I'm failure but,: Help Self

By Sherif Said Abd Elgawad

There was no absolute truth. Also the facts and the truths about the universe were versatile. Since time was capable of changing states and altering events, even changing people and changing their ideals and beliefs.
We could hear about people's failed attempts to be successful figures and an inspiration source to others in their lives in the world. However, time actually proved there is no stable thing for any unique examples that had their lives changed to actually lead the world with their thoughts.
Some of which influenced the world with their thoughts and knowledge, however their ideals were at contrast with their ideals so they were doomed with failure then, till they were backed up by time.
Einstein, Bismarck, Picasso, Walter Scott & Samuel Johnson ... All of which failed miserably even in their majors, however with bits of patience they got to the peaks of success.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Oct 18, 2020
• ISBN: 9781716498725

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Introduction

There was no absolute truth. Also the facts and the truths about the universe were versatile. Since time was capable of changing states and altering events, even changing people and changing their ideals and beliefs.

We could hear about people's failed attempts to be successful figures and an inspiration source to others in their lives in the world. However, time actually proved there is no stable thing for any unique examples that had their lives changed to actually lead the world with their thoughts.

Some of which influenced the world with their thoughts and knowledge, however their ideals were at contrast with their ideals so they were doomed with failure then, till they were backed up by time.

Einstein, Bismarck, Picasso, Walter Scott & Samuel Johnson ... All of which failed miserably even in their majors, however with bits of patience they got to the peaks of success.

Chapter 1;

Failure is the road to success;

There have been those who always failed to start their lives, but with persistence and determination, they managed to break through.

If it weren’t for those who stood by them and encouraged them to go on further they could not have gone through with their paths, such as Edison who always said, My mother was the making of me. She was so true and so sure of me, I felt that I had someone to live for - someone I must not disappoint. The memory of my mother will always be a blessing to me

As recounted One day as a child he came back from school dispirited and was heaving badly while his breath hitched rapidly. He went curling into his mother’s arms and he was obviously broken down; whilst his mother's eyes were tearing upon seeing the condition her baby was in; she asked him what is wrong my dear? Who bothered you? I won't be able to live if you have to live while you ache in-front of me. To which the boy answered while crying, My teacher humiliated me in class today in school saying am a useless stupid boy and that there was no use teaching me to begin with! He said that while all my colleagues were laughing loudly at me. He humiliated me in-front of everyone and I won't be able to go school ever again".

The mother then dried his tears and kissed him gently, saying don’t get saddened my dear, they do not yet know of your talents. Also, your intelligence is still a miss from them but don’t you worry, you will soon shine and will be able to get your genuineness to show!

This mother then in an intelligent manner started motivating her son to the extent that he went to school the next day forgetting what had happened, until three months has passed when he returned home disheartened from being expelled by the headmaster. Only then did she take him to the school to demand for an explanation as to why her son was expelled to have the head master tell her in a distinctively harsh and terrible manner that he is a stupid child who is also disabled and that this school was not made for people with disabilities.

Upon returning home with her child, she had sworn an oath to have everyone say that her son is one of the most talented men on earth. She also made it a habit to repeat that to her son every morning. Additionally, she took it upon herself to have her son’s education completed and she got him private tutors and started with his homeschooling process. She never got disheartened by any obstacles and got to have all his needs covered from what little money she had for his theoretical and practical education.

She never despaired and only saw her child’s happiness as her optimum goal to reach her happiness.

As for Chris Gardner, his mother was his inspiration source. He talked about her saying My mother was a typical mother, the one that would repetitively tell me every morning: my child you can do or be whatever you wish to do  or be to which he added I always believed her words and trusted it to be 100 percent factual, He added that once, as a child, he was watching a basketball match when he commented saying that one of the players would make a million dollars, and then my mother told me: One day it will be you who will make a million dollars. This idea did not occur to me before my mother spoke it, however, Gardner did not make a million dollars immediately after that. Gardner achieved many successes in his job and due to his skill in selling stocks and shares, he established his investment company, Gardner Rich", and today, Gardner’s fortune is estimated at 60 million dollars, and is roaming the world as an influencer to motivate masses.

So, have you failed to achieve a certain important thing in your life?!

Did you ever go through a phase in your life where you were in despair and frustrated and saddened?

Were you ever the one to cry for your failures every day?!

Are you tired of failing that it is actually controlling your mind and soul and is causing your physical deterioration?!

Has failure ever made it an obstacle for you to make a practical decision to move on in your career advancement?!

Have you forgotten about your dreams?!

Just to let you know, failing is something that is normal in our everyday life nowadays. It is not failure that makes us failures or losers, it is when we stop trying and get inclined to our failures that would make us failures. So why is it that some people keep on failing?

It is because they have familiarized themselves with a certain losing diction

or words such as it is impossible, hard, has anybody ever made it, I am tired of depression and the many times I failed, I am not lucky, I am no good for anything…

It is not important what happened to you in the past, but what you will do now is what will make the difference in your life...

For things to change you must change yourself, not others. Do not just sit around accepting to be marginalized as if you are worth nothing. It is impossible to change your past but what you can do is to learn from it to move forward with your life. It is the little things we do that make a difference and the little efforts that turn with persistence to a great deal of success later on in your life. This is why you need to rise above your failures and do not get engulfed by them since it is inevitable... but welcome it with open arms so you can overcome it as an obstacle and get what you want to have!

Even though life is hard as it is, there is still hope and it is essential that you do not give up ever. So you can learn to think about something new for you to make a better future for yourself and forget about the past. Work is a way for you to start over anew. To dream of achieving an ambition that will make it happen. There are of course some things that you will have to look back to start creating your future which are:

Do not wait for help from anyone. There is no such thing as luck.

Listen to understand, not to reply back. Do not depend too much on others.

Learn to depend on yourself.

Do not go attacking others, instead learn from them.

Do not envy the successful people around you, instead make friends with them and learn to be like them.

Think of becoming more successful than a colleague at work.

Think of being a trustworthy person better yet someone who is liked by people around him/her.

Thinking and being ambitious at work makes you a successful person!

Know that a person can change their life only if they changed their way of thought towards things!

Try to change your thoughts if you were not able to advance in your work.

The most transcendent goal for a person is within, but a lowly kind of person always looks for what is not theirs.

There is no quick success or quick money.

Success is the result of years of struggle to be what you want. Failure is the result of inexperience not being moneyless.

Success comes from having a lot of experiences and dealing with others. Those who are always living under constant fear would never be free.

Learn to be responsible and take responsibility.

To be able to hold your balance amidst emergencies, unrest and avoid panicking is the true feature of sustainability to success.

Learn to trust yourself, because if you would not who would then? Love what you do and search for the joy you get from it.

Yes, there are times when we feel like it is the end of the world as we know it, but then we discover that it is just the beginning. You will also stumble upon closed doors. Yet you will figure out later that it was the doorway to everything else.

Live each and every moment as if it is the last one you will have in your life, live by the guidance of God, live with hope, live with ambition, live with patience and love and appreciate the joys of life and the value of it.

What you usually see in life is nothing but a reflection of what you had in your past as well as what you would see in your future is nothing but a mirror of what you are presently doing.

When you do not know what to do, this is when your true goal gets starting to be set. When you do not decide which way you should take this is when your true journey starts.

A person who does not wish to read but he knows how to, isn’t in a higher state than that of an illiterate one. So here is the question, was learning to succeed