Wisdom for the Trenches: God's Solutions for Life's Challenges

By Larry W. Poland Ph.D.

World War I-when "trench warfare" was the awful way wars were fought. It was not just the drudgery of digging the trenches. It was the horror of living in them in mud, ice, snow, and bombardments. For the person of faith, everyday life has its own moral and spiritual trench warfare with constant bombardments by the enemies of our souls.

When King Solomon and his wise friends wrote the divinely inspired Book of Proverbs, they knew life was warfare. They gave advice about the dangers of adultery, the stupidity of getting into debt, and the folly of not learning from the disastrous decisions of others . . . whom they called "fools." They made Proverbs a guide to survival and victory.

For nearly four decades, Larry Poland served Jesus Christ in what he calls "the epicenter of folly"-Hollywood and New York media. All the while, he studied the Bible's basic textbook on wisdom, Proverbs. He translated these wonderfully practical principles into the treacherous world in which you and I live-and fight the spiritual war-in the trenches of life.

Larry brings his education in social science at Wheaton College, in theology at Grace Seminary, and two graduate degrees including a Ph.D. from Purdue University to bear on God's solutions. He integrates his experience as a college president, founder of a Christian radio station, TV talk show host, author of nine books, creator of the world's largest traveling mixed media presentation, travel in 82 countries, and consultant to executives in global media. Larry and his wife, Donna Lynn, have six children and fourteen precious members of the next generation.

This book could change your life . . . and help you win your war!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Christian Faith Publishing, Inc.
• Release date: Jul 1, 2021
• ISBN: 9781098081140

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1

How to Recognize a Fool

The fool says in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, and their ways are vile."

—Psalm 53:1

Upon hearing circus magnate P. T. Barnum’s famous quote, There’s a sucker born every minute, some wag asked, If so, where did all the rest of them come from? As societies stray from honoring God and His Law, there is a progressive increase of fools and folly among their citizenry.

Barnum was in the entertainment business and knew full well that the incidence of fools in the industry is as high as in any other segment of society. While Jesus prohibited our calling another person a fool as a curse (Matthew 5:22), the Scriptures provide ample criteria by which to recognize fools when we see them.

The first and most obvious mark of fools is their arrogant assertion that God doesn’t exist or, if He does, is unknowable. When confronted with these arguments from atheists or agnostics, the late J. Edwin Orr would ask, How much of all the knowledge in the universe do you think is now possessed by human beings? Usually, the proportion cited was less than 10 percent. How much of all the knowledge possessed by human beings of all time do you, personally, feel that you possess? This question usually drew an uncomfortable chuckle and an estimate of less than 1 percent. At this point, Orr would drive the stake into the discussion with the question, Do you think it’s possible that God might exist outside the realm of your knowledge?

Principle: Failing to recognize the Supreme Being is being supremely foolish.

Fools are also recognizable by corrupt character. The problem with corruption is not just that it is sin but that it doesn’t even work! E. Stanley Jones tells of a conversation he had with a politician who was mocking the British Oxford Group Movement with its four absolutes—absolute honesty, absolute purity, absolute unselfishness, and absolute love. The man suggested a countermovement with absolute dishonesty, absolute impurity, absolute selfishness, and absolute hate.

Why not? Jones challenged. If you believe in sin, why do you not go out and make it absolute…sin with the stops out….? The man looked at Jones in astonishment and said, Oh, no, we couldn’t do that—it wouldn’t work! It most certainly wouldn’t. Every dishonest, impure, selfish, and hate-filled person is a parasite on the righteous people who practice enough virtue to keep the system working.

The Law of Righteousness is wired into the universe as much as the law of gravity. Allowing moral corruption into one’s life is like putting water in one’s automobile gas tank; it soon brings all operations to a screeching halt.

Principle: Corruption isn’t just wrong. It’s stupid. In the long run, it doesn’t even work.

Finally, fools are characterized by deeds that are vile. Humans were designed by the Creator to live successfully only by divinely defined purity and morality. Thus, those whose minds and actions are marked by filth, debauchery, and sexual perversion are steering a life course that could not be more foolish. Proverbs minces no words in describing such people: As a dog returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats his folly (Proverbs 26:11).

Principle: Filth and faith are mutually exclusive; as one grows, the other dies.

Learning to recognize fools and their ways provides rich benefits for those who hunger and thirst after righteousness. So do your homework!

2

Adultery: One A You Don’t Want to Earn

For the lips of an adulteress [adulterer] drip honey, and her [his] speech is smoother than oil; but in the end she [he] is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword… For the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread and the adulteress preys on your very life.

—Proverbs 5:3–4, 6:26

A story going around Hollywood is that when Moses came down from Mount Sinai, he gathered the Jewish men and said, Guys, I have good news and bad news. The good news is that I negotiated God down from twenty commandments to ten. The bad news is that adultery is still on the list. So goes the increasingly light view of sex outside of marriage, intimacy that violates a covenant with God and a spouse.

Research by Connecticut Mutual Life indicated that the media elite are about 30 percent more likely to see nothing wrong with adultery than the general populace and about four times (!) more likely than the public to see nothing wrong with living together before marriage.

