The Value of a Woman is her Uterus

By Boneka Lefele

Boneka Lefele is a young woman who believes there is nothing better than self-love. She believes women are equally beautiful and special and need to conquer themselves.

In The Value of a Woman is her Uterus, Lefele encourages women to love, value and empower themselves because failing to do so leaves her expecting a man to achieve the impossible – do it for her.

She calls on women to embrace their femininity because it was given to them by the Creator Lord God and conquer their challenges with its strength. The uterus is a woman’s most valuable body part - it makes her who she is.
If you want to be loved, respected and valued, lead by example.
Show the crowd how it’s done, because no one else does it better.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Boneka Lefele
• Release date: Sep 28, 2022
• ISBN: 9781005888268

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Introduction

This book is penned with the aim to empower women regardless of their age or race. It is created to build, support and motivate those who for one reason or another have found themselves dealing with different unwelcome situations that have left them wondering if they still fall in the category of being called imbokodo (the rocks). It is penned to inspire, teach and share many tips on how to embrace our femininity. It will also help to guide beautiful young women and innocent girls to acknowledge the purpose and the difficulties of being a woman. As we all know, being a woman is always fun and interesting, but also not easy, but because we are named with a special name - being called the rocks of the planet - we live our name. A woman is a special creature on the planet who was made out of one piece of a man’s rib and called a woman, and that makes her special.

A woman is one of the most important creatures in the world; a woman is as special as stars in the sky. Without a woman on the planet, the world is useless, dark and dead as a dry river. A woman was created by the Lord for many reasons but the most important reason of all was to keep the world alive by giving birth, so it will stay as fertile as it is forever. A woman is one of the most loving, caring and amazing creatures. A woman has a small and sensitive heart that is easily hurt and always ready to forgive but hardly forgets and that makes us special. A woman can be hurt by one man a thousand times, but she can still bounce back and love him a million times - that’s how amazing women are. She can be rejected a thousand times, but she will still go back to make peace and fight for her position, that’s just a woman. The worst always happens to women and we always flip it around and find the best in it, that’s just how we are.

A woman can easily love, easily hurt, easily cry, easily give but won’t easily give up.

Women go through the most unforgettable and unforgivable daily life challenges and still remain as wonderful, beautiful and as amazing as always.

Women appreciate the little things, and women always give their best even when they get the worst in return, yet still hope for the best. That’s what makes us the rocks (Imbokodo) because we remain the same even if the situation doesn’t allow us to. Women are really incredible – as women we need to embrace ourselves in many ways because we deserve it. We are not just called ‘the rocks’ for nothing - we go through the worst, do the hardest things, but still remain the same. I’m speaking about things like being a wife, a mother, a chef, a teacher and a housekeeper at the same time. A woman alone does ten people’s jobs every day, we live our name (Imbokodo) in many amazing ways. A woman can manage to cook eight different meals on one stove, do the dishes, clean the house, do the laundry – all with a crying baby tied on her back - and still manage to sing for the baby to be calm.

What is Imbokodo - The Rocks?

Imbokodo describes all females regardless of their age or what they have done for one in the community or for the whole world. It doesn’t only specify those women who have been through hardships in life, it means that even a little girl can grow into a strong, beautiful and unshakable rock of tomorrow. Imbokodo are strong women, who when things are tough, take over men’s positions and stand where they were not supposed to stand to make things right. Imbokodo are women with strong backbones, who don’t easily shiver no matter what the situation may be. Imbokodo is a woman who can stand for the fire to burn her and still go for what’s right. An Imbokodo is a woman who stands for the whole family, who can see right from wrong; a stubborn woman, a go-getter, a person who can do whatever it takes to get what she wants. An Imbokodo is an inspiration who leaves an unforgettable mark everywhere she walks to show that ‘the rock’ has passed through there. Nobody can fit or replace her position, at home, at work or in the community. She leads by example, and she always passes on to others the best knowledge.

She inspires both her family and her community; she doesn’t depend on any man to get everything she wants. She never lowers her standards and she respects and loves herself. She is a hard worker who always tries her best and gets things done with her bare hands, and the best way she wants them to be. She carries her pain with her own womb and smiles through it until it’s over, she is unbendable steel. She ties a towel around her waist when things are bad and then finds the solution, because the waist is where all her strength is. She is a person who can melt God’s heart no matter how angry he was. but when she prays, her prayers won’t only hurt her but also God himself. When she cries to God of her pain and lets her tears flow on her cheeks, even God Himself cannot ignore her because of His sympathy. She dresses like her mother; acts like her father and finds a solution for things that have been failed by men. When men fail their duty, she takes over to be a mother and father at the same time.

She sacrifices her time, happiness and beauty for others. She always goes the extra mile to ensure that people are happy and comfortable around her. Not because of a ‘must’ but because of her love for others. Many of us are here not because we wanted to be but because someone had sacrificed her love and happiness for us to be here, and that person is a woman. Why can we not honour all women for things they have gone through in this world? They did not just sacrifice their lives for their children but for their husbands and their in-laws too. We all know that everything on this earth is limited, nobody wants to live the rest of their lives for others. Everybody wants to live one’s best and happiest life, but women have sacrificed all that to live their lives for their children and husbands. Women gave not only