All the things I wish knew in my 20s

By Jen Rosa

Do you often find yourself awake at night, thinking about the future?

What is your plan? Do you know what do REALLY want in life? Do you know what are the steps you need to take?

If you're here, reading these lines, then you belong to the 1% society. You truly believe that you can make it in life, willing to learn what you need to make it, and you are not willing to compromise on a mediocre life.

But…there is always this annoying voice in the back of your mind, telling you how you're just fantasizing, how you are too old and too far from success, and how bad you are in relationships. Oh, this voice isn't something you can ignore, it's extremely personal. This voice knows you very well, where you've cheated in life, where you've failed and never told anybody, and where are your deepest insecurities exist.

Friends and family won't help you either. They can even be worse then your own voice and talk you out of pursuing your deepest desires. You are alone and this battlefield – but this book will show you how to win this war.

In "Things I Wish I Knew When I was 20", you will discover all of the crucial things you should consider before taking a direction, learn how to make smart decisions about your future, and gain much, much more clarity about yourself, your potential, and your best possible path!

"Things I Wish I Knew When I was 20" will help you to:

• Reduce stress and worry

• Discover what you need to do in your life

• Overcome insecurities and self-doubt
• Be confident about your decisions in life
• Create a rich, meaningful life that will make you HAPPY

Full of inspiration, motivation, and practical advice that you can use TODAY – "Thing I Wish I Knew When I Was 20" will be your compass in life and show you the road to the life you are deeply desiring.

Feelings of depression, unsatisfaction, lack of importance, and even sadness – arise from not being clear about your future, and struggling to make the proper decision. In this book, you will learn exactly how to do that – so you can be 110% satisfied with your life and yourself.

Scroll up, click on "Buy Now with 1-Click" and Start Changing Your Life!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jennifer Lawrence
• Release date: Oct 12, 2019
• ISBN: 9781393863007

Book preview

I know how you feel.

I tried hard to fit in society and do what other people thought is best for me. I tried and I made it, and I was not happy. I wanted to start over but I was told over and over that this cannot be done and I was given reasons for this during hours. And even with all the reason, I still deeply desired another type of life. For far too long dreams and dreamers were regularly discouraged. Taking action or just going in a new direction is criticised, questioned and then declared to be  a bad choice due to involving risks. This is fear speaking. Fear of failure, of being criticised, of not being part of the community where everyone is sheltered. But living your life sheltered from criticism, mistakes and risks is a way of not truly living your life. Their main argument is You are wrong. You are making a mistake! And my answer is now: So what?? Mistakes are normal. They are not avoidable. Just like a baby falls 10 times before he or she learns how to walk, you will probably make mistakes too so you can learn. Don’t want to make mistakes? Then you are probably like a baby who won’t try to walk because is afraid to fall. It is strange how people see the sense in babies falling before learning to walk but do not see it in people making mistakes in order to progress. I have made mistakes too, just like everyone else. But at least I can say I got to do what I wanted. I had the experiences I desired. And years later, even though I did not expect it, the lessons I learnt from my own mistakes helped me a great deal. Not just the knowledge and better understanding of the things that interested me (even though I did fail), but they also made me stronger. I understood that failure does not define me, it is just a circumstance that can appear when you are at the beginning of something. And if there is someone who got far in something, it is because this person continued to persist and do whatever they liked, despite of the mistakes they made. Despite the fact that perhaps they were also told – You failed, you should give up now. It is not mistakes that make people give up, but their own lack of confidence. Some people just want to make it even more, others just give up and go.

These days mistakes are seen as something that should not happen, as something not desirable. True, at the moment, everyone would have preferred that the mistakes never would have occurred. But looking back, you do see the sense of it. It should be more acknowledged that they are normal and should not be regarded with blame or regret, but just an attempt that did not go so good as the others. Mistakes are not a bad thing.

In fact, as I look back now, I am just amused of the ridiculous things I did. I am glad that I tried all the things I wanted and went through a lot. I will sure have some funny stories to tell my grandchildren and some good advice to give.

I will have lived my life free and doing what I like. Not pushed in a corner and intimidated by public opinion. Without anyone else telling me what is best for me.

The beginning

Beginnings can be hard. Some people are blessed with having all the tools they need to succeed. But tools are not enough. It is their own achievement that they have learnt to handle them and use them in a way that worked, to the best of their abilities. Success does not just strike anyone who is not trying, out of the blue. Instead, ask yourself what was it that brought them to where they are. Observe them. They took the hard road and made it, and you will too.

There are cases when people do not have the tools either at first. They do not live in an encouraging environment, not sure where to start. And most of all, they lack the confidence to start. When you live in an environment with people who have no big thoughts, do small things and spend their time judging other - this can affect a person who does have big plans. These are the people who are in a hurry to point out the risks of dreaming big - which are naturally bigger then the risks of doing small things. They will ask a whole lot of things that you will probably

Reviews for All the things I wish knew in my 20s

[VanessaDea · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

Full of useful advice and uplifting optimism. Highly recommend it!