Do you ever feel like someone is messing with your mind, making you doubt your own perceptions and feelings? You might be a victim of gaslighting, a manipulative strategy commonly used by malignant narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths. In this deep-dive discussion, we, Dr. Marla and Dr Jonathan Behler, get real about the devastating impact of gaslighting on its victims, exploring phrases like 'you're just being paranoid', 'you're overreacting', and 'that never happened', and revealing how these are used to invalidate a person's experiences and feelings. It's a conversation of awareness, understanding, and empathy.But it's not all serious, we also share some intriguing facts about the unexpected truth behind 'American' apple pie, the allergic relationship between cats and humans, and the enchanting real-life marriage of the voices behind Mickey and Minnie Mouse. As we journey through the shadows of our world, we also give a shoutout to our listeners from beautiful places such as Coeur d'Alene, Idaho. It's an episode that offers both light-hearted trivia and substantial guidance, promising to leave you feeling enlightened and better equipped to face the challenges life throws your way.You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:graceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!Check out our Etsystore and buy merch: https://shadowsofgrace.etsy.comhttps://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527Consider becoming a supporter of our show!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966440/supporters/newConsider using Covenant Eyes -Covenant Eyes helps you and the ones you love live porn-free through transformative accountability relationships.Use our promo code grace1998 to get 1 month free of Covenant Eyes Porn Blocker http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Zd202RSupport the show