My Mind Won't Shut Up!: Meditation for People Who Don't Meditate
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Realistic, cheeky and easy-to-read, My Mind Won't Shut Up! is a book that challenges meditation myths. It's for ordinary, stressed-out people with money worries, weird families and haemorrhoids.Written by two sturdy-legged Glaswegians with short attention spans, My Mind Won't Shut Up! is aimed at anyone who is curious about meditation but turned off by anything too woo-woo. It is not a spiritual journey, and it won't make you better at kung fu. It will help you be kinder to yourself, stop you from spinning out and make you less prone to emotional wobbles.
Linda Williamson and Marion Williamson
Linda is a senior IT project manager for the NHS in London and has been meditating for 20 years. She's obsessed with meditation books, retreats and classes. She reads all the research but still manages to regularly lock herself out of her flat. Marion is an author, editor and copywriter. This is her 4th book. She edited Prediction Magazine for ten years and works as a copywriter for various websites and magazines. Linda has the meditation knowledge and Marion knows how to write books.
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My Mind Won't Shut Up! - Linda Williamson and Marion Williamson
INTRODUCTION
The problem with the word ‘meditation’ is that it carries so much woo-woo baggage. You don’t have to be interested in clean-living, mantras or attaining oneness with the Universe to find meditation helpful. Simply put, meditation is being aware of your thoughts, emotions and senses in the present moment. After meditating for a few moments, you’ll be astonished at the turmoil inside your mind. This is everyone’s experience. If you take one thing from this book it should be this: the whole point of meditating is noticing that your mind won’t shut up.
The whole point of meditating is noticing that your mind won’t shut up
Meditation shows you that most of your thinking is ludicrously unhelpful. You’ll quickly discover you’re giving yourself terrible advice and being viciously unpleasant to yourself. The more you’re aware of your repetitive internal gibberish, the easier it will be to spot unhelpful thoughts, drop them or replace them with kinder ones. This applies to everyone’s minds – even you, with your weird obsessions, insecurities and fantasies.
There’s impressive neuroscience evidence confirming what people have known for centuries: meditating for just a few minutes a day will make you happier, calmer and better in bed (kidding!). So you’ll still be you, but with your shit together.
CHAPTER 1
What Your Mind Does . . . and Why Meditation Helps
It’s one of those ‘simple but not easy’ things.
Relax, everyone has a voice in their head that never shuts up!
Your mind talks rubbish! Have you ever really listened to what’s going on in there? It’s chaos. You’re anxious about a sulking partner, angry at the traffic and confused about your friend being weird at lunch. Money problems make you panic and you feel guilty about what you said to your mum four years ago. In any one minute there’s endless repetition, planning and fantasies.
You make ceaseless associations and ping off on weird tangents, fragmenting your energy and getting nowhere. Your memory skips back in time and leaps into the future but you’re never really here. How can you trust your mind when it’s like this? And who is actually in charge?
Face it, you’re a chimp!
Biologically, you’re a problem-solving monkey. Evolution has given you a nervous system that’s constantly on edge, scanning the horizon for possible threats and rewards. The world around you has changed exponentially but your brain hasn’t evolved beyond spearing antelopes on the savanna. You’re using old equipment to cope with a far weirder and more complex world than your brain was designed to handle. Your hyper-switched-on nervous system is skilled at defending against unexpected dinosaurs but it’s not so useful when you explode with rage because your flight has been cancelled. Evolution doesn’t want you to be content. Content = complacent = eaten by wild dogs.
There’s no end to what we can find to worry about
Our minds evolved to solve problems, and this enabled us chimps to take over the world! Identifying threats is what our minds like to do best, but in our modern information-loaded environment this means there is no end to what we can find to worry about. It’s a bit like when you’re on holiday: everything’s sorted at the office, your cat’s being fed, you’re lying on a sun-lounger with an ice cream, but you can’t rest until you’ve booked your return transfer to the airport.
Your brain doesn’t make you happy – its purpose is to keep you alive!
A part of you is convinced that if you solve all your problems you’ll feel at peace. The difficulty is that your brain is designed to find new stuff to worry about. If you don’t have any obvious or immediate problems, you can be sure you’ll find something to get nervous about soon. Your brain was not designed to make you happy – its purpose is to keep you alive!
Extreme entertainment
Our monkey minds weren’t meant to deal with the extremes of stimulation and distraction that are now available to us. We’re overwhelmed by the vast information-creating vortex of the Internet. The 24-hour rolling news reminds you of dangers the world over. Addictive gaming, productivity tools and messaging apps