Naughty & Nice Ways to Spice up Your Marriage

By J.D. Ball

This is a book to help married couples find that missing spark in their relationship. A way to help them find imaginative ways to come back together to make their marriage work again or on a new level.

Simple, fun, and naughty ways to rediscover each other and remember why they fell in love in the first place.

• Language: English
• Publisher: iUniverse
• Release date: Jun 26, 2020
• ISBN: 9781532099472

J.D. Ball

JD is a woman who believes in love and is a romantic at heart and wants couples to truly fight for their marriage. She's grown up watching her parents love and respect each other in the good and not so good times. She will always believe in the sanctity of marriage.

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ISBN: 978-1-5320-9948-9 (sc)

ISBN: 978-1-5320-9947-2 (e)

Library of Congress Control Number: 2020911520

iUniverse rev. date:  06/26/2020

CONTENTS

Honesty

Foundation

Use My Imagination

Naughty Fantasy – Pleasing Her

Naughty & Nice Fantasy – Pamper Him Night

Naughty Fantasy – Help Me Wash My Hair

Nice Gesture – Call Him Just to Say

Naughty Fun Fantasy – Saturday Surprise

Nice – Shower Together

Nice – Cook A Meal Together

Nice – Holding Hands

Fun and Naughty – Game Night (Strip Connect 4)

Naughty, Nice, & Spicy – Husband Appreciation Day

Sweet and Nice – A Night to Remember

Nice and Slow – Dance with Her

Nice and Naughty Couple Pampering Day

Sweet and Naughty – Men Let Her Hear You

Nice leads to Naughty – Foot Rub for Him

Nice – Let Her Talk

Nice Day Away – Alone

Nice, Naughty, and Sweet Fantasy – Goodnight Baby

Nice and Naughty – Date Night

Nice and Naughty – Lazy/Naked Day

Last Thoughts

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HONESTY

I’d like to share thoughts, fantasies and ideas that I’ve gotten over the years after interacting with many married friends and acquaintances. I’ve watched so many couples in my life struggle with being imaginative enough to keep it going and sometimes they miss or forget the simple things that can make life sweet again. My mind has been blown, often, at the lack of consideration I’ve heard from husbands and wives as they share about their partners. I’ve seen some successful marriages and I’ve seen far too many unsuccessful ones. It saddens me when I can see a couple who at some point said that they couldn’t or didn’t want to live without the other person, completely give up and allow their marriage to fall completely apart.

One party wants to fix it, but don’t broach the subject because of the fear of rejection, or they overthink and believe it can’t be fixed, the brokenness is too severe. I’m here to say, it’s okay to have the conversation, nothing beats trying. If it’s fails without a try, then you’d never know if it could’ve been repaired. I’ve also known divorced couples, who were still in love with their ex-husband/wife, but no one spoke up before the papers were signed, filed and finalized. Don’t lose faith in your partner or the relationship that you’ve built and yes, those are two separate things – the partner and the relationship, although separate they go together. How? Your partner (husband/wife) has become flesh of your flesh, bone of your bone and you’ve become one after the consummation of the martial vows. The promise of loving until death due you part, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others, etc. is a concept that people today take far too lightly. The person you’ve chosen should be loved as you would love yourself and care for yourself. If you’re hungry, you find something to eat to feed the hunger. As a married couple you’re supposed to feed each other, whether it’s natural food or with communication, but there should never one person in the relationship providing all of nourishment. Because that means the one doing all the feeding will eventually starve for attention or love and seek it from someone else or die to the relationship. As for the relationship, it’s all that you’ve accomplished together, the life you’ve built. It’s bigger and deeper than the eye can see. More often than not, one party in the marriage is a little more selfish and feels that everything should cater to their needs and wants and that’s all that matters and it’s so very unfair to the person doing all the giving. Then you wonder what happens when he or she stops trying. I’ll tell you. They will either walk away or someone else will come along and give them what has been missing, the love and attention they crave to have with their spouse and then the marriage is completely destroyed. They’ve given all that they can and there is nothing left.

I’ve heard so many different statements, for example, Happy wife, happy life! This is a real and true statement, but wives don’t forget to do things for your husband, to show that you appreciate him keeping you happy and don’t be so crazy that he’s losing himself trying to keep you