Ever wondered why closure seems elusive when dealing with narcissists in relationships? Well, you're not alone. Join us, Dr. Marla Behler and Dr. Jonathan Behler, as we dive into the perplexing world of narcissism, highlighting why closure remains an uphill task. From lack of empathy to fear of vulnerability and aggressive control and manipulation tactics, we unpack how these tendencies can keep one tethered to a toxic relationship, highlighting the fine line between mild narcissistic traits and a severe narcissistic personality disorder. Shifting gears, we delve into the transformative power of humility and the importance of knowing one's identity in Christ. Drawing wisdom from 2 Timothy 3 and 1 Peter 5, we shed light on God's disdain for pride and how honor is birthed from humility. We tackle how our inherent sinful nature can birth self-centeredness, especially when dealing with a narcissist, and share helpful tools such as discipline, boundaries, communication, and distance to navigate such relationships. Lastly, we emphasize the necessity of understanding an individual's environment before committing to them. So tune in, and let's together change our perceptions and handle relationships more effectively.You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:graceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!Check out our Etsystore and buy merch: https://shadowsofgrace.etsy.comhttps://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527Consider becoming a supporter of our show!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966440/supporters/newConsider using Covenant Eyes -Covenant Eyes helps you and the ones you love live porn-free through transformative accountability relationships.Use our promo code grace1998 to get 1 month free of Covenant Eyes Porn Blocker http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Zd202RSupport the show