Dating for Women Made Easy

By Jennifer McIntyre

Stop going on bad dates that waste your time and start going on quality dates that matter!

Save time, energy, and heartache by learning how to discard the losers quickly so that you can focus on finding the handful of winners!

Don't you dare change yourself to try and please men who aren't right for you anyway!

You need to find the right man for you, and let's be real, most men aren't right for you. That's not a judgement on you or anyone else. It's reality. You need to find the few men who fit you, your personality, and your lifestyle. Changing yourself to please a man only leads to misery and frustration.

The problem with dating for women is that we waste so much time getting to know a guy. First we have to meet him, and then get past all his games, and then find out who he really is... you can waste months on a guy just to find out he's not right for you.

I'm going to save you time and energy by teaching you a simple 3 Stage scoring process that uses little bits of information about a guy to determine whether he's worth pursuing or if he needs to be discarded. You don't even have to meet him in Stage 1!

Get some info, score, keep or discard. It's that easy and it only takes a matter of seconds. No more getting distracted by bad pickup lines and head/heart games. You stay in control.

I want you to win! I want you to be your beautiful self and find a guy who's right for you! Find love, find happiness! And most importantly, find it all for yourself!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jennifer McIntyre
• Release date: Feb 6, 2021
• ISBN: 9781393842927

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Dating for Women Made Easy

by Jennifer McIntyre

© 2020 Jennifer McIntyre

Table of Contents

Introduction.....................................................................4

The Half-Truth and the Whole Truth.........................................4

Men and Dating............................................................9

Dating and Relationship Guides...........................................12

Introduction to the Process................................................16

The Process...............................................................19

Your Most Powerful Tool...................................................24

The Process....................................................................29

Getting Started............................................................29

3 Red Flags /Must Haves and 1 Hall Pass..................................34

Red Flags/Must Haves................................................34

Hall Pass.............................................................37

Stage 1...................................................................43

Attractiveness........................................................43

Employment..........................................................48

Age..................................................................52

Education............................................................53

Hobbies..............................................................53

Stage 2...................................................................56

Children..............................................................57

Politics...............................................................59

Future Plans..........................................................61

Spirituality...........................................................64

Stage 3...................................................................68

Income...............................................................69

Money Management..................................................74

Free Time............................................................82

Friends and Family...................................................86

Wrapping it Up.................................................................91

The Score Sheet...........................................................91

Rescore...................................................................96

The Final Step.................................................................98

Free Resources............................................................99

Paid Resources...........................................................100

Win/Win Scenario........................................................102

Rejecting Men................................................................104

Stage 1..................................................................105

Stage 2..................................................................105

Stage 3..................................................................107

Conclusion....................................................................109

Introduction

The Half-Truth and the Whole Truth

I have 2 truths: I have the half-truth and I have the whole truth.

Let me start with the half-truth: dating sucks.

The entire process of dating is hard. You meet a guy either online or in person and you have to get a quick feel for him. Maybe you like his social media profile. Maybe he has a cute way of smiling at you when you pass in the hallway. Maybe you’ve never met him but your friend raves about how fantastic he is. And then based on this first impression you need to decide whether or not to go on a date with him.

The next step is to arrange the date, which is a task itself because of how limited and precious our free time has become. Sure, dates can be fun, but a lot of things are fun and there’s such a small time frame to do it in. You wake up, you go to work, you commute and come home. That’s major chunk taken out of our week. And then we have chores. And grooming. And grocery shopping. And time with friends. And time for self-care (do NOT neglect this one). And catching up on binge watching. And, and, and, and there’s never enough time for everything. So if you plan on going on a date you’ll be giving something up, so of course you want the date to be worth it.

So you go on a date with this guy you barely know and you learn a little more about him, but you’re still wary because everyone puts their best foot forward on the first date. I mean c’mon, really, is it more likely that he’s being himself on a first date, or is it more likely that he’s projecting the best image he can because he wants to make a good impression? I’m sure he’s putting on an act because, you know what? I do the same thing. I’m not genuine on dates. I try to impress. So why would I think he’s trying to act any differently?

So the first date’s over and you need to decide if you want to go on a second date. And then a third. And you both open up gradually, which is a good thing. You’ll start to find things you like and things you dislike and that’s the beauty of interacting with people and building relationships. But you also become more emotionally invested, which can be problematic.

(Just to be clear, an emotional investment is just as important as a financial investment, maybe even more so because instead of putting money on the line you’re putting your heart and soul out there. Losing money sucks but you can always make more. Playing with your heart and soul can affect you the rest of your life.)

And then 6 months later you have a much larger picture of the guy and you figure out that he’s emotionally stunted and deep in debt because he bought into some online multi-level marketing scheme because he thought it would help him get rich rich quick, which he really needs because he can’t hold down a job for longer than 6 months because his mommy issues created a psychological defiance toward authority, and if you were to mention anything about it then he’ll blame you for his situation and then ask you for money.

Okay, so maybe this example is a bit silly but you get the idea. There’s 6 months down the drain just trying to get to know a guy. That’s a lot of wasted time. That’s a lot of memories. That’s a lot of effort. It’s frustrating. It’s disheartening. And it’s unnecessary.

Now let me give you the whole truth: dating sucks... if you’re doing it wrong.

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Women are horrible at dating. I’m not saying that as an insult. I’m trying to open your eyes. Women have been fed a fantasy ever since we were little girls where our Prince Charming is out there somewhere and we’ll fall madly in love with fireworks and horse-drawn carriages and live happily ever after.

I’m not trying to belittle you. You’re not a child and I know very well that you’re not sitting at home waiting for some dude to gallop to your doorstep on a white horse, ready to sweep you off your feet and live happily ever after.

No, we’re grown ups. We’re looking for a white BMW with a tall, good-looking doctor who will charm the socks off us so we can get fucked hard in his five bedroom house in the gated community