Unbroken: A Journey of "Healing, Hope, and Wholeness for the Single, Divorced and Broken"

By Abigail Tandoh Norman

"In a world that often emphasizes the importance of romantic relationships and marriage, it can be easy for singles and those who have experienced divorce to feel overlooked or marginalized. However, God's love and purpose extend far beyond our relationship status. This devotional is a reminder that singleness and divorce do not define our worth or limit our potential for a fulfilling and purposeful life.

Through a series of affirmations and prayers this devotional seeks to provide hope, healing, and encouragement to singles and those navigating the challenges of divorce. It explores topics such as finding contentment in singleness, healing from past hurts, embracing personal growth, and discovering God's plan for our lives.

Each day, readers will be invited to reflect on a specific scripture, accompanied and by a heartfelt prayer.

Whether you are single by choice, longing for a partner, or healing from the pain of divorce, this devotional is a companion on your journey towards embracing God's love, finding healing, and discovering the unique purpose He has for you. It is a reminder that in God's eyes, you are valued, cherished, and deeply loved, regardless of your relationship status."

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• Language: English
• Publisher: BooxAi
• Release date: Jan 17, 2024
• ISBN: 9789655788150

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INTRODUCTION

A new year Declaration

As we enter into a new year, let us declare and affirm the following truths based on God's Word:

1. I declare that this year is a year of new beginnings and fresh opportunities. God is doing a new thing in my life. (Isaiah 43:19)

2. I affirm that God's plans for me are good and full of hope. He has a purpose for my life, and I will walk in His divine destiny. (Jeremiah 29:11)

3. I declare that I am a child of God, and I am deeply loved and cherished by Him. His love for me is unchanging and everlasting. (Romans 8:38-39)

4. I affirm that I am more than a conqueror through Christ who strengthens me. I will overcome every obstacle and walk in victory. (Romans 8:37)

5. I declare that God's grace is sufficient for me. His power is made perfect in my weakness, and I will rely on His strength. (2 Corinthians 12:9)

6. I affirm that I am a vessel of God's peace. His peace will guard my heart and mind, even in the midst of challenges. (Philippians 4:7)

7. I declare that I will trust in the Lord with all my heart and lean not on my own understanding. He will direct my paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

8. I affirm that I am a light in the world. I will shine God's love and truth to those around me, making a difference in their lives. (Matthew 5:14)

9. I declare that I will seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness. He will provide for all my needs. (Matthew 6:33)

10. I affirm that I am a disciple of Christ. I will follow Him wholeheartedly and grow in my relationship with Him. (John 8:31)

11. I declare that I will not be anxious about anything, but in everything, I will present my requests to God with thanksgiving. His peace will guard my heart and mind. (Philippians 4:6-7)

12. I affirm that I am a vessel of God's love. His love will flow through me, touching the lives of those around me. (1 John 4:7)

13. I declare that I will walk in integrity and righteousness. I will honor God in all that I do and be a reflection of His character. (Proverbs 11:3)

14. I affirm that I am a chosen instrument of God. He has appointed me to bear fruit that will last and make an impact for His kingdom. (John 15:16)

15. I declare that I will not be conformed to the patterns of this world, but I will be transformed by the renewing of my mind. I will align my thoughts with God's truth. (Romans 12:2)

16. I affirm that I am a vessel of God's joy. His joy will be my strength, and I will rejoice in Him always. (Nehemiah 8:10)

17. I declare that I will walk in humility and serve others with love. I will follow the example of Jesus, who came to serve. (Mark 10:45)

18. I affirm that I am a temple of the Holy Spirit. God's Spirit dwells within me, empowering and guiding me. (1 Corinthians 6:19)

19. I declare that I will be diligent and faithful in all that I do. I will work as unto the Lord, knowing that my labor is not in vain. (Colossians 3:23-24)

20. I affirm that I am a witness of God's love and truth. I will share the good news of Jesus Christ with others, pointing them to Him. (Acts 1:8)

May these affirmations and declarations guide us throughout the year, reminding us of who we are in Christ and the promises we have in Him. Let us trust in His faithfulness and walk in His truth. Amen.

COMPLETE IN HIM

Day 1: I affirm that God's love for me is unchanging, regardless of my relationship status. I trust in His perfect plan for my life. (Romans 8:38-39)

Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank you for your unchanging love and perfect plan for my life. I know that my worth is not determined by my relationship status. Help me to remember that I am fearfully and wonderfully made and that my value comes from you. Give me the strength to trust in your timing and to focus on growing my relationship with you. Guide me in embracing my uniqueness and celebrating my heritage. Fill my heart with confidence and joy, knowing that I am a beautiful creation.

