Waiting Room: Diary of a Single, Celibate, & Saved Woman
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Waiting Room - Rolesta Milian
WAITING ROOM:
Diary of a…
Single,
Celibate,
& Saved
Woman
Rolesta Milian
These are my memories, from my perspective, and I strived to represent events as faithfully and honorably as possible.
*NOTE - As I relayed my experiences, I included a few references or phrases that are considered ‘millennial.’ For my readers that may not be familiar with these millennial terms, I have added an asterisk* to highlight and explain them. You can find the explanation of the references on the last page of this book. Shout-out to my fellow millennials!
Copyright © 2023 by Rolesta Milian Edited by The WordWise Café, LLC. All rights reserved.
Thank you for purchasing the authorized edition of this book and complying with copyright laws. No part of this book may be reproduced or used in any manner without the prior written permission of the copyright owner, except for the use of brief quotations in a book review.
ISBN 978-1-312-23160-3
To My Seeds
Thank you for being my lifelines! The only way I could’ve ever made it through this season of my life was with the four of you. The sacrifices made in the waiting room
were all with you in mind. On the days when everything seemed so dim, finding a way out seemed impossible. When loneliness seemed to engulf me, I would look at my four blessings and instantly refuel with gratitude. If God doesn’t give me anything else, I am overjoyed and blessed to have been afforded the opportunity to be your mom. My prayer for you is that God provides a hedge of protection around your lives and situations. My desire is to break every generational curse the enemy has created to forge an attack against you. My hope is to break cycles. May you never experience the trials and tribulation that I have. Despite what life will throw your way, always remember the power of prayer and who your heavenly father is. My prayers will forever keep you covered.
Love you all.
Diary Entries
Introduction 5
Adios To Who I Used To Know 7
Stay Equipped For Counterfeits 15
Alignment With the Will of God 23
Keep Me Content 30
Help Me God, I’m Horny 38
Adjust My Vision 46
Hot Holy Girl Summer 55
Lead Me Not Into Temptation 63
…As We Forgive Those Who Trespass Against Us 73
Insufficient Funds - Deficit = Overdraft 88
Preparation is Key 98
Keep Him for Me 109
Epilogue – Dear Old Me 120
SINGLE - an individual person or thing rather than part of a pair or a group; a separate, unique whole one / sole / lone / free/ unmarried / clear/ sound/ healthy/ available
Biblically,singlenessisacalling.
Called
meaning to choose for receipt of a special benefit or experience. This set time shouldbededicatedtopursuinganundistracted devotion to the Lord.
CELIBATE - voluntarily abstaining from sex.
Ideally,celibatesrefrainfromeverything related to sex, such as kissing, cuddling, snuggling, or touching erogenous zones.
SAVED - to be rescued by Jesus Christ from God’s wrath and judgment.
Wearesavedbygracethroughfaithandthat is not of ourselves. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved.
(NLT)
Single, Celibate, & Saved - what a powerful declaration! An individual person voluntarily abstaining from sex to honor Christ as the Savior, whom by grace gifted salvation.
The Significance of 12
12 months make up a year
12 considered a perfect number
12 symbolizes God's power and authority 12 symbolizes completeness
12 – Jesus' age when scripture first recorded his words
12 men were called by Christ to bear witness to his miracles and spread the good news of the gospel to the world.
Together, we are going to meditate on:
12prayerstosolidifyhealing&wholenessin our single season of faith, preparation, and purpose
12 areas of transparency to be completely vulnerablewithselfandpouroutyourraw, uncut feelings concerning that subject
12areastowriteyourselfaloveletter
12scripturestohelpstrengthenyourfaith
May my testimonies create the safe space needed to be transparent and vulnerable within yourself about yours.
Therefore, if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. 2 Corinthians 5:17 (KJV)
Diary Entry One:
Adios To Who I Used To Know
Single, celibate, and saved. Three words that describe my current season in life. Married December 28, 2009, mother of four, early thirties - Never did I ever imagine in my younger years of mapping out my life that after thirteen years of marriage, this is where life would find me, and yet here I am. Yes, here I am, right in the middle of a season of preparation, healing, and recovery.
Although I have several questions and some moments are ambiguous, I believe, whole heartedly that God is utilizing this season as one of intentional discipline. Yielding to this foreign period of my life has only come through sincere obedience and dedication to the Holy Spirit. In this season, I am fully consecrating myself to Kingdom work. The husband God has for me will have no other choice but to find me being about my father’s
business. That is one standard I won’t dare waiver in again; your pursuit for Christ will either match or exceed mine. You WILL love God,