Orgasmic Love: 17 Ways to Revitalize Your Love Life, Renew Your Spirit, and Refuel Your So

By Dr. Michelle Love Powers

Orgasmic love is an interactive novel with scenarios, questions, and a journal. Orgasmic love is healing medicine for your mind, body, and soul. It catapults you to new heights despite disappointments, busy schedules, kids, jobs, health issues, and other responsibilities. It thrusts you to new realms of intimacy and transports you to new dimensions of love. Orgasmic love has 17 practical ways to stimulate your love life. Orgasmic love also includes science facts that give the benefits of being love and the effects of kissing, hugging, and being in love. So, start your naked and happy journey today as orgasmic love is waiting for you.

Orgasmic love makes life worth living. It gives you energy, it reconnects you to the universe, and it connects you to the creator's power. It revitalizes your soul, renews your spirit, and releases your passion. It also makes you glow and exhale over and over again because love is limitless. Love has no boundaries and is infinite. Life is so short, full of unknowns, so you have to make and take your moments

So, start your naked and happy journey today as orgasmic love is waiting for you.

• Language: English
• Publisher: BookBaby
• Release date: Dec 29, 2020
• ISBN: 9781098339005

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Chapter 1: Let Love Flow Freely and Rise Above Life’s Demands

Love is healing medicine for your mind, body, and soul. Love touches your spirit and body simultaneously. Love is irreplaceable, as no amount of money, alcohol, drugs, or other commodities can replace love. Buying gifts for your lover is splendid, but only rising above life’s demands and spending time with your lover can create that intimate love that we all long for. You know that intimate love that melts your heart and touches your soul. The type of love that creates a vortex in the atmosphere that propels you to ecstasy, which makes you feel indescribable and like nothing else matters in this world. Do not get it twisted; money can buy sex, but it cannot buy that intimate love. Only time can do that. So, if you need to slow down, take leave from work, or book a vacation, do it. Do not hurry up and get to your next problem, but instead enjoy love each day. Choose to experience love, to show love, and to give love. Take time to marvel at the love that is displayed throughout the universe. It is breathtaking to gaze upon the millions of diamonds that sparkle in the night. It is intoxicating to smell fresh roses and taste ripe strawberries on a summer day. It is mesmerizing to hear the waves crashing on a beach while your toes are tickled by the sands of time.

You are worth the time it takes to enjoy yourself. If you need to take small steps to change your life’s priorities, start with 30 minutes or an hour to appreciate a sunrise, a sunset, a picnic in the park, or a stroll on the beach. Then, build up to more extended periods. Do not wait until someone leaves or dies, to reevaluate your life. Because then, it may be too late. Time is crucial to the survival of any relationship. You have to carve out time and rise above the demands of your life to have the love life you want. Here is an epiphany moment that informed me that I needed to rise above my life demands.

Scenario 1

Picture it, Sicily, shout out to the Golden Girls. I am on vacation in Oranjestad, Aruba. The sun is beaming down on Aruba’s clear turquoise blue water, and I am skinny dipping with my lover on a private beach. I am taking it all in, but my lover interrupts by asking me a question.

Troy: Why are you only like this on vacation?

Michelle: Babe, do not ruin the moment.

Troy: Why do I only get the girl I fell in love with on vacation or a long holiday weekend?

Michelle: Look, we are adults now, and life is just way too busy, with work, kids, family matters, and school to be this girl all the time. It is what it is. When you met me, I was free without any significant responsibilities.

Troy: I am always me. No matter where I am, you still get me.

Michelle: Really, we are basking in paradise, and you are picking a fight. Listen, babe. I do not have the luxury of being only one person; I have to be a mother, wife, student, a professor, a worship leader, a friend, sister, daughter, etc.

Troy: I have to play a lot of roles too! But the difference is that I did not change, and I always have time for you.

Michelle: Deg, so now I am not there for you. Are you saying I am a bad wife? Can you magically make more time in a day for me? Let’s go! I am no longer in the mood.

Passion Journal Questions

Questions to Consider: What was he trying to say to her? Did she take his question the wrong way? What was she trying to tell him? Did she have a valid point? Who was right in this situation? What should have happened? Was this the appropriate time to discuss the issue? How would you handle the situation? Pause to fill out the Passion Journal and to talk.

Discover Time

In my studies of relationships, one of the excuses I hear most often is time. Therefore, let’s discover some answers to time constraints. Like so many people, my days are full of the following: appointments, work demands, social organization responsibilities, household chores, and family responsibilities. As a result, I get exhausted. I mean, so tired that I fall asleep mid-air of my head hitting the pillow. So, I have used the headache excuse on several occasions. Yes, I laid it on as thick as molasses. My husband, of course, did not understand what I was saying. And, of course, I did not understand him, for not comprehending what I was saying. He said the infamous line that I have changed. So, I asked him why hasn’t he changed. I told him our lives are way different now. We have real jobs, kids, and we have responsibilities in our respective social arenas. Then, our argument escalated, and we had some intense penetrating discussion about the philosophy about sex.