Thank you for your love and plans for my life. May your will be done.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 2: I affirm that I am complete in Christ, and my worth is not defined by my marital status. I embrace my singleness as an opportunity for growth and service. (Colossians 2:10)

Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank you for the completeness I find in you. Help me to embrace my singleness as an opportunity for growth and service. Guide me in using this season to draw closer to you and make a difference in the lives of others. Give me the strength to resist societal pressures and trust in your perfect timing. Fill my heart with contentment and peace, knowing that I am complete in you. Thank you for your unconditional love and the plan you have for my life. May your will be done as I continue to grow in my faith and service to you.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 3: I affirm that God's grace is sufficient for me in every season of life. I lean on His strength to navigate the challenges of being single or divorced. (2 Corinthians 12:9)

Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank you for your abundant grace and strength that sustains me in every season of life. Whether I am single or divorced, I know that your grace is sufficient for me. Help me to remember that I am never alone and to find solace in your presence. Guide me in embracing my singleness or divorce as an opportunity for growth and healing. Teach me to find joy and contentment in my relationship with you and to use my experiences to encourage and uplift others. Thank you for your unfailing love and grace. May your grace continue to guide me in every season of life.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 4: I affirm that God is my ultimate source of joy and fulfillment. I find contentment in His presence, knowing that He satisfies the deepest longings of my heart. (Psalm 16:11)

Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,

Thank you for the joy and fulfillment I find in your presence. Remind me that true joy can only be found in you. Help me seek you above all else and find contentment in your unfailing love. Guide me in cultivating a deeper relationship with you and experiencing the fullness of your joy. Teach me to trust in your plans and find peace in your presence. Thank you for filling my life with joy, and may I always find contentment in you.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 5: I affirm that God has a purpose for my singleness or divorce. I surrender my desires and plans to Him, trusting that He will guide me towards His perfect will. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Prayer

Father, in the name of Jesus, I surrender my singleness or divorce to you, knowing that you have a purpose and plan for my life. Help me to trust in you and lean not on my own understanding. Guide me in every decision and step I take. Give me the wisdom to recognize your guidance and the courage to follow it. Remind me of your faithfulness and love in moments of doubt. Strengthen my faith and help me to wait patiently for your perfect timing.

Thank you for your guidance and provision. May your will be done in my life.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 6: I affirm that God's love heals all wounds. I release any bitterness or resentment from past relationships, allowing His love to restore and renew my heart. (Psalm 147:3)

Prayer

Father, in the name of Jesus, I come before you with a broken heart, seeking your healing touch. Please mend the broken pieces and restore my heart. I release any bitterness or unforgiveness and ask for your grace to forgive those who have hurt me. Fill my heart with your perfect and unconditional love, removing any barriers or walls I have built. Guide me in choosing healthy and loving relationships, and teach me to love others as you love me. Thank you for your promise to heal the brokenhearted. I trust in your faithfulness to restore and renew my heart. May your love flow through me and touch the lives of those around me.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 7: I affirm that God is my refuge and strength in times of loneliness or heartache. I find comfort in His presence and trust in His faithfulness. (Psalm 46:1)

Prayer

Father, in the name of Jesus, I find comfort in your presence and trust in your faithfulness. Remind me that I am never alone, for you are always by my side. Help me to find solace in your presence and trust in your plan for my life. In times of heartache, I lean on your strength and find refuge in you. Help me to surrender my pain to you, knowing that you can bring beauty from ashes. Thank you for being my refuge and strength. May your love and peace fill my heart, even in times of loneliness or heartache. Guide and strengthen me, and may I always find my refuge in you.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 8: I affirm that God's timing is perfect. I trust in His plan for my future and believe that He will bring the right person into my life at the right time. (Ecclesiastes 3:11)

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

I trust in your perfect timing and plan for my future. Help me to be patient and have faith, knowing that you will bring the right person into my life at the right time. Guide me in preparing myself for that future relationship and help me to grow in my relationship with you. Teach me to love others as you love me. Thank you for your perfect timing and for always being in control. May your will be done in my life.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 9: I affirm that God's love for me is unconditional. I am worthy of love and respect, and I will not settle for anything less than His best for me. (1 John 4:10)

Prayer

Father, in the name of Jesus, Thank you for your unconditional love and for affirming my worth. Help me to embrace this truth and not settle for anything less than your best for me. Remind me of your love in moments of doubt or insecurity. Guide me in seeking your best, and give me the patience to wait for your perfect timing. I surrender my desires and plans to you, knowing that you have a perfect plan for my life. Fill my heart with your love and help me to always seek your best.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 10: I affirm that God is my provider. He meets all my needs, and I trust Him to provide for me financially, emotionally, and spiritually. (Philippians 4:19)

Prayer

Heavenly Father,

I believe you to be my provider, and I trust in your promise to meet all my needs. I surrender my financial worries to you, trusting that you will provide for me and help me manage my resources wisely. I also surrender my emotional needs to you, knowing that you are the God of all comfort and will bring healing and peace. Lastly, I surrender my spiritual needs to you, seeking your guidance and nourishment for my soul. Thank you for being my provider, and may your provision bring glory to your name.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

Day 11: I affirm that God's peace surpasses all understanding. I choose to cast my anxieties on Him and find rest in His presence. (Philippians 4:6-7)

Prayer

Father, in the name of Jesus, I surrender my anxieties and worries to you, finding rest in your presence. Fill me with your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help me to trust in your provision and guidance, letting