How to Tame a Dawg: The Pussy Kat Ain't Doin It!

By Pearl Jr.

Dear Sistah Girlfriends,

How To Tame A Dawg: The Pussy Kat Aint Doin It! is a real deal relationship book just for you.

Ive read it! You gotta get it!

This manual is Rated R for RAW because the language and sexual content is for women over the age of 18 (but it can be broken down for the younger sistahs).

Author, Pearl Jr. utilizes the street language of the hip-hop generation to make her points. For example, are you the only one in the relationship? Does putting him on blast get you what you want? Is he proud to be a dawg and givin out resumes?

The book addresses all these questions plus many more that you thought you would never get answered. Some dawgs you better be aware of, so that you can beware of the bull dawgs.

A few chapter titles include, What kind of dawg is he? What kind of Pussy are you? Target practice, and If you dont want a dawg, then dont raise one!!

Through her experiences, Pearl Jr. shares with us her proven strategies, techniques and subtle approaches to making the man in your life much easier to deal with.

Every women who reads this guide will find themselves in here somewhere; no matter their economic status, education or family background. Youll be revitalized and motivated just as I was. As a matter of fact, this will be your reference guide to a healthier relationship.

Thank you sistah girl Pearl.

With love and respect,

Joyce Clark Freelance Writer/Reviewer

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Dec 8, 2003
• ISBN: 9781469113760

Pearl Jr.

I’m an African-American woman born in the 1960s--“the heart of change for practically everyone in America”. This decade brought about so much consciousness that I believe my motivations towards truly establishing equality was due to the energies of that era. I constantly analyzed negative statements and actions, while seeking the answers to why attitudes are the way that they are. The most important question and the longest search for an answer was why did White people enslave Black people? My discovers are that race is a product of the evolutionary processes of mankind, not only with skin, hair and eye color but also with the mental manifestions that created a world based on control, fear and insecurity. My goal in life is for no one to ever feel ashamed of his or her unchosen race and for race to finally be a non-issue with the pre-determined result being equality for all. But first, I’m going to set the record straight!!

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How To

Tame A

Dawg!

The Pussy Kat Ain’t Doin’ It!

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PEARL JR.

Copyright © 2003 by Pearl Jr..

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Contents

Dedication

Preface

INTRODUCTION

Rated R For RAW!

The Lion’s Roar

What Kind Of Dawg Is He?

What Kind Of Pussy Are You?

Sistahs, We Need To Talk!

Strong Black Woman

Trouble Makers

Start Off Right!

CHAPTER I

Lacking Love Is Driving Us MAD

Target Practice

Black Love

Our Launch Is Flawed!

Gone

He Had Serious Game!

Riddle Answer

CHAPTER II

If You Don’t Want A Dawg,  

Then Don’t Raise One!

What To Do??

Infants & Toddlers

Ages 5 – 12

The Scary Teenage Years

CHAPTER III

The Need Is Greater Than We Think!

Activate Black Woman Power!

A Black Man’s Nightmare

Ebony Queen

Am I Not A Man?

Actual Event

Words From A Black Man

Puppy Love Refers To A Dawg Too!

Avoidance,

The Switch-A-Roo,

And The Dick Whoop Game

Conclusion

Society Certainly Has Been Tricky!

REFERENCES

Dedication

First and foremost, I’d like to thank my beautiful, smart, and well-behaved children for giving me the inspiration to write as well as to strive to improve the condition of the Black race. I love you two more than you’ll ever know.

To Jkan, thanks for assisting and taking care of me while I pursued my dream of participating in the prosperity of the Black race as a whole.

To my family, thank you for all your support and freedom to follow my dreams.

Although this is a book of original thought, I’d like to thank all my sistah girlfriends and previous boyfriends for the experiences that have enabled me to write such a manual.

I’d also like to thank Anita Baker’s album, Songstress for allowing me to pour out my sorrows, Fleetwood Mac, SWV (Coco), TLC, Babyface, Little Kim, Foxy Brown, 50 Cents, Ohio Players, Babyface, Smokey Robinson, Lynn Whitfield, Martin Lawrence, Arthur Graham, Jada Pinkett & Will Smith, plus too many numerous artists for letting me know that I wasn’t alone with my emotional suffering.

Also I’d like to thank Ebony, Essence, Jet, Cosmopolitan, Honey, Forbes Fortune 400, Psychology Today, etc. for always writing articles that kept me interested in learning all that I could about relationships.

