“If you do not know to ask the right question, you discover nothing.” - Dr. W. Edwards Deming People have a habit of asking why, even children would automatically ask why whenever we explain or answer their questions. As adults, we would often ask why when we are in distress. We would even talk to ourselves and ask: why is this happening to me, why is my life so depressing, why is my life meaningless, why is it that no matter how hard I try or how hard I work, I cannot seem to have a better life?  Do not get me wrong, it is good to ask why, because it gives you the opportunity to reflect and search for answers, but should we just bother ourselves with the why? Is it not equally important to ask what, who, and where? Are you baffled? Listen in as I explain and untangle the confusion. Highlights: ⚡️ Having a why will not automatically lead you to where you want to go or who you want to be. ⚡️ Your current self does not necessarily equate to the future you. ⚡️ It is a necessity to determine who you want to become and where you want to be. ⚡️ Having no connection to what inspires you or following someone else’s way leads to a stagnant life. ⚡️ Behavioral change takes commitment and discipline. Important stories: ? 5:32 Simon Sinek discusses the human brain. ? 17:20 Gandhi’s grandmother and the story of the elephant. ? 18:30 My own stickmen drawings. Send us a message and tell us what is your biggest takeaway about this episode. ?????? ???????? Do you feel that you are not in control of your life? Are you ready to live to your fullest potential? You can take back control of your life. Join the Mi365’s Stop One Start One Challenge now. You’re going to get seven masterclasses plus a whole load of extras: 1. Who + Why + How = Success 2. Roles and Goals 3. Accountability Mastery 4. Habits 101 5. Maximise Responsibility 6. Thinking Your Way To Success 7. Grit And Resilience I’m excited to help you be the person you want to become. Click here to join! ?????? Stop One ? Start One ? Challenge ------------------------------------------------- I help everyday people achieve their goals & dreams!   Helping and coaching people in my expertise. And it is VERY satisfying to change people’s lives so they improve and change their health, finances, relationships, confidence, and mindset.   Connect With Me! Come join our free Pete Cohen's Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/223961357935535/ Follow me on Instagram at  https://www.instagram.com/petecohen_/ About Pete Cohen: Pete Cohen is one of the world’s leading life coaches and keynote speakers. Hundreds of thousands of people from all over the world have been motivated and inspired by Pete’s presentations. He has professionally impacted the lives of thousands of people worldwide, including business executives, professional athletes, and everyday people.  Pete focuses on the importance of closing the gap in our lives between where we are and where we want to be, both personally and professionally.  It’s then all about coaching you to remove the obstacles that are in your way and helping you install the habits of success.   Pete is the author of 20 published books, several of which have been best-sellers across the world, including Shut the Duck Up, Habit Busting, Life DIY, and Sort Your Life Out. He has also presented his own show on TV called The Coach and was the resident Life Coach on GMTV for 12 years.