First Love

By Gopal Kolekar

I am also seriously wondering why I am writing this book on this subject, but what should I say? I also had my first love, and it compelled me to write this book. Love is a natural phenomenon associated with human life. We can't get freedom from love. I think God also can't escape from this. We can say there is a strong relationship between males and females in human life. Scientifically, the particular male and female child so attracted to each other with their closed minds that they do not want to be separated from their entire lives is called the first love.

Keeping scientific thoughts in mind, I also ignored my first love and took it lightly because I wanted to get a doctorate before my death. For that, I studied my entire life, and finally, I got it. But somewhere in my heart was clicking the pains of my first love, and I forcefully agreed that to date I couldn't escape from my first love, and I think it was impossible for me. Because of this happening to me, I am quite surprised at what is true and wrong in my life. Now this question has been arising seriously in my life. Being a science student, I know the function of the human brain, and my brain functions under no control; it automatically tunes up with my first love.

So, I suggested to people: please don't take it lightly; otherwise, you will suffer from your first love. And request that society and the government please take care of the physical and financial help of their young children from this first-love depression; otherwise, their lives will be meaningless, and this will become the only cause of depression in their lives without any proper reason, so we have to take the utmost care in this regard.

Please follow the guidelines mentioned in this book to be saved from the depression of first love. Hence this handbook.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Gopal Kolekar
• Release date: Mar 1, 2024
• ISBN: 9798224289516

Gopal Kolekar

Gopal Rayappa Kolekar Author is Mech. Engg. born in village Kangrali B.K. INDIA

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FIRST LOVE

BY: Dr. GOPAL RAYAPPA KOLEKAR

Dedication

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This book is dedicated to my first love

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FIRST LOVE

Author: Dr. Gopal Rayappa Kolekar

A Book in English.

Under the Indian Copyright Act, all rights of the contents of this book are reserved with the author, Dr. Gopal Rayappa Kolekar. No part of this book, including the name, title, design, or inside matter or photographs, may be reproduced or copied in any form or by any means, in whole or in part, in any language. Breach of any of these conditions is liable to legal action.

All disputes are subject to the jurisdiction of Bangalore courts.

First Edition:  March 2024

ISBN

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Published by:

Gopal Rayappa Kolekar

Lane: Patil Galli, Post: Kangrali B.K.

Taluka and District: Belagavi: 590 010

State: Karnataka, India.

Email: [e-mail]

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01 AN INTRODUCTION TO Dr. GOPAL KOLEKAR

- a multi-faceted author

Dr. Gopal Rayappa Kolekar, born on August 14, 1972, in the quaint village of Kangrali B.K. in Belagavi, Karnataka, India, is a distinguished author and Mechanical Engineer. His academic journey began in his hometown, where he completed his Primary and High School education. Driven by a passion for engineering, he graduated as a Mechanical Engineer from a college in Belagavi.

Despite English being a foreign language, Dr. Kolekar recognizes its significance in scientific discourse. His literary contributions include six books in English, each delving into diverse realms of knowledge and societal concerns. Notably, he explores the educational landscape in countries like India, contemplating the structure and reforms required in the face of contemporary challenges.

In his works, Dr. Kolekar extends beyond conventional themes. Amidst the backdrop of global issues such as mass terrorism and pervasive hatred leading to endless wars, he articulates his views on the principles that should govern contemporary governance. According to him, a liberal approach, inspired by Christ's message, should guide the central power.

One of his notable publications, English for Foreign Students, caters to adults who have completed their primary education in their regional language but seek to acquire English proficiency for day-to-day activities. This practical focus aligns with the recognition of English as a vital tool for various professional and personal endeavors.

Dr. Kolekar's literary repertoire includes insightful works such as Secrets from Gopal, where he unveils scientific mysteries. The World in 2018, his fifth book, serves as a reflection on the events of that year and proposes strategies for addressing contemporary challenges. Additionally, his sixth book, In-Diadem World, explores political and social issues at the onset of the 21st century. His seventh book is titled English Effects on India and this is his eighth book. This book is about - the profound and universal phenomenon of love, focusing particularly on the challenges and complexities of first love. Drawing from personal experience and scientific insights, the author delves into the intricate dynamics of romantic relationships and the lasting impact of first love on individuals' lives. Through heartfelt reflection and practical advice, the author encourages readers to navigate the rollercoaster of emotions associated with first love with grace and resilience.

With a blend of scientific analysis and compassionate wisdom, the book offers guidance on how to cope with the intensity of first love and emerge stronger and wiser. It serves as a compassionate companion for those grappling with the complexities of love, providing valuable insights and support for navigating the journey of first love with courage and self-awareness.

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PREFACE

I am also seriously wondering why I am writing this book on this subject, but what should I say? I also had my first love, and it compelled me to write this book. Love is a natural phenomenon associated with human life. We can’t get freedom from love. I think God also can’t escape from this. We can say there is a strong relationship between males and females in human life. Scientifically, the particular male and female child so attracted to each other with their closed minds that they do not want to be separated from their entire lives is called the first love.

Keeping scientific thoughts in mind, I also ignored my first love and took it lightly because I wanted to get a doctorate before my death. For that, I studied my entire life, and finally, I got it. But somewhere in my heart was clicking the pains of my first love, and I forcefully agreed that to date I couldn’t escape from my first love, and I think it was impossible for me. Because of this happening to me, I am quite surprised at what is true and wrong in my life. Now this question has been arising seriously in my life. Being a science student, I know the function of the human brain, and my brain functions under no control; it automatically tunes up with my first love.

So, I suggested to people: please don’t take it lightly; otherwise, you will suffer from your first love. And request that society and the government please take care of the physical and financial help of their young children from this first-love depression; otherwise, their lives will be meaningless, and this will become the only cause of depression in their lives without any proper reason, so we have to take the utmost care in this regard.

Please follow the guidelines mentioned in this book to be saved from the depression of first love. Hence this handbook.

Gopal Rayappa Kolekar

Bangalore

Date: 06 February 2024

Contents

Chapter 1 What is Love?

Chapter 2 First Love: The Symphony of Innocence

Chapter 3 Scientific Nature of Love

Chapter 4 Healing from Past Wounds

Chapter 5 Understanding Love Language

Chapter 6 Embracing Vulnerability

Chapter 7 The Essence of Passion and Intimacy

Chapter 8 Overcoming Relationship Challenges

Chapter 9 Cultivating Trust and Honesty

Chapter 10  Navigating Differences in Relationships

Chapter 11 Rediscovering Love After Loss

Chapter 12 Sustaining Long-Term Love

Chapter 13 The Role of Society and