Best Behaviour: Empowering managers and HR leaders to coach and align employee behaviours to supercharge growth
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A finalist in the Australian Business Book Awards and described as groundbreaking by Dr. John Demartini, this book provides a behavioural framework to develop employees and enable high performance.
Behaviours express how we act toward, interact with, react to, others, situations and events. Behaviours are how we learn. Historically, human
Tony Holmwood
A Commercial Accountant by profession, Tony Holmwood is used to focusing on business performance, business transformation and change projects. He came to understand more about organisational development and HR while working on an HR insourcing start-up tasked with introducing the benefits of HR processes and development to medium-sized businesses. Diagnosed as a social phobic in his early years, Tony learnt the power of Ei and personal development to overcome his shyness and insecurities. Tony's unique perspective on behavioural development is a response to his personal challenges and learnings. Tony is an accredited Ei, behavioural and change practitioner.
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Best Behaviour - Tony Holmwood
1. INTRODUCING THE BALANCED BEHAVIOURAL DEVELOPMENT MODEL
Up to now, little respect has been demonstrated in business for how the environment defines us or how the simple laws of nature have given humanity the powerful ability to create and diversify life through husbandry and science. On Earth, and indeed in business, life creates and sustains opportunity. Leaders need to appreciate this.
This is essentially a professional development book to enable leadership capabilities, and to encourage human resource (HR) professionals to appreciate and capitalise on their powerful role. I present an evolutionary model for behavioural development – conceived when I worked in an HR insourcing start-up – to protect divergent capabilities in organisations. (Targeted small-to-medium businesses seldom had their own HR presence.)
The Balanced Behavioural Development Model is based on mathematical symmetry and brings together behavioural research dating back to Sigmund Freud. Freud’s school of thought emphasised the influence of the unconscious mind. The power of the unconscious mind is our awareness and our growing ability to process an increasing array of environmental data. Our conscious mind only employs a fraction of our capacity at any given time. Unconscious biases and living in our comfort zones can limit what we associate and process. ³
THE ORIGIN OF THE BALANCED BEHAVIOURAL DEVELOPMENT MODEL
My design of the BBDM is an innovative response to a deeply felt problem. In 2002, I resigned as Finance Director of a software company, disillusioned with its toxic culture driven top-down by the founder who had reasserted control after stepping out of the business for a period. The resultant authoritarian, reactive culture drained my energy. I had managed Sales Planning and Compensation for Asia Pacific during a time when the visionary Chief Operating Officer led the company. I was responsible for sales strategy and targeting incentives to drive sales, and we consistently met our revenue growth targets of around 35 to 40 per cent per annum across the Asia-Pacific region.
Compensation schemes were generous, but did not always promote the desired behaviours from the sales teams. We experimented with team-based bonus schemes and management by objectives, but almost always settled for individual commission-based incentives. It was a constant battle to meet sales targets and to rein in the egos of high-flying sales executives.
I came to appreciate how promoting the right behaviours – including through compensation – supported strategy in organisations, and how toxic environments grew out of authoritarian control where egotism and selfish intentions prevailed. These are learnings most well-healed professionals would accept, and many are coming to terms with how reactive, toxic cultures do not prevail in the longer term.
It wasn’t all bad though. The major benefit of working in a large international company was the exceptional cross-cultural experience and professional development offered. In the Asia-Pacific region, a great HR team ensured personal and management development were at the core of development programs, and in those six years I learned to know myself and to understand the positive influence that professional development had on my work performance.
I decided to turn my back on corporate life and – with my lifetime of knowledge and experience – pursue a business start-up in HR insourcing, aimed at leveraging HR development, incentives and processes into small to medium businesses. The concept of introducing the benefits of HR to businesses that could not afford a full HR department was innovative when HR outsourcing was only just gaining traction. I understood how employee development underscored strategic success, and that this would allow small to medium businesses to take on major rivals by offering employees industry-leading HR development, incentives and processes.
The HR solution was to be best practice and industry-aligned to increase effectiveness, with industry-leading processes to automate transactions, and with a targeted industry-knowledge base for employee skills and knowledge development.
HR outsourcing in the US was initially dominated by the big accounting firms. I felt these firms were driven purely by the numbers, with no wish to promote or develop employee potential, which can greatly boost profits. By outsourcing HR transactions and much of their capability, many organisations chose to either eliminate an HR presence or reduce it to a decentralised HR business partner role. Many HR professionals took a back seat, reduced to simply enforcing regulatory compliance and management policy. The wholesale outsourcing of HR in certain sectors meant HR lost its independence, strategic responsibility and power. It also lost the trust of employees and became largely ineffective. Staff had no sense of what HR stood for – or at least the message was mixed.
