Are you aware of the negative effects of stress and selfishness in your marital life? This episode brings to light the profound impact of these elements on the sanctity of your relationship, starting from the sin and blame game introduced by Adam and Eve. We explore how these factors have trickled down into our marriages and led to destructive patterns that we often aren't cognizant of. We delve into the unique challenges faced by those in the military or ministry, whose frequent relocations and job changes leave their marriages vulnerable.The societal pressures piled onto marriages are not to be underestimated, either. We're all guilty of envying what others have, especially now in the age of social media where everyone's life seems perfect. However, we break down the illusion and reveal how this comparison culture can strain marriages. We also tackle the often neglected topic of financial stress, which if not managed effectively, can lead to a breakdown in communication. So, join us as we dive deep into the heart of these issues, uncovering the importance of understanding, communication, and validation to maintain the sanctity of your marriage.Information is taken from: Marriage Works Curriculum - Light UniversityYou can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:graceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!Check out our Etsystore and buy merch: https://shadowsofgrace.etsy.comhttps://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527Consider becoming a supporter of our show!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966440/supporters/newConsider using Covenant Eyes -Covenant Eyes helps you and the ones you love live porn-free through transformative accountability relationships.Use our promo code grace1998 to get 1 month free of Covenant Eyes Porn Blocker http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Zd202RSupport the show