Open That Door: Let Love out and Let Love In

By Lloyd E. McIlveen

Love and its deeper, realistic, inspiring, deceiving, and at times, quite and meaningless value is explained in fairly easy-to-understand form.
This is not a storybook. It is designed for the purpose of reducing the unknowns about love and adapting to and with this wanted, frustrating, and many times, misperceived emotion.
The text helps evaluate how one may choose to deal with the power and glory or detrimental aspects of love.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Trafford Publishing
• Release date: Jun 30, 2014
• ISBN: 9781490738772

Lloyd E. McIlveen

Your author, Lloyd E. McIlveen, unveils a chronological list of many and various book subjects presenting controversial, educational, uplifting, futuristic, self helping, philosophical, psychological, entertaining and other stimulating concepts of which are and will be displayed with brief descriptions of each book followed by more issues in line as they become published to the public. The list is growing and will continue to grow.

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ISBN: 978-1-4907-3878-9 (sc)

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Contents

Preface

Chapter 1 Where Did It Start?

Chapter 2 Qualifying For Love

Chapter 3 Different Kinds Of Love

Chapter 4 Pure, Deceptive And Victim Love

Chapter 5 Short And Long Lived Love

Chapter 6 Is Love Required To Live A Life?

Chapter 7 Loves Losses, Awards And Rewards

Chapter 8 Beautiful, Wonderful, And Bewildering Love

Loving and being loved are really very simple if you have the knowledge or instinct; or both.

The subtitle Let Love Out may seem like losing a very high grade talent, but that is erroneous. The following scriptures reveal some of the endless wonders and deceptions of this magical and glorious kingdom of which everyone wants, beside money;—Love.

Do you believe you have it? You may be pleasantly surprised to discover you have more of these talents than you ever knew. If not, they are available.

Preface

There are many words describing a brief generalization or connection to the concept of love like affection, amorous, attachment, brotherhood, captivate, desire, dependency, devotion, embrace, emotion, enamored, fondling, fondness, goodwill, hugging, infatuation, intimate, kissing, liking, pleasure, sex, tenderness and many more.

There are etymological expressions in dictionaries and bookstores on linguistics science of language for one who is more analytically seeking extensive meaning pertaining to these words of love.

Where there are general and practical purposes of becoming more compatible and/or intimate with another living being, a little education of a few personal experiences by one or those who have already experienced the ups, downs, goods and not so goods of love may be helpful.

The following chapters may be a good source of gaining new perception of how to blend in to the world of love without having to stumble all the way through life and then realize it could have worked better another way.

Most people just do not have the time to study concepts and attitudes concerning love and many are not even aware they have endless choices pertaining to the rewards love has to offer.

Lets move on and wade through the crux of it all and prevent tripping on our mistakes which are usually prompted by our ignorant and/or deceptive perception.

Let’s reprogram our outlook on love to eliminate the waste of emptyness concerning love. Let’s fill our consciousness with love so that emptyness will no longer exist and love will prevail.

Chapter 1

Where Did It Start?

When a fish has fertile eggs, is there any love attached to this procreation procedure?

Since we humans don’t understand fish language, the foregoing conclusion could be we just don’t know. Lets look into it.

How about wolves or bears? They appear to be affectionate with each other, so it may be assumed there is love between them, or at least our perception of love.

There are also humans who have, at least what we believe, a superior form of language that assists our ability to understand one another by virtue of what we say or do. Is it because of this great understanding of what we think we have that influences us to believe our way of loving is omnipotent to other forms of life? It’s a very debatable subject.

How about an ant? If this all powerful concept of love is so big, can it really exist in something so small as an ant or maybe even a microscopic parasite?

Well, we human beings appear, sometimes, to have everything all figured out and that love with all of it’s complications, is limited to humans only as it may seem.

Bringing insects, animals, people or any other living being cell into the world requires first, of course, a sexual act of some kind. All species have their own approach and some form of intimacy must exist, so let us do a little historical retrospect.

According to science in the study of ancient history, we were all under water at one time, which may indicate all living cell beings were alike on Earth and had the same psychobiological makeup as far as affection and love are concerned. This may help answer the fish question of love.

Apparently, in the beginning, part of this psychobiological makeup was the sensation of what we now call emotion. That sensation influenced our ability to trust or fear.

So, whenever a living being is confronted with something pleasant like a friend, something required like eating or something unpleasant like an enemy, our emotions are immediately called to help decide, on a constant basis, if these friends, requirements or enemies are really what we believe they are.

Let’s connect man’s emotions to animal life and compare: Since man claims animal life is perpetrated by instinct only, he is contradicting the theory where all living beings were basically the same in the beginning, at least pertaining to emotions. Also, since love involves so many intellectual and psychorhythmic extrapolations, it would appear only man would be capable of such sophisticated intimacies.

Well, back to Earth’s beginning again. If we were all basically made-up of the same stuff, suffice to say, all living creatures large or small would have been created with similar abilities in love emotion as well as sex for procreation.

Do smaller fish swim in schools because they have a particular esteem for the school? How about zebra? They run in packs. Is it because they are having a love affair with other zebra? Of course the answer is no to both the fish and the zebra. They do it to protect their hydes from preditors.

It’s been said love is the strongest emotion among humans. If that’s the case and all living beings are assertively and reactionarily similar, then all living creatures must possess the ability to love which substantiates love is the strongest emotion. Let us continue to search.

So, if early bug and animal life experienced intimate, sexual and family type feelings, they must have experienced feelings of love quite possibly like we humans tend to.

Now, if we can decide all this is somewhat true about all living creatures, then it seems fair to say love can be right near the top of the list as a universal strength and it isn’t just a more recent evolutionary development.

The question is still there though. Is it the very strongest emotion?

So far, it’s only high on the list of our emotional drives and