Why Hate Is Such A Strong Word

By corey turner

Start having a positive effect on your life and know you must be the one to set the pace and focus your moment on the present instead of the past extensive research from the very best from entrepreneurs to motivational gurus and some of the best psychologists in the world don't deny this gift that will be beneficial in improving your life, health, and happiness.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Mar 4, 2021
• ISBN: 9781678085087

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GLORY

CHAPTER 1

CHASING DREAMS

Everybody has a dream in his or her life but the completion of that dream is one of the most difficult things. There are a lot of hurdles in this world that resist you to chase your dream. These hurdles might be in the form of fake friends, family problems, and failure in love life, and so on.

Like if someone from you has a dream to become a music star and he tried so hard. From the beginning of his life, he started to work for it but his family problems do not allow him to chase his dream. And as a result, he ended up choosing the wrong path. And he can’t do anything about that. Life is hard, it’s not a piece of cake or a bed of roses. You have to fight for it. You have to fight for your dreams, goals, and loved ones.

When in life someone not gets what he or she wants and as result, he or she becomes a pessimist and started to see negativity in everything. Life seems to them without purposely like just living your days and do not fight for good in this world and after this.

In this world, there are a lot of people who are living their life as I describe above. And these people try to affect others' lives as well. Most of them ended up having drugs and health problems like anxiety, depression, and anger. Having a dream is not a good thing but working hard and chasing that dream is excellent.

1. 1 PEOPLE WITHOUT DREAMS

Every day, millions of people go to work, come back home, and then take care of their family and housework. Many of these people are living a busy and satisfactory life. They balance well between work, family, and friends (work-life balance). They are living their life.

They lose track of their childhood and college dreams. Personal dreams get suppressed by work and family responsibilities.

Our schooling system also creates a false sense of achievement. From our childhood, we go into a cycle of yearly progression from one class to another, from elementary to high school and then to college. For most people, this cycle does not stop after completing education. They bring this psychology of gradual progression into their work life and expect that their career must grow year after year from junior to senior to a leadership position. Most people falsely mix their career aspirations with their dream. While they could be the same for a few people but not for all.

Another reason for not having dreams is — the unwillingness to pay the price. Dreams require sacrifice and not everyone is ready for it. Sacrificing time, efforts, money, and most importantly other conflicting desires. People get scared when they evaluate what they will have to do to achieve their goal and also what they will have to give up.

1. 2 DREAMS WITHOUT A STRONG REASON IS A DREAM WITHOUT PASSION

There is nothing wrong with being inspired by others, but adopting someone else’s dream as your dream could be problematic. The other person may have a strong reason for achieving that dream. You will not have a strong basis for you to achieve that goal.

Also, these are aspirations set for you by other people. There is no real meaning for you in this desire other than someone else wanted it. For someone else, a new bigger house could mean something different than it is for you — the same thing with a fancy car. A fancy car means different things to different people. Some want it for speed; others may want it for fancy electrons. Again, there is no problem in wanting a villa or a $100,000 car, but the desire has to be your own and not because your colleague or neighbor bought one.

We feel pressured by other's desires but deep down, we don't want that thing. We start questioning whether or not we want what we think we do. These dreams and goals are distractions.

Without a strong reason for your dreams, you will not be able to develop a passion for achieving your dream. When you have a dream without passion, you will likely quit when things get tough. You will start questioning your dream and begin justifying everything else you could be doing instead of working on your dream.

1. 3 IMPORTANCE OF HAVING DREAMS

Dreams are necessary. Without dreams, there will be no ambition to chase. There will be no goal to reach. We will all be nothing without dreams. Not having dreams is like chasing a traceless murder. It is like following an invisible shadow. It is a dreadful goose chase. We must know what we want to do and follow that ambition. We can’t achieve anything in life without goals, and for these goals, we need to dream.

Most people have dreams. Big ones or small ones. Even the most successful people had dreams and that is what has made them what they are today. Dreaming is essential for a human being.