Come on Man: You Can't Be Serious

By Tony “Jabez” Hardy

Come on Man by Tony "Jabez" Hardy is the last time you will be lost in chaos ever again. This is the first book of four that will open your eyes to the things that have had you blind, and bound as slaves. It exposes things you never would have imagined leaving you saying, "That's it? This is why my life is in turmoil, this is why my children are this way? This is why I keep getting in dead end relationships, taking jobs that lead me nowhere?

This is the answer to all those questions left un-answered.

Eliminate negative thinking
Get into everlasting relationships
Dispell the myths and lies this world has fed you.
Renew your throught process and your mind, and live the way God intended you to live. Like royalty able to adapt and overcome live in victory in every are of your life.

This is revelation the people who know didn't want to get out. Why? Because it works!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Dec 11, 2012
• ISBN: 9781479753390

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Copyright © 2012 by Tony Jabez Hardy.

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CONTENTS

Chapter One:

Begin to Open Your Mind

Chapter Two:

The Confrontation

Chapter Three:

No More Excuses

Chapter Four:

Encouragement

Chapter Five:

Accountability

Chapter Six:

The Solution

Acknowledgements

F irst and foremost I’d like to thank my Lord and savior Jesus the Christ, for loving me enough to give up his life for me. Thank you God for the awesome revelation you gave me in everything I’m about to share with the readers. I also want to acknowledge Tari Hardy, thank you for the role you played in my life. I’d love to thank all of those who started with me but didn’t finish with me, I couldn’t have done it with you so thank you for removing yourselves it was truly a blessing. Thank you Pastor Ed Hobbs I learned so much from you I thank God for you. Mike and Tanya Dillard wow what can I say about you two, I love you so much you have no idea. Pastor Rodney Pearson, Barbra Morton my sister Bryce, Bryerra, and Brylend I love you guys and when I make you do too…Angela Trahan I want to thank you too for believing in me praying for me encouraging me I love you, also Donna Doinks Diaz I am so bless to know you, Gary Ard, Rodney Spears, Larry Griggs, Saul Paul, Derwin Williams and Bianca.

Introduction

from Tony Jabez Hardy

I f you’re reading this book right now, then you are one of the tens of thousands that are fed up with settling. You’ve reached the end of the road of hopelessness. You’re saying to yourself I’ve tried everything and I’m still hitting one brick wall after another. Or this one Every where I turn there’s a dead end. You’re tired frustrated and snappy. Everyone is on edge around you walking on eggshells, ready to through your hands up and say, that’s it I’m over it. No more I have had it. You’re not getting any sleep tossing and turning in bed, giving depression a shot at making you miserable. Binge eating, gaining weight, drinking yourself to sleep. Well this book is a book that not only shows you the root of this problem but effective ways to fix them for good. It’s real simple. Most of you are saying Come on man you can’t be serious oh but I am. I totally understand what you are going through. How can I write a book on something I have never faced and triumphed over? During the course of this book I will highlight different problem areas and root issues and give you strategies to overcome them. Please note that it will only work as much as you are willing to work it. I will share my knowledge used to gain victory status over my situations and circumstances, and it made the victorious and prosperous man I am today. Remember your best days are in front of you, don’t look back, only move forward. Before you go any further in this book. Open your mind and be prepared to be totally transparent with yourself. If you can’t do this then there is no need for you to read this book. If you’re not ready to advance in your life, take this book you have in your hands and give it to someone who is. Ready…Set…Let’s Go!

CHAPTER 1

Begin to Open Your Mind

A s a child we come to this world as empty vessels, without a care in the world. We’re waited on hand and foot. We get the pleasure of getting fed, washed, cleaned, and dressed up; and if that’s not enough, we have things bought for us and so on. I guess it’s safe to say that we’ve been conditioned from birth to have our needs met. But as an infant it is justifiable because of the obvious. We were unable to perform the tasks needed in life due to physical limitations. Being new to this world, we had to learn how to sit up, crawl, go from drinking out of a bottle to eating solid baby food to feeding ourselves independently, and walk. You know, sitting back in the high chair, not caring where the food went. You had sauce all over your face, your bib, and the walls and on the floor. It never entered into your mind that you’re making a total mess and that it has to be cleaned up. You’re a toddler for God’s sake. That sort of thing has not yet been taught to you by your patient parents. You can probably see by now, as your mind begins to open, the mounting root of the vast majority of problems we face today, but we will go more in depth later. This book is comprised of random thoughts as to why we’re so underdeveloped as a people, a nation, and a world.

If you are truly and completely honest with yourself, you can see that jumping the hurdles are not as hard as we perceive them to be. I wish someone would have slapped me