How governance and compliance became the new norm
To help build the business, I joined the Australian Human Resources Institute (AHRI), which was unwilling to take on the accounting firms. In 1999, following financial difficulties, AHRI was purchased by Deakin University and lost its professional independence and authority. At one conference I attended, there was little awareness of the need to protect the profession from accounting firms and respond with an alternative strategy. The automation of transactions meant many HR transactional processes were an easy target for accounting firms, which effectively took ownership or outsourced many HR processes and responsibilities. This pushed HR professionals to focus on compliance, as strategic development took a back seat. Even company boards became dominated by accountants and lawyers, while the creative professions of Marketing, Communications, Human Resources and Innovation were noticeably absent.
As I explain in this book, to run an effective HR strategy you need a deep understanding and control of every aspect of employee performance and development programs, as well as payroll, compliance and employee incentives. Throughout this book, I build a case for HR professionals to learn a holistic set of capabilities for a leadership competence. By selectively outsourcing HR capability, the levers and tools to build a comprehensive, integrated, end-to-end employee development strategy can be disrupted. Employees can learn any number of skills, and – for those wanting to progress into management and leadership roles – exposure across the organisation is important. With outsourced functions, a complete capability profile may be difficult to obtain.
This potential must be retained within the organisation, developed, and made accountable and strategically aligned. If an organisation respects any intrinsic capability so little as to outsource it then it fails to understand how capability supports strategic growth and how the sum of its parts can vastly exceed individual input. In addition, capability development is a gradual process when part of a longer-term strategy, which goes to the very core of how organisations treat capability. If capability is valued as a productive unit of measure then you will probably only appreciate incremental returns from your employees. To apply visionary strategy is to invest in the longer-term capability.
EFFECTIVE STRATEGY REQUIRES LOCAL MEANING
For a strategy to be effective, both strategy and culture should have local meaning and be tied to the local community. For employees, meaning seldom extends beyond the community they live in, where they learn their skills and seek out a new niche. What incentive does the outsourced subsidiary have to increase capability and deliver on strategy when the message is purely cost savings? How does a graduate program work effectively if some of the key capabilities have been sent offshore? Graduates need to develop left-brain preferences to build up their self-confidence. These are best learnt on the job, appreciating cause-and-effect relationships and critical problem-solving. The leftbrain programming of skills and memory function ultimately supports the strategic right-brain application of social engagement and creative attributes: reasoning, independent thought and self-awareness. This underappreciation is having an adverse impact on our millennial generation. Many of their career options have been outsourced or are being replaced by artificial intelligence (AI), roles so important to building a strong identity.
MANAGERS AND HR CAN BE VITAL IN DEVELOPING CAPABILITY TO ACHIEVE STRATEGIC INITIATIVES
I came to appreciate that managers with the support of HR are best placed to enable and be accountable for soft skills in organisations. Soft skills include the right-brained, one-to-one supportive attributes of emotional intelligence (Ei) to build resilience, strengthen self-awareness and leverage the power of relationships in support of strategy. This may not have been understood in the past because throughout its brief professional history HR has been effectively controlled, and lacked the independence, authority and trust needed for employees to respect the promotion of soft skills. Once HR is transformed into an emotionally intelligent strategic team, all the benefits of Ei are on display. Calm, positive, engaged, mature, selfless, energised coaches who understand an employee’s aptitudes and will challenge them. Performance is optimised when employees are empowered to challenge their understanding and skillsets.
Effective communication, inclusion, openness, relationship management and social connection need to be at the core of implementing a visionary strategy. I found HR professionals generally lack an appreciation of their Ei responsibility and how to promote these characteristics within organisations. HR professionals have a good sense of their strategic development responsibility, without necessarily understanding their role in promoting emotional maturity for management development, including compassion, individual thought, creativity and networking employee growth with corporate strategy.
If I sensed that HR was being marginalised in Australia, what I witnessed in the United States completely floored me. The HR outsourcing conference I attended in New York was headlined by the accounting majors. I witnessed the wholesale outsourcing of corporate HR processes and capabilities by the accounting majors on a massive scale purely for profit. When I questioned the integrity and motives of some of the executives of the big firms, I was met with blank stares and evasive responses. They must have known there was real conflict in what they were doing. The common thread throughout these conferences appeared to be that HR was a cost that could be reduced.