While breaking any one of the Ten Commandments can be forgiven via repentance and confession, there is a good reason adultery is on God’s Big Ten list…and the reason is not that God is out to spoil our fun. God happens to know how ultimately destructive illegitimate sex really is.

The writer of Proverbs observed that adultery turns the sweet experience of romance into a wretchedly bitter one. What starts out as honey ends up as gall. FYI, gall is the bile of an animal used for medicinal purposes with as bitter a taste as its source might indicate. Furthermore, this unlawful kind of love experience initially has all the properties of oil—a soothing balm—but will mortally wound like a dagger in the end.

Principle: Sex outside of marriage is not what it appears on the surface. Its sweet, smooth beginnings inevitably end in bitterness and injury.

King Solomon—who had considerable experience with seduction as a man with seven hundred wives and three hundred concubines—also figured out what happens to seducees, male and female. He observed that allowing oneself to be seduced outside the bounds of God’s Law has a reductionist effect on a person. Pick your category of reduction—psychological or spiritual, physical or emotional, financial or reputational. The person who submits to sexual seduction outside of marriage steps into an experiential bottomless hole. Illicit sex takes the person from the high uniqueness of virginity and purity to the loaf of bread level, one of cheapness and commonness.

Principle: Sex outside of marriage always takes the partners from seduction to reduction…by sucking life itself out of them.

Adultery is not, as someone has said, the same thing for adults that child’s play is for children. It is the enemy of successful living. God said so with such force that He made it one of the ten, major no-nos of living.

3

Anger: The Nuclear Emotion…with Huge Fallout

Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city.

—Proverbs 16:32

For as churning the milk produces butter, and as twisting the nose produces blood, so stirring up anger produces strife.

—Proverbs 30:33

Fred (not his real name) was a professional associate in Christian service and an angry man. He was angry at the boss, angry at the board of trustees, angry at organizational policies, and was uniquely able to generate ad hoc anger toward a host of other things. He interrupted a staff meeting and told off the boss in front of the entire team and then wrote a vicious letter to strong supporters of the institution. At that point, the leadership decided Fred could best serve God in some other vineyard.

I can quote lines from Fred’s tirade and his tone from more than five decades ago! His ill-managed anger left its deep scars on me.

Fred’s problem wasn’t his intellect or his talent, not his training or his skills. It was not the passion for justice and righteousness we often call righteous anger. It was his tolerance of his own selfish, ego-centered anger and his inability to manage it.

When Proverbs says one who manages his or her anger well is of more value than a great warrior or strong conqueror, it speaks well. In the long run, hot-tempered people destroy more than they build.

Principle: The passion of anger is the nuclear fission of the emotions. It can light a city or blow it to bits depending on how its power is released.

It is an immutable law of interpersonal strife and organizational dissension that at the heart of both is an angry person. If relationships are turbulent or the management team is torn apart by schism, look for the person with ill-managed anger. Proverbs declares that there is an inevitable link between interpersonal strife and personal anger as surely as there’s a link between butter and churned milk or a bloody nose and violent twisting.

Principle: Ill-managed anger is an antipersonnel mine; trigger it, and it will maim you and cause permanent injury to those near you.

The key to getting past nuclear anger is surrender. The Pauline principle of dead to self, alive to Christ is central. Dead men don’t respond, and only when we give up all rights to the One who bought us are we free not to defend ourselves and strike back in anger. Galatians 5:20 describes one of the manifestations of the flesh as fits of rage.

Principle: The only way to manage anger is to surrender it to the Spirit of God; as surrender increases, ill-managed anger decreases.

Fred called me after three decades passed and asked for my forgiveness! He said he’d discovered all those other people’s problems were really his. He was right…and I forgave him. But, in the meantime, the rest of us took a lot of cities from which Fred didn’t get any plunder.

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Lying: The Self-Made Trap

Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue lasts only a moment.

—Proverbs 12:19

A fortune made by a lying tongue is a fleeting vapor and a deadly snare.

—Proverbs 21:6

Inhale. Lie. Exhale. Lie. This was the title of a front page article by David Shaw in the Los Angeles Times about the chronic lying that goes on in Hollywood. Shaw declares, In Hollywood, deception is a frustrating fact of everyday life, involving everything from negotiations and job changes to casting, financing and scores from test screenings. Even box office numbers are made up, fabricated every week.

For a person of integrity in media, it is stunning to see the no-big-deal attitude that exists toward lying, especially when one considers the idiocy and destructive potential of the act. One talent agent’s assistant said of her boss, He lies about everything. He even lies for no reason!

Proverbs exalts truthfulness as having weight and permanence when it declares that Truthful lips endure forever. When a truthful person says, I’ll purchase your car for ten thousand dollars on Monday, it carries weight. The moment the person says those words, hearers spring into action to respond to the event as if it has already happened. When a liar says the same thing, nobody responds. Oh, he’s just saying that, is the hollow response. Not only does nothing happen on Monday, but nothing happens a minute later. You read it above: A lying tongue lasts only a moment.

Principle: Truthful words have hurricane force, but lies the impact of warm breath.

Because of the impact of