I read an interesting quote recently. It says, listen carefully, “I am not what you think I am. You are what you think I am.” Think about it for a second. Yes, it's just another version of famous saying “A man sees in the World what he carries in his heart.” 
However the former is addressing more specific topic, which is connecting with others. 
Episode #198: hpln.org/ultimate-selfie-heart-picture