The We Between Us: A Three Dimensional View and Approach Toward Evaluating Unification and Relating Potentials Between Couples, Business or Nations

By Lloyd E. McIlveen

The We Between Us is a preparatory study of social, emotional, intimate, and intellectual background and general makeup or all that exists between two people, two groups or two nations generally.

This study helps reveal those attributes as potential grounds where two entities have connected somehow for determining their future in relating or relationships of any nature (love, romance, marriage, family, business, negotiating or peacemaking).

This study may also be used as a lifelong practice relating with others more proficiently. It is comprehensive and less time-consuming than courting or negotiating.

Remember, though, this is definitely not a book to leisurely drift into a dreamland of literary escape. This is a study to boil down what relationships are, can, or will be.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Trafford Publishing
• Release date: Jun 20, 2014
• ISBN: 9781490738284

Lloyd E. McIlveen

Your author, Lloyd E. McIlveen, unveils a chronological list of many and various book subjects presenting controversial, educational, uplifting, futuristic, self helping, philosophical, psychological, entertaining and other stimulating concepts of which are and will be displayed with brief descriptions of each book followed by more issues in line as they become published to the public. The list is growing and will continue to grow.

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ISBN: 978-1-4907-3829-1 (sc)

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Library of Congress Control Number: 2014910021

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Contents

Greetings from your author

Preface

Chapter 1:   What is this need to relate, love, play or associate with someone or others?

Chapter 2:   What is this compulsion to have or dominate?

Chapter 3:   The woes, wonders and potential of traditional waiting.

Chapter 4:   Drive and action behind the need for someone.

Chapter 5:   Understanding how belief guides our direction

Chapter 6:   Advantages of early social/sexual education.

Chapter 7:   Exploring for alternatives in social, love/sex and business life.

Chapter 8:   Learning to blend and flex in achieving our innermost desires to choose.

Chapter 9:   Realizing and developing better and lasting relating and connection goals.

Chapter 10: Maintaining an overview of accomplishing

A list of your author’s books

are attached in the back of this book

for your inspection.

Greetings from your author

So many people forget what they read because it’s only stated once in the book. Why would anyone purposely read educational material designed to either affect, influence or change their way of life in any way if they couldn’t or wouldn’t practice methodological concepts described because they forget what they read?

Repetition of the subject matter with added views chronologically allows an essence of successful, intellectual and educational absorbability.

The content of these texts are intentionally designed to repeat as a growth process so all minds, in their own levels, will retain the study of the We Be Between Us for the benefit of better relating and relationships.

Practicing patience with this study is highly recommended. Even the notes on this page are intentionally repeated in varying degrees for purposes of absorbing the material displayed. This is a study. Read slow for better absorbing results.

May you prosper from your willingness and efforts.

L.E.M.

Preface

The We Between Us is a related issue of the book Improving On Love And Relationships. The nature and intentions of this author are to influence, enlighten and expand relating and relationship consciousness for all who desire uniting somehow.

Wouldn’t it be nice or even great if we humans could spend less time playing manipulative games with each other to gain either a controlling or free loading position in a friendship, a supposed romance, a marriage, job, company or maybe a position of negotiating in peace or war talks and spend more time creating meaningful repour in one another’s company for sincere growth in those and more positions?

The term we in the book title is just a tiny word, but it’s a significant part of most people’s everyday life.

This book ventures gradually into a very little known and practiced, if at all, theory of what may cause couples, groups and even nations to experience dismay and dissatisfaction in their relating and unifying process.

Conversely, it describes a method of bringing those couples, groups or nations together in an information submitting manner that allows a comprehensively understanding procedure for joining one another, adjusting and resolving an existing joint dilemma or disengaging an ongoing situation between two of any people.

Optimistically speaking, these scripts are designed to raise awareness of what may be referred to as a missing link between two living beings, groups or nations that, hopefully, will help prevent common and/or bitter clashing between them and resolve their differences peacefully. That clashing that leads to fights accomplishes little other than proving who may be more skilled in an ability to oppose, argue, bicker and fight.

Tension, suspicion and mistrust around the world in all walks of life prevents experiencing desire of so many to live uninhibited with realization we can enjoy and mutually relate to one another without the limits of grief, strife and misunderstanding.

That missing link can help unlock the door to learning compatibility and peace or at least broaden perspective for relieving some, if not all, domestic, social, industrial, national and international tension, suspicion and mistrust.

These texts are focused on initiating attempts of forming trust that will help allow meaningful relating for its continuance or gracefully and respectfully releasing the unfavorable or unfavorables in relating.

This book introduces extended views on intimate relating (not to be construed as sexual) which are referred to as the three dimensional views for the benefit of social, business, romantic, family, nation and international unification.

This concept of The We Between Us is a study of an unforeseeable and mostly unknown relating consciousness and invisible existence hovering between two people, two businesses, two nations, maybe someday two worlds or at least two major sections of our world.

However, this concept is designed primarily for two people because there are so many more people who have needs of understanding one another much more than groups, businesses or nations etc.

The idea of what exists between two people originated from your author’s many relationships mostly throughout the earlier years of all those pleasant, exasperating and very educational experiences. They were coupled with the lust to know more about how and why they all occurred in sometimes very awkward and resistive manners to say the least. Those experiences created in depth study in psychology for many years ahead. This book is part of the results of those experiences and the study of them all.

The consciousness where there was something more existing between two greatly communicating people and others with much less communicative wit or linguistical ability prompted a desire to seek out something of which must have been mysteriously or maybe even logically lingering in the interim of the two people. That’s what this study is about.

The efforts of this study will be rewarded with acquired abilities to ascertain what is existing between two entities participating and better understand what mind chemistry and attitudes another has or others have before getting too involved with them.

Chapter 1

What is this need to relate, love, play or associate with someone or others?

Some are aroused to associate or connect with others by instinctual tendencies similar to the innate nonrationalized and almost sedated repour of animals and insects etc. while attached with their families. Some are involuntarily developed from a very young age as a result of parental guidance or institutional exploitation; the result being a product or victim, if you will, of their cultural environment or influence