Enjoy Your Wife, Enjoy Your Husband

By Solomon Okpa

Marriage is to be enjoyed and not endured - this describes the totality of this book. The perceived fact that a lot of couples are distracted and tend to focus their attention on another woman or man outside is the bane of marriage.
The author makes it clear that:

“That man outside is not better than your husband, neither is the woman outside sweeter than your wife.”
You would realize from the book that you are not to endure life, but to enjoy life. One of such free gift of enjoyment is your spouse. The sad truth is that the majority of married men and women are enduring their marriages rather than enjoying it. Why? Their eyes are outside looking at the unmarried, married, young and old men and women who belong to another person.
If you think that is all, you would be shocked to find more reasons inside this book and when you do, you would learn how to value your spouse more than ever, protect your spouse and above all enjoy your spouse.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Dec 3, 2014
• ISBN: 9781312725669

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Enjoy Your Wife, Enjoy Your Husband

Enjoy Your Wife, Enjoy Your Husband

Copyright © 2014 by Solomon Etchie Okpa

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ISBN: 978-978-51877-1-7

…… Rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; LET HER BREAST SATISFY THEE AT ALL TIMES and be thou ravished always with her love.

Proverbs 15:18b, 19.

Dedication

This book is dedicated to the person who has made me qualified to be a husband, I mean my wife Lucy.

Introduction

Majority of married men and women are enduring their marriages rather than enjoying it.

This book in your hand was specifically written to save, preserve, restore and help you to enjoy your marriage. You will need extreme patience and humility to read through a book of this kind because the rate at which families and individuals are failing along the path of ailing marriages is a torrent that has overwhelmed the most civilized, pious and industrious nations and individuals.

Am I qualified to write about marriage? The answer is yes and that because my life’s journey has exposed me to the good, the bad and the ugly sides of relationships and marriages. Beyond which I must write this because it is a mandate wrapped in the fear within me. This fear is a godly fear and concern at the rate marriages are failing. You know without the Grace of God; I wonder how any man would be able to answer this query of Jesus which I shall paraphrase:

Let he that is without sin cast the first stone.

This was Jesus’ query to the men that brought a woman caught red handed in adultery. Yes she was guilty, and the law was clear, she should be stoned to death, but Jesus was more concerned about the secret sins of these self righteous and self-proclaimed judges, so he threw the question back