Have you ever felt the chill of loneliness creep in despite being surrounded by people or even in a loving marriage? We, Dr. Marla and Dr. Jonathan Behler, dare to peel back the layers of this complex emotion, embarking on a fascinating journey to understand its causes and impacts. We dissect recent data from the Guinness World Records of 2023, revealing the 10 loneliest states in America, and explore how major life changes, like relocating or retiring, can trigger feelings of isolation. With a twist of novelty, we also share some peculiar records from the Guinness World Records – who knew the human tongue could lift such heavy weights or eyeballs could pop so far!As the discussion unfolds, we delve into loneliness within the sanctity of marriage, highlighting how communication gaps, lack of commonality, and divergent priorities can drive wedges between couples. Drawing inspiration from the Bible, we shed light on how turning to God can provide comfort and solace during lonely times. To fight against this invisible enemy, we suggest practical measures such as joining social clubs, volunteering, or reconnecting with old friends. Finally, we discuss finding a connection with Jesus during periods of loneliness and emphasize the importance of outward focus rather than dwelling on internal turmoil. This deep-dive into loneliness is a treasure trove of insights and advice, especially for those who've ever felt alone in a crowd.You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:graceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!Check out our Etsystore and buy merch: https://shadowsofgrace.etsy.comhttps://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527Consider becoming a supporter of our show!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966440/supporters/newConsider using Covenant Eyes -Covenant Eyes helps you and the ones you love live porn-free through transformative accountability relationships.Use our promo code grace1998 to get 1 month free of Covenant Eyes Porn Blocker http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Zd202RSupport the show