Further, I’d like to show my appreciation to those committed to influencing public opinion like Martin Luther King, Jr. Malcolm X, Prof. Barbara Stoffer, Cornel West, Al Sharpton, Dick Gregory, Jessie Jackson, Prof. Obayani Kambon, Elton Campbell, Bill Clinton, George Bush, Charles of 1-800-UNITEUS, Larry Elders, Oprah Winfrey, Bill Cosby, Kobe Bryant, Bill O’Reilly, Dr. Laura Schlessinger, Muhammad Ali, Magic Johnson and his family, Denzel Washington and his beautiful family, Eddie Murphy, Kenny M of Gangsta’s Anonymous, Queen Ahneva, Najee Ali from Project Islamic Hope, Dr. Daniel Barkley, D’Bora LeBree, Dr. Earl Ofari Hutchinson founder of National Alliance for Positive Action, Mr. Peoples and his slave ship, Dr. Rosie Milligan, Mary Alice Jones of Congress of Racial Equality (CORE), B-More (Kirk C. Holley, my savior), Big Money Griff of National Coalition for Reparations and Economic Wealth (NCREW), Kwaku Duren from The New Panther Vanguard Movement, Warren Wilson from a Coalition for Blacks’ Best Interest, Dr. Marlena Karenga originator of Kwanzaa and the US Organization, Torre Reese, Shaka Saturi, and especially Betty Z & Oran Z of Oran Z’s Pan-African Black Facts & Wax Museum/Liberation Radio 87.7 FM in Los Angeles/www.orans.com.

Thanks to certain programs such as "Girls Gone Wild", "Twilight Zone", "Beverly Hillbillies", "It’s a Thin Line Between Love and Hate, Daddy Was A Welfare Check" and the comedy routines performed by Eddie Murphy RAW & DELIRIOUS for teaching lessons in life and in love.

Preface

As I pondered about giving this much-needed manual a title, confusion surrounded my thought-processes. With the suggestion of several opinions, I must have literally revised the name more than ten times before finally deciding on How To Tame A Dawg! The Pussy Kat Ain’t Doin’ It! This axiom won because it encompassed all that I wanted to educate about.

In street slang this title is self-explanatory. But to break it down in the wisdom that I’m referring: To tame means for us women to detour the spirit of our men away from the desire to strive to be dawgs. And as defined by Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, pussycat means one that is weak, compliant, or amiable. So with that in mind, the pussy kat hasn’t tamed the dawg suitably.

Lots of our men honorably call each other dawgs, playas, and pimps. Men proudly greet each other with "What’s up Dawg" or What’s up Playa then they brag about their attempts to pimp women out of their money, body, and/or resources. I say, "Fuck the dumb shit!" A real deal holyfield relationship book is a fundamental tool that is essential for our prosperity.

With the formulas that are identified in this manual, the challenge is on to turn the tables to teach our men valuable lessons by utilizing tough love methods and carefully chosen see how it feels techniques. Yet sometimes, you just have to be on alert and stay one step ahead of a dawg to avoid getting dawgged. Consequently, decreasing the number of unsuccessful unions, which will only occur when much thought and proper learning are initiated and applied.

More importantly, my intent is to compel the reader to have aspirations to be familiar with several unspoken rules that aren’t openly admitted or taught. These useful tactics should be exposed, analyzed, and then popularized. Many times, due to the large abundance of dawgs, avoiding a dawg may be impossible, but you can definitely be smart enough to prevent getting used and severely bitten. Simply stay ahead of his game by being the fair offensive playa.

How To Tame A Dawg! The Pussy Kat Ain’t Doin’ It! also prevailed because this is a manual about having the confidence to raise better boys to be men as well. No matter the age of our males, the consensus is we need assistance. Today, Black men, more than Black women are ruining our family structure, which is leading to more declines within our culture. Just as with any other occurrence, there are clear delineations for our current condition that will be explained throughout this text.

Ladies, we need to transform our routine to improve our love relationships. Hopefully, we’ll re-learn that sex ain’t the ONLY answer and neither is the baby. We all have minds that work. We must develop our intellect, more than our hearts to coerce (yes, play positive mind games) our males into doing the correct action despite all the reinforcements that tell him to be wrong is to be right. If you’re skeptical about whether or not your new man is a dawg, then be silently cautious and don’t give up any money, material possessions, or love until the coast is clear to do so.

As you continue reading, you’ll discover that leaving our destiny up to chance hasn’t been advantageous for our family structure, economic status, nor our mental and emotional health.

For the purpose of having this paperback read as a fictional novel, I’ve included the stories of my drama-filled relationships of significance that have redirected my attitude and interactions with the men in my life. Being open and honest, reliable and trustworthy, and naively hopeful just wasn’t enough. I needed skills.

Even though changing trendy destructive behavior is a difficult feat to handle alone, I’m just one more person who has dedicated their life to chipping away at inequality that has been present since our beginnings in this New World.

Before we get started, learn by heart, our men should be for our benefit.

Sex is good, but love makes it better!

He said,

I can get some pussy faster than I can get me somethin’ to eat!

—Baby Daddy

INTRODUCTION

Rated R For RAW!

Damn sex is good!!!!! What a creation? Either ordained by God, nature, and/or biology; it doesn’t matter sex is some good shit!! Whoever or whatever is responsible for the pleasure and/or pain caused by having sex, made sure species would continue because sex is an irresistible action. And ooh the orgasm, what the hell is that feeling all about?