My husband was abrupt and straight to the point by saying that you are the only person I can make love to. What’s up? My first thoughts were to bring up my enormous to-do list. I was steaming hot, and ready to lay suppressive fire down and dig in for this long fight that we were about to have. Then, I saw the sincerity in his face, and my heart spoke before my brain could intervene and said, I know, babe. I told him how I wanted to, but it was ingrained in my head to do all my work first, then I could have fun. I told him how my maternal drive was sometimes higher than my sex drive because the kids cannot take care of themselves. I was candid with him. I told him that I would know in the morning if I was having sex that night. Sex was a mathematical calculation in my head using my to-do list and my previous night’s sleep. If I had a bad night of sleep, I was 80 percent sure that I was not having sex that night, leaving him only a 20 percent chance for that day. After work, if my husband walked on eggshells, kids did well at school, dinner only had to be warmed up, and homework was finished on time, he might have a 5 percent chance to get some that night. A similar sex concept was confirmed in a 2015 sleep study. The sleep study showed how the willingness for women to have sex the next day increased by 14 percent with every hour of sleep (Seriously Science, 2015).

So, my husband continues to talk and kiss me at the same time and says the best thing for a bad day is to go home and get sexed by your husband. He looked into my eyes and said, Bring your brokenness, and I will bring my brokenness, and we will become one and heal each other. Yes, that is precisely what he said. I fell for him, hook, line, and sinker. But I’ve got mad pride so I could not let him know that I was falling for it. So, I called his bluff and told him to ante up. And oh, my God, I completely forgot about my bad day. It felt like it was just him and me in this love bubble where everything was peaceful. I felt sexy again. I felt like the beautiful me, and not the tired, broken down, and exhausted me. I thought to myself, making love was exactly what I needed. I felt like somebody hit my reset button. This reset happen because unlike the man’s orgasm, a woman’s orgasm occurs all over the female body due to nerve endings getting stimulated everywhere. Plus, a woman can have multiple orgasms. So yes, passionate love is the perfect anecdote for a bad day. It was so spectacular that I joined my husband’s side and wondered why I denied myself this heavenly pleasure. I say this because I believe women are portals to heaven. After all, God put souls in babies. This is why a lot of pagan religions include sex in their rituals, trying to gain access to the spiritual realm, but I digress.

I see so many people maintaining and enduring marriages that are not too low and not too high. Therefore, there are a lot of people living in mediocrity. However, life is precious, and we have to make the most of it, starting with our love lives. Therefore, now, I refuse to let my to-do list affect my passionate love life. This conversation was not easy for us to discuss, but I am glad that my lover brought it up. Because after I had kids, we got to the point that we were just making love on the weekends. Hey, do not judge me because it is only so long that you can keep your kids from coming into your bedroom even if the door is locked.

Again, it is not just me. I asked my male coworker about his love life. He said that he and his wife have sex about twice a week. I said that is good, but do you miss that spontaneous, hot, steamy, and passionate love sessions that occurred before the kids. He said that it could not be done. He said that women were way too busy to have that kind of love life. Interesting how he blamed it on his wife and not himself. I told him that it could happen if he wanted it. I told him that there were ways to bring back those passionate times. The times when you did not focus on the to-do list, but which parts to kiss first. When you could not get enough of each other, and you could not even make it to the bedroom because it was so hot and heavy. When the main course for dinner was each other, not the steak served in butter at Ruth Chris. So, what happened? Who changed? What stopped it, and how do we get it back? One way to do this is to discover the time. Let’s start with the most significant time suckers, kids.

More Time for Love

It is a fact that those cuddly bundles of joy can get in the way of quality time. However, there are simple ways to get around this type of blocking. My best friend and I were talking about the weekend. I told her that I was taking my kids to the YMCA’s Parent Night Out Program and was going to make passionate love to my husband. She laughed and said that you are going to make love everywhere, like the song, in the shower, on the couch, the floor, the dining room table, and in the kitchen. I enthusiastically told her, Yes, ma’am. However, when the weekend came, she drove passed her YMCA and brought her kids and her husband to my YMCA. Then, she asked me what I was doing tonight. I thought to myself; we already had this conversation just two days ago. However, I told her again that I was going to finish writing my Ph.D. paper that was due that night, take a shower, and get some long-overdue quality time in with my hubby. Even though my hubby would be salty, I said that she could come over if she wanted too. She said, Never mind. It was a very awkward moment, but it amazed me how my friend thought I was just kidding about staying home to make love. Did she forget how freeing and awesome it was to make love when your kids are not in the house? You can play around the house naked with no interruptions, LOL. My friend and her hubby ended spending their date night out at a restaurant, but my hubby and I had a fantastic date night in!

You can also discover time during the week. Of course, you can have quality time early in