Ever wondered if some of those common Christian phrases we often use are actually supported by the Bible? Today, we reveal the truth behind misconceptions like "God helps those who help themselves" and "cleanliness is next to godliness." Join us as we uncover the origins of these phrases and their true meaning while considering the responsibility of Christians to work and provide for themselves, yet acknowledging that God often helps those who don't help themselves.Moving forward, we dig deeper into the concept of becoming a child of God and how it's not an inherited status at birth. Discover the importance of surrender and acceptance of the cross, and how God can take our mess and transform it into a powerful message for his glory and our good. Also, we discuss the need to be cautious when using phrases that may not be supported by scripture. This eye-opening episode is bound to challenge your perspective and enrich your understanding of commonly held beliefs within Christianity.You can contact Dr. Jonathan and Dr. Marla Behler:graceintheshadowsor.orgdrjonathan@graceintheshadowsor.org(251) 244-4645*If you are searching for a clinical counselor and you live in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler would be happy to see you as a client! He does all counseling virtually through a secure portal. He will also work with you on payments - don't let finances keep you from getting counseling!If you live out of the US or not in Alabama, Virginia, or North Carolina, Dr. Jonathan Behler is an ordained minister and trained in pastoral counseling. If you are seeking pastoral counseling, please reach out as well!Check out our Etsystore and buy merch: https://shadowsofgrace.etsy.comhttps://www.facebook.com/Grace-in-the-Shadows-109541368379527Consider becoming a supporter of our show!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1966440/supporters/newConsider using Covenant Eyes -Covenant Eyes helps you and the ones you love live porn-free through transformative accountability relationships.Use our promo code grace1998 to get 1 month free of Covenant Eyes Porn Blocker http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Zd202RSupport the show