Anyone, and mostly everyone, has the urge to share in a sexual activity that displays attraction to someone else. Sex is such a powerful desire that we’ll have sex with our self when we can’t or won’t find someone to share in the fun. Even if we’re having sex with our self, we’re usually fantasizing about another person.

We all have heard that sex sells and it does! Sex is exhilarating, refreshing, plus a needed bodily function. Just to observe, read, or fantasize about a sexual act can stir up physical feelings that encourage an immediate reaction. SEX SEX SEX is what many people think about several times a day, especially men. Sex can bring us gratification beyond belief.

Sexual activity is as normal a part of life as breathing in oxygen, except sex isn’t something needed every second of the day. Yet and still, sex is a vital function of life. By having sex, bodily fluids can be shared that can assemble to create another human being. Sex is so normal that animals along with plants have their own methods of reproduction that carry on their species, therefore sex must feel magnificent to everything. Sex is all over the place, moreover sex must occur to continue all types of life.

Without sex, some people become irritable, antsy, and/or depressed. Thoughts about getting sex can cause some of us to make irrational decisions that cause us to miss school, miss work, or put up with bullshit that we know is deplorable. Just imagine how many times you’ve forgiven a man because you wanted to continue to fuck him. Because of sex, we can either become temporarily insane or make stupid ass snap decisions.

Sex can rejuvenate the body and energize the mind. In addition, sex can tie people to one another. Sex can be the only attribute some people have in common or sex can be an added attraction to a loving relationship. It doesn’t matter, sex feels fantastic, but it’s the orgasm that we all work for.

The orgasm: SHIT, DAMN, HELL, FUCK!! It’s the most indescribable feeling of all. How does one explain such a sensation? To most, the orgasm is better than being rich plus famous and different from winning a gold medal in the Olympics. The ecstasy of the orgasm is so potent that it can only last a few seconds. Can you even imagine the thought of cumming for a straight five minutes? Hell Naw!! Nobody can take that much pleasure at once. As a matter of fact, it would be torture. Cumming is sooo good that it’s actually a relief when that feeling begins to minimize. Despite the many drawbacks of sex, such as STD (sexually transmitted diseases), we still got to have it as often as possible, only we know that we better put a jacket on it.

The Lion’s Roar

I love the idea of you and me

Passionately

I feel your breath

Ever so closely

You draw near to me

Sugar me sweet

Your mood I feel

Gyrating against

My manly need

Thirsting for some of your sweet release

For my eyes only

In the dark I see

And maneuver

Your pleasure I seek

You arch your body

To receive

The fullness of

My manly beam

Against my ears

Hot air you breathe

Urging me

Of your wanton needs

Deep within

Your mood I reach

Touching the very heart

Of your being

Holding me tightly

As you sweetly release

Digging your nails deep

Your legs imprison me

Lips feverishly seek

Company

As we reach

That climatic peak

The beast you awaken in me

The lion roars

Emanating jungle heat

Listening to the shrill scream

Of his queen

Together you and me

The search for good pussy, aka vagina, kitty kat, twaut, koochie, and pu-nannie, with the funniest description of all being the playground has motivated many to seek also to taste different types of pussy. Technically, the vagina is just a canal that leads to the uterus, which happens to be a perfect cavity to fit a penis. In addition, if the dick is worked right, then the pussy will be juicy causing slippery, friction-like sensations. On good days, the vagina will be hot, especially close to the monthly cycle. In days gone by, the appreciation for being allowed to have fun in the playground use to make men behave accordingly to whatever the woman wanted, however today, too many men think of twauts as a dime a dozen.

The many rewards for giving up the koochie is no longer appreciated because too many of us women give the pussy up too quickly as well as too easily. It appears that many of us have forgotten to make the man work for it, earn it, and principally, beg for it. We’ve neglected to think of our kitty kats as his prize – to be honored, cherished, also claimed only for him. When we bestow value on our pu-nannie, we’re doing our self a favor. The price you put on your koochie isn’t monetary, nevertheless it’s definitely worth something.

The Lion’s Roar marks the first of several poems by Jkan (copyright holder). He’s a British-born Jamaican who has several of the same issues as many Black men in the African Diaspora. To me, this proves that the actions of the past are still affecting each one of us no matter where we’re from. Furthermore, he has been writing poetry for nearly twenty years and has perfected a style that is unmatched; he’s simply a master poet. At first, Jkan started writing poetry as a means to mack to women, however he’s now been tamed.

Given that Jkan has been an intricate part of the editing (basically for content), in addition has contributed so much to the validity of this material, I extend my highest gratitude.

As you have noticed, this instructional guide contains curse words but don’t let that stop you from learning. I used so-called bad words or inappropriate words because I needed to add punch along with power to certain statements. Our usage of the expression Nigga is very different from all other races of people’s usage of Nigger. To make a simple understandable comparable: I can rationally yell and spank my children