On returning to Australia, I felt a strong ethical responsibility to show leadership, and to ensure that Ei attributes and development were both promoted and protected. Learning to overcome social anxiety disorder gave me a powerful sense of how important emotional development is to human capability and wellbeing.
What appeared obvious in relation to the general direction of the corporate world at the time was that emotional development and social capital were being sidelined by instant gratification and the never-ending short-term pursuit of increased productivity, profits and shareholder value. As a chartered accountant, I can say that these fundamentals were promoted by my profession as the main levers available to deliver growth. Innovation was a buzzword confused with incremental or continuous improvement. There was no sense of how real innovation could deliver superior profits to companies. Behaviours were little understood, and the need to promote and protect a diversity of capabilities and the attributes of Ei is only now starting to feature in professional accounting magazines.
INTRODUCING THE BBDM
My response to all of this was to create a framework that recognised the significance of which characteristics and capabilities each function promoted in an organisation, and what attributes each function could be responsible for developing.
The model represents a very simple construct, coordinating functional responsibilities around two axes, providing a completely holistic perspective:
Past to Future (Knowing to Doing) along the X axis
Inside to Outside (Person to Collective) along the Y axis.
Whereas Sales and Service, and HR, are focused on the person (one), Systems, Operations and Administration, and Marketing and Public Relations (PR) are focused on the organisation or collective (many). Looking at the horizontal hemispheres, the Systems and Administration functions focus on present to past events while HR, Marketing and PR are more focused on the present to future events. The whole premise of defining organisational functions in this way was to represent the very different objectives of each quadrant and the divergent responsibilities of each role. To remove a functional responsibility was to leave a company exposed.
The BBDM: functional associations
In the BBDM the organisation’s functions are aligned based on parent–child relationship associations used in information technology (IT):
many-to-many
many-to-one
one-to-one
one-to-many.
These are used in both mathematics and IT to define data relationships and how data is organised. This also holds true for people, and their mastery of each of the four ways we associate data and events influences our functional preference at any given point in our development. At the most granular level, we process and recall data, actions, experiences and events through emotional associations. HR professionals tend to place themselves at the centre of their interactions and associate their understanding from a very personal, one-to-one aspect. Technical and Finance functions straddle the boxes on the left (many-to-many, many-to-one).
My mathematical and IT expertise played a big part in creating the framework, although the symmetry of opposites was also important to assign the functions to the boxes. The framework took about five minutes to outline on paper despite my getting stuck defining the many-to-one functional capabilities. However, when discussing them with a colleague, the Sales and Customer Service streams jumped out at me, as these functions are heavily dependent on internalised or personal knowledge, processes and skills (knowing). Any one employee can handle multiple customer interactions (many-to-one). Decision-making is best learnt in a team.
Unlike the opposing more macro, solutions-focused, one-to-many Marketing and PR capabilities, many-to-one interactions are specific and geared to defining personal problems. HR capabilities were missing in many organisations when I developed this model, and there was a need to promote one-to-one attributes and purposeful relationships to connect strategy and supercharge organisational growth. The HR functional characteristics of development assessments, coaching, change and innovation that involve critical reasoning are focused on personal attributes, and are best applied one-on-one.
At first I thought they were purely relationship-based, but over many years of developing this model I have come to realise they are far more than relationship associations: they represent how we connect with our world. I have spoken to hundreds of people to hone my understanding of how they associate themselves in their environment. Like Maslow’s (chapter 19) simple test of happiness to show where people were positioned in his hierarchy, the test I use to position people is to ask them to describe themselves. Many HR professionals would have used this statement in job interviews but few may realise the power of the statement. Self-aware respondents who are centred with a strong sense of self will know themselves unequivocally. They may define themselves with personal attributes such as honest, truthful, driven, or being a community person – one-to-one or one-to-many. There is a maturity in the way they experience the world and they place themselves firmly at the centre of everything they do. They search for a deeper meaning in life’s relationships and view the world from a personal bias, adding their values and personal interpretation to every interaction and personal story.
In the absence of self-awareness, people with an undeveloped identity who are purely externally focused will view the world at face value and describe how other people view them – hence the many-to-many, many-to-one identities. Many-to-one people who appear confident may be self-absorbed, always switching the conversation to their own perspective, but this may also indicate a need to self-reflect and mature. Recognising its essential contribution to behavioural development, our locus of control or how we identify in our environment is covered in the early chapters of this