviors.She’s also the host of The Baffling Behavior Show podcast and the author of Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors: Brain-Body-Sensory Strategies that Really Work. Her mission is to teach people to use neuroscience in order to connect with others. Tune in to this interview, where Robyn dives into:?️ the challenges of parenting kids with baffling behaviors?️ the impact of trauma on both children and their parents ?️ her neuroscience-backed strategies to help navigate this complex journeyYou really don’t want to miss this one!Key Takeaways:Intro (00:00)Who is Robyn Gobbel (02:37)What are big baffling behaviors (06:24)Two types of attachment trauma (10:14)Impact of raising children with baffling behaviors on caregivers (16:41)Robyn’s two paths out of the struggle with challenging kids (22:25)Creating a feeling of safety at home (27:04)Acknowledging current reality and taking control of your next steps (32:67)Robyn’s piece of advice for struggling parents (38:32)Where to find Robyn (40:50)Additional resources: ?  Check out Robyn’s website - - - ? Get your copy of Calm The Chaos Book ✨ Hear the Success Stories?  Check out my website ? Check out my YouTube channel Connect with me on social media:? TikTok ? Instagram ? Facebook Calm the Chaos Parenting is a podcast offering parents practical tools and strategies to navigate the challenges of raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children.? Follow us on your favorite platform so you never miss